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    Please take a look at this thread.... ...

    Please take a look at this thread....


    http://forum.santabanta.com/forumdisplay.htm?9-Ask-Preeto-Agony-Aunt
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    Hi! Of course you are not worthless! You've just...

    Hi! Of course you are not worthless! You've just said that you are intelligent, beautiful and educated- capable of fending for yourself, so why would you let any man put you down?

    See, instead of...
  3. Ah, well, my dear, if anyone could have resolved...

    Ah, well, my dear, if anyone could have resolved this terrible malady of governance, then India would be on a fast(er) track! One just keeps hoping that some miracle worker would come along and shake...
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    Well, that is one of the most humiliating things...

    Well, that is one of the most humiliating things that I've heard on this forum. Look, you should be getting rather serious about this matter and communicate to this person exactly how demeaning it is...
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    Well, most future husbands can't really handle...

    Well, most future husbands can't really handle the intimate details of their future wives' love life. Keep that in mind when you feel your guilt getting the better of you. Of course, its completely...
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    Hi! Well, there's nothing I can add to what the...

    Hi! Well, there's nothing I can add to what the forum members have already said. The only thing is that when you marry, you must make sure that your wife is strong enough to carry you and ready to...
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    Hi! Well, looks like you guys do care for one...

    Hi! Well, looks like you guys do care for one another. But listen, whats the hurry to get either commit or to break up? Its not like you guys are seeing anyone else or anything and neither does it...
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    Hi! Well, this is an awful situation for you! The...

    Hi! Well, this is an awful situation for you! The thing is that if your sisters are saying that he has displays this behaviour, then he possibly could have. And then to get angry because they are not...
  9. Hi! look, it seems to me that you've handled the...

    Hi! look, it seems to me that you've handled the situation very well. The guy is confused and you really don't know what his bad situation is- way I see it, you're just guessing.
    Look, you, yourself...
  10. OK...look, weather your heart is functioning...

    OK...look, weather your heart is functioning normally or not can only be told to you by a doctor. However, it appears that you have some severe anxiety issues. If you start feeling insecure and...
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    Hi! Well, she's really got to stop this behaviour...

    Hi! Well, she's really got to stop this behaviour and learn to communicate instead of trying to put you on a guilt trip all the time. You have to convince her that a marriage needs stability in terms...
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    Hi! Well, what looks good on one face may not...

    Hi! Well, what looks good on one face may not look good on another! You should go to the sunglass shop and try out various options. you will be surprised at how may sunglasses look good on you. Try...
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    Hi! You know, five years is a long time and its...

    Hi! You know, five years is a long time and its not that easy to untangle the deep roots you grow within a relationship. Getting into a new relationship will not help unless you are completely ready...
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    Hi! So, you really have got yourself into a loop...

    Hi! So, you really have got yourself into a loop with this- and there's no way either of you is going to win, is there? So, ya, one of you is going to have to step up and diffuse the situation. Its...
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    Hi! Its unfortunate that both your sisters are...

    Hi! Its unfortunate that both your sisters are going through a rough patch in their marriages. However, these are the maladies of the modern family and society and the good thing is that they are...
  16. Hi! You will probably work out a mid path...

    Hi! You will probably work out a mid path regarding your sexual behaviour- one that pleases you both. Hopefully, you will be able to persuade him to shed his shyness and you can hold back a...
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    Hi! look, have you found out if he is uninvolved...

    Hi! look, have you found out if he is uninvolved and available? Go ahead and get interested only if he is not with someone. The easy way to do so is to simply ask him or any of his colleagues. Once...
  18. Well, I'm not sure what status the registration...

    Well, I'm not sure what status the registration of a non cognizable offense would have on your travel abroad. It would be best if you actually asked a lawyer that and he would also be able to advise...
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    So, you want a high maintenance woman! Many men...

    So, you want a high maintenance woman! Many men complain of the very thing that you desire, so I'm sure there are no dearth of such ladies anywhere. Just a word of caution though that while a woman...
  20. hmmm...its distressing all right. While the final...

    hmmm...its distressing all right. While the final choice is yours but the thing to consider before you take any step, is are you both adult enough and earning well enough to be comfortable on your...
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    Deal with it, what else? In the best way that you...

    Deal with it, what else? In the best way that you can without causing hurt to anyone, if that's possible. Obviously your girl would be feeling hurt and angry, specially since you are interested now...
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    Hi! Look, the thing is that its OK to watch porn...

    Hi! Look, the thing is that its OK to watch porn with your wife as long as she is all right with it. If it disgusts her or she's very uncomfortable with it, then of course its not OK. So, see how she...
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    Hi there! You already know that your reaction to...

    Hi there! You already know that your reaction to your cousins and your feelings of inferiority are not justified. Look, its not they who are making yo feel bad- its you, yourself.
    Give yourself a...
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    Hi! Tricking him into seeing a psychiatrist is...

    Hi! Tricking him into seeing a psychiatrist is going to be no good. He will receive help only if he opts to go to a counsellor himself. Basically, the family has to convince him to calm down about...
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    I'm laughing! This is a very witty response!

    I'm laughing! This is a very witty response!
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    Hi! It seems that your mind is pretty much made...

    Hi! It seems that your mind is pretty much made up as to what you want to do. Could be because of the reasons that you are saying or could be that the relationship has simply run its course and run...
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    Its not often that a query enrages me...but...

    Its not often that a query enrages me...but forgive me, I do understand what it is that you are trying to get he forum members to say!
    Calm down!
    No one is forcing you to have a relationship with...
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    Well, listen to your head, my dear. You had a...

    Well, listen to your head, my dear. You had a relationship with an amazing woman! Celebrate that...but there are many, many very nice, very wonderful people out there. Give yourself a chance.
    Also,...
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    Hi! Sorry to hear about this situation, my dear....

    Hi! Sorry to hear about this situation, my dear. But telling the lady to 'back off' is not really going to help- it's your father who has to do the backing off. Why not have a word with him on this...
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    Well, its going to take a while to lose about a...

    Well, its going to take a while to lose about a hundred and twenty kgs, so no 'fast solution' is possible. Once you control your weight issues, most of the other stuff will get sorted out. You would...
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    Well, you know....the whole things, as you...

    Well, you know....the whole things, as you describe it, sounds a bit surreal! Two woman and a cab driver fighting and screaming at an unsuspecting fellow, who did and said nothing! Can't say that its...
  32. Well, my dear- the path, as your family and...

    Well, my dear- the path, as your family and husband are telling you, is actually clear. If you want to be with H, you have to take the responsibility to do so. The question is that if H's family has...
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    Oh, my dear lady! Experiments between children...

    Oh, my dear lady! Experiments between children are natural and not at all uncommon. Please do not scare and harass your daughter in this manner as if she is an adult who knows all about moral and...
  34. Hi! well, this is a situation all right! the...

    Hi! well, this is a situation all right! the thing is my dear, that the woman is an adult and can take her own decisions regarding her marriage. I realise that many lives are involved- people whom...
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    Well, you know, that decision is completely...

    Well, you know, that decision is completely yours. Its a good thing that you want to get back together with your wife, but if she has displayed suicidal and physiologically disturbed behaviour,...
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    Hi! Well, if you want to be reminded of the kiss...

    Hi! Well, if you want to be reminded of the kiss for the rest of your life...if you want tears and traumas and questions- then go ahead! Who are we to stand between you and torture?
    Seriously, it...
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    Oh my dear, you will be BETTER than you ever were...

    Oh my dear, you will be BETTER than you ever were before! Yes, sometimes one is not prepared for pregnancy and the changes in one's body. For feeling bloated and uncomfortable all the time. Nobody...
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    She must speak her mind clearly to this 'friend'...

    She must speak her mind clearly to this 'friend' and tell him that she is interested ONLY in study and not anything else. If he persists in his attentions, she should warn him that she will complain...
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    OK! Right now, don't tell your mom. The best...

    OK! Right now, don't tell your mom. The best thing would be to hint to your father- or tell him right out- that you know there is another woman in his life. It could just be a fling- cold be that...
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    Well, seems like you and your husband need to see...

    Well, seems like you and your husband need to see a counsellor if you want your marriage to work. Sometimes small ego problems can become causes of a huge rift. the 'you said' 'she said' situation...
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    Killing yourself? Whatever for? You are a Med...

    Killing yourself? Whatever for? You are a Med school graduate- no less- AND have supportive family- then why would you feel so dependent and suffer from such depression and low self esteem?

    Pull...
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    Well my dear- you are asking the question that...

    Well my dear- you are asking the question that every man must have asked at some point in his life or another. The answer is, that there is really no answer. all that the 'upset' female wants is a...
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    Hi! I understand and appreciate your worry and...

    Hi! I understand and appreciate your worry and concern about your brother, but my dear, is there anything you can do about it but offer support, which you are already doing? See, no one outside a...
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    Goodness me! If you want to gift your fiance an...

    Goodness me! If you want to gift your fiance an i-phone, just go ahead and do it, specially if you can afford to do so. If you were a struggling person who had little money, I cold understand the...
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    Well, maybe you should just look for another job...

    Well, maybe you should just look for another job if things are not falling in place here. Sometimes it does happen that we are complete misfits in an organisation- not our fault and not that of the...
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    Looks like you are taking all your frustration...

    Looks like you are taking all your frustration out on your mother, who seems to be a soft target. Agreed you are a depressed person, but you do this with your mom because you know you can get away...
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    Hi! Well, it looks like you will have to let this...

    Hi! Well, it looks like you will have to let this one go as a bad bet. She is obviously experimental and not averse to having little flings. She expects that she will be forgiven after every...
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    Well.....it seems to be a messy sort of a...

    Well.....it seems to be a messy sort of a relationship, and a rather immature one. I believe you both need to see a marriage counsellor. certainly when matters have come to a point that you put your...
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    Hi! Well, its a situation! Listen, my dear-you...

    Hi! Well, its a situation! Listen, my dear-you really have to work on yourself to keep strong and if it means that you need some counselling- please go for it.
    See, if your mom finds some solace in...
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    Look, too much discussion on this issue will only...

    Look, too much discussion on this issue will only serve to confuse you further. I've come in again because the matter seems still under some debate. You have to communicate with HER and have some...
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