http://forum.santabanta.com/ Anything that bothers you is important to us. Write your queries about issues pertaining to relationships and sex, abuse at home or at the workplace, issues with parents, at work or at your study centers. All new threads will be moderated. en Wed, 22 May 2013 00:41:43 GMT vBulletin 60 http://media.santabanta.com/forumimages/misc/rss.png http://forum.santabanta.com/ http://forum.santabanta.com/showthread.htm?321847-hubby-being-childish&goto=newpost Mon, 20 May 2013 11:00:32 GMT I am 26 he is 28 and we have married 1 year. love marriage and been in relationship for 2 years. my problem is, when we were dating it was all cool and we had fun becaus that time we were both not spending much long time together. and it was fun time then as he is very sweet sometime. but now i am... I am 26 he is 28 and we have married 1 year. love marriage and been in relationship for 2 years. my problem is, when we were dating it was all cool and we had fun becaus that time we were both not spending much long time together. and it was fun time then as he is very sweet sometime. but now i am finding hubby very immature too. i am currently working in very good firm and my office friends are very matured and dress and talk well. I like them and spend a lot of time in work becaus it is difficult at home.
he works in a media company so relaxed office.he doesnt dress properly to, always jeans and tee. and he always make faces and gets angry in public and he acts very silly very much. throws tantrums, fights like small kid that You never listen to me, do this or he wont talk to me. not ready to compromise. doesnt eat if he is angry. i am younger but still more matured. his parents dont restrict his acts and pamper him too. they live far away too. tell me always to understand. that he will change slowly. but it is too slowly. i am getting tired.
recantly my office guy has been giving me lots of attention and i am liking being with him. just as friend. I dont want to upset my hubby, but he is not behaving like a hubby should.
i have always wanted smomeone who would care for me to, but all time I only am taking care of him. he loves me a lot, that is like a kid too. but that is not enough. he will never make plans for us, spends lots time with friends or on internet. does things without thinking. i am taking all risponciblity.
I am think of leaving him once i get better job, but parents wont take me back. i am feeling very very confused. when i talk to him, he just get angry and fights saying you think you are too good for me then leave and go. i dont know what to do. feeling depressed all time.
please help. ]]> Ask Preeto / Agony Aunt Unregistered http://forum.santabanta.com/showthread.htm?321847-hubby-being-childish