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    Sorry to be judgemental, but you both seemed...

    Sorry to be judgemental, but you both seemed quite immature for marriage :(
    Looks like she has made some big decisions OR she's very deeply hurt especially with the violence.
    However, I think, you...
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    Even if you love her, you got to have the balls...

    Even if you love her, you got to have the balls to say no to her messages etc. Be clear in your communication, that such messages etc bothers you and you want to be left alone to deal with the...
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    Hey Buddy, its really good to know about ur idea...

    Hey Buddy, its really good to know about ur idea to solve the business issue has been accepted and lots of work is being done on that which means it has got very good potential.
    Now let's go to your...
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    It is a sexual abuse, tho sadly the law can't do...

    It is a sexual abuse, tho sadly the law can't do much about it. You have to stand up and let him know very sternly that its not respectful at all.
    If he doesn't budge, revenge is a dish best served...
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    No is one word answer. ...

    No is one word answer.

    http://forum.santabanta.com/showthread.htm?343737-Am-I-worthless can be an eye opener for gals as well as guys.
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    Dear OP, first of all, you have to open your eyes...

    Dear OP, first of all, you have to open your eyes and realise your self worth. If he is de-meaning you verbally, keep a straight face and be calm. Just tell him enough is enough. You both had pasts,...
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    If a person is living his/her life on his/her own...

    If a person is living his/her life on his/her own terms, I can see so many people objecting to that (in this forum). It will take us few more generations before we can value individual freedom and...
  8. I won't advise you on the noises, as almost...

    I won't advise you on the noises, as almost everyone has picked up that.

    But on experiments, just try to go slow. Let him be comfortable in one position, gradually involving him more. I can't say...
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    Keep trying until you find someone really...

    Keep trying until you find someone really un-predictable and immature. May be, you should look for someone in the 19-23 age bracket. Or may be, go for someone who is really in a lot of demand by...
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    My few points: If you're willing to take care of...

    My few points:
    If you're willing to take care of her, the medical and mental issues doesn't seem ir-reparable. I think we should learn from our previous generations.. I have not heard of many people...
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    Buddy, you're undergoing the perfect way about...

    Buddy, you're undergoing the perfect way about your weight loss. So many people lose weight, but fat from the belly is the last place to reduce.
    About the frequent urination, don't worry. Many...
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    Buddy, if you feel your love is true, and you...

    Buddy, if you feel your love is true, and you guys are honest to each others, then I would suggest you guys have a talk about this one. If she can be a bit non-dominant, and if you can learn to...
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    Like what ariesgirl says above! If you both...

    Like what ariesgirl says above!

    If you both are good looking, people will say how come you are a perfect match. Something is fishy.
    If you are far good looking than him, people will say how come...
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    Enjoy the current moment than worrying about the...

    Enjoy the current moment than worrying about the future. Let some more time pass by, let your bonding grow, enjoy this phase.
    Once you think, you are mature enough for relationship or live in or...
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    Forget about the girl's virginity, first take...

    Forget about the girl's virginity, first take care of your mind that has lost virginity because of all such crappy old gen thoughts.
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    Well, girl, I think you trust the media, the news...

    Well, girl, I think you trust the media, the news papers too easily. Plus looks like you've started believing 100% on the MIL-DIL jokes. Its time to get real. Its time to look beyond the word MIL and...
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    If he's engaged, isn't that a red flag? Stop all...

    If he's engaged, isn't that a red flag? Stop all communication with him (I know it will hurt you), and don't entertain unless he breaks the engagement, which he will do if he's serious about you....
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    Ever heard the word 'foreplay'. Go Google. If you...

    Ever heard the word 'foreplay'. Go Google. If you can find, read the book - 'Mars and Venus in bed'.. am sure you will get all practical advises. Both of you.
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    See where our generation is heading to! Breaking...

    See where our generation is heading to! Breaking up with a person with whom there was a relationship of 8 years because he uses foul language! OMG
    What guarantee do you have that the next person...
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    Looks like your's is a family where its believed...

    Looks like your's is a family where its believed to combine all income to one bucket, and take out all income from that bucket. Its a nice concept, if everyone keeps the family before individuals....
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    Been there done that. Next time your colleagues...

    Been there done that.
    Next time your colleagues plan for some outing, ask them to include you. If you've been so nice with them, they will definitely take you with them.
    Everyday at work, make a...
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    Buddy, be patient, and have loads of foreplay....

    Buddy, be patient, and have loads of foreplay. You won't need oil or lube then.
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    I beg to differ from everyone who replied here....

    I beg to differ from everyone who replied here. You can be friends with someone whom you were in love before. But it can't be a seamless process.
    You will have to break up, move on. And once you're...
  24. Hi Archer_paradise, same here. We Indians have...

    Hi Archer_paradise, same here. We Indians have such a social structure that every work has got some repo attached to it. And our culture has this very big flaw whereby 'respecting' = 'agreeing'.. so...
  25. Dude, if you really want to work, really want to...

    Dude, if you really want to work, really want to learn, you will have to be able to gel nicely with the people. If from day one, you start demanding good work, without proving yourself, no one, mind...
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    See, if people want to find faults in you, they...

    See, if people want to find faults in you, they will find no matter how much you try to be someone like them.
    If the hubby wants to have an affair, so many men with beautiful wives also have it.
    ...
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    The next time he calls you, tell him straight,...

    The next time he calls you, tell him straight, that the way he has found your number, you have found her wife's number. And that you're immediately going to call her to inform everything along with...
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    Whenever there is a situation where you think you...

    Whenever there is a situation where you think you should show your anger, but you're just being calm, keep telling yourself - "its okay - I do not want to be like billions of people who have to...
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    Time has come up to be firm about your decision...

    Time has come up to be firm about your decision on how much to spend - ofcourse you've considered her demand/request about a lavish engagement. Wake up, tell her firmly that you can't spend so much...
  30. Next time you see her in the office coffee room,...

    Next time you see her in the office coffee room, or the lift, or the corridor, just say a simple 'Hi'. Don't mumble, say 'Hi' crisp n clear with confidence.
    If its Friday, ask her what she's...
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    Well, I guess the solution would be to keep...

    Well, I guess the solution would be to keep accounts of all of your expenses on a monthly basis. Both of you. So that you guys know, what is the ratio of your investment to the married life of...
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    Its high time, we have some NGO who can offer...

    Its high time, we have some NGO who can offer help to men in such scenario. As per Preeto Maam's advise, ask HR to play the sensible role. If possible, ask HR to mediate, where you sort the matter...
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    It's such a pain to see our society is going thru...

    It's such a pain to see our society is going thru such a transformation - there are many people who are okay with pre-marital sex, and many who are not.
    I feel, he's frustrated because there's a...
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    The next time you chat with her, explain her and...

    The next time you chat with her, explain her and show her this link to your query on sb forum :)
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    Now that you know the truth, there's no need to...

    Now that you know the truth, there's no need to feel guilty about it. Its okay, such things do happen. It was not your intention to hurt her. And you have shown your true concern by going to the doc...
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    Gudu Gudu Returns - buddy, looks like your...

    Gudu Gudu Returns - buddy, looks like your understanding of Islam is very shallow. I don't know whether you follow Islam or any other religion, but no religion supports cheating. If Islam allows...
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    Well, if someone falls in love with a person with...

    Well, if someone falls in love with a person with a big age gap, then nothing can be done.
    But, in your case, its being arranged, so why not arrange with someone in the same generation as you?...
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    So sorry to hear about your problem dude. But, I...

    So sorry to hear about your problem dude. But, I think, you've already died a lot everyday. Now, its time to take control of the situation, okay?
    So, first of all, man up, detach yourself from her....
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    Your mom is highly insecure indeed. I think you...

    Your mom is highly insecure indeed. I think you better sit her down, and have a talk. Let her know in calm n composed but stern words that though you love her, you will have to ignore her if she...
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    I think, the question is to be asked to yourself...

    I think, the question is to be asked to yourself - Do you (as a couple) really want a baby? Just because everyone is pressurising/suggesting/warning, is it fair to have baby for them? Is it just...
  41. Well, above responders have summed up the answer...

    Well, above responders have summed up the answer for you.
    I can help/guide if you want to consider UK. PM me in case interested.
    Good Luck!
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    Really immature of your wife (and your ex too)....

    Really immature of your wife (and your ex too). The best you can do is.. keep your self calm, write what you want to tell her on a piece of paper, don't get involved in arguments with wife, rather...
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    You know, what's bothering you is the absence of...

    You know, what's bothering you is the absence of closure; and there's no logical reasoning behind why people change. But, my friend, this is just a beginning. You gotta be strong for many more...
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    I would say this is nature's cruel joke. Nature...

    I would say this is nature's cruel joke. Nature wanted man n woman to marry n indulge in intimacy. But then, as a joke, nature gave different appettite to man and woman.
    Well, jokes apart, taking a...
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    Kya sab log sawal puchne wale ko hi judge kiye...

    Kya sab log sawal puchne wale ko hi judge kiye jaa rahe hai aur khud ko badalne ke liye bol rahe hai? Kyu bhai log?

    In my view, she's over dominating and clearly you're not liking it. Also, this...
  46. Poll: Hey Undercover, U MAD BRO?

    Hey Undercover, U MAD BRO?
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    Looks like another congress paid article to me,...

    Looks like another congress paid article to me, where the target is only one riot, and nothing about any other riots/disturbances.
    In my view, the more congress does it, the more harm it causes to...
  48. Mindblowing yaar! We used to be so rich in terms...

    Mindblowing yaar! We used to be so rich in terms of knowledge, culture, business, ethics. And now, I guess, we've lost most of it :(
  49. In these 7-8 years, the bar girls who were...

    In these 7-8 years, the bar girls who were already in their early 30s are near 40s now, and may not be fit enough to perform :(
  50. @Guy pearce : If all the muslims are like you,...

    @Guy pearce : If all the muslims are like you, even I would hate all of them, but fortunately many of my muslim friends/colleagues are not like you, and that's why I have respect for the religion,...
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