Search:

Type: Posts; User: rhythmic; Keyword(s):

Page 1 of 4 1 2 3 4

Search: Search took 0.30 seconds.

  1. Replies
    6
    Views
    2,122

    This is not even a valid reason to get depressed....

    This is not even a valid reason to get depressed.

    I know someone, who was in the same situation as you. 32 yr old, loan from parents, no savings, no investments unmarried younger sister, single....
  2. Replies
    5
    Views
    1,551

    Lady, compose yourself. Look at your daughter and...

    Lady, compose yourself. Look at your daughter and her smile, you have got such a cute reason not to think about suicide.

    Sad n unfortunate, but true - Indian households have yet not woken up to...
  3. Replies
    7
    Views
    2,279

    This is the low of your life, it can't get any...

    This is the low of your life, it can't get any worse. Believe me, now onwards, it can only get better.

    Just wake your senses, and pour your heart and focus on a venture, and I am sure, you will be...
  4. Replies
    6
    Views
    1,085

    In situations like such, its always to successful...

    In situations like such, its always to successful to have a third-person kinda discussion. Meaning -

    When you both are alone, not in a hurry, and in normal good mood, tell him - you are feeling...
  5. Replies
    11
    Views
    4,631

    @Logical_Guru : Kuch bhi! :banghead1: OP,...

    @Logical_Guru : Kuch bhi! :banghead1:

    OP, people who throw tantrums need someone who is very calm-caring-loving. Be that kind of brother to her. Ask your mum to do the same. Looks like she was...
  6. Replies
    7
    Views
    2,377

    Better be alone than be in a bad company. Learn...

    Better be alone than be in a bad company.
    Learn to say No - will come handy entire life.
  7. Replies
    9
    Views
    3,629

    He is alcoholic, physically assaulted you, and is...

    He is alcoholic, physically assaulted you, and is ir-responsible. Lady, the time to stand up for yourself is NOW.
    1. Detach yourself from him, if you have not done so.
    2. Start thinking of ways, so...
  8. 1. You do not have to kiss your boss's ***, but...

    1. You do not have to kiss your boss's ***, but remember neither to kick.
    2. Keep your eyes open to be at the right time at the right place - in other words - look out for projects that has a...
  9. Replies
    18
    Views
    5,915

    "Her justification is that in a relationship, a...

    "Her justification is that in a relationship, a girl doesn't spend.". Talk about equality.

    1. Congratulations for the break up.
    2. Get real man. Not oweing anyone a rupee is a good thought, but...
  10. Replies
    11
    Views
    3,578

    Short answer - Good that your stood up for your...

    Short answer - Good that your stood up for your self, now time to run away from her.

    A bit long answer - She knows that you are genuinely interested in her, while she is confused whether she wants...
  11. Replies
    18
    Views
    6,479

    Your gf was a person in your life at a moment,...

    Your gf was a person in your life at a moment, when she was the world for you. You have this natural human urge to contact her, to know about her, how she is doing; just like any close buddy you...
  12. Replies
    13
    Views
    2,407

    If you are really 24, behave like one. On a...

    If you are really 24, behave like one.

    On a serious note, I think, you need self analysis and some self realisation.
  13. Hey, I can certainly help you with this one. I...

    Hey, I can certainly help you with this one. I have a business set-up in UK and accountant's firm has UK as well as Indian operations. I am with them for over 5 years now, so if you want pm me, and...
  14. Replies
    38
    Views
    7,343

    From the query, you look like a person, who likes...

    From the query, you look like a person, who likes to focus on the current relationship, rather than thinking about the past, be it your's or your to-be-partner's. But we (including you) don't know...
  15. Replies
    16
    Views
    4,596

    Whatever you decide, don't delete that message....

    Whatever you decide, don't delete that message. The police can track the ip, given that it was not from a mobile number, in case if you ever decide to seek police's help.
  16. Replies
    21
    Views
    2,288

    I am from a Open/General category, but do...

    I am from a Open/General category, but do understand the plight of people who have not been able to progress because of casteism in ancient India. I really want to see everyone as equal. But, it will...
  17. Replies
    10
    Views
    3,233

    Immaturity. Shallow mindset. Nothing else. Call...

    Immaturity. Shallow mindset. Nothing else. Call her 'behenji'. Khush? :)
  18. Replies
    31
    Views
    4,166

    I got 3 very interesting posts for you from quora...

    I got 3 very interesting posts for you from quora -
    http://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-positive-benefits-of-laziness-and-procrastination

    http://www.quora.com/Why-am-I-lazy

    and...
  19. Replies
    11
    Views
    6,139

    Dil bada karo.. pehle usko maaf karo, fir apne...

    Dil bada karo.. pehle usko maaf karo, fir apne aap ko maaf karo. You seem to have a nice relation, except for this fact, don't let it go for one hiccup.
  20. Replies
    20
    Views
    4,971

    First of all, understand that this is just a...

    First of all, understand that this is just a start of pressure. If society (your relatives n friends n neighbours n colleagues) realize that you are seedha-saadha to their pressure, they will put...
  21. I think it was the right mix of both, so no point...

    I think it was the right mix of both, so no point in crying foul for both the sides.
    Brits were going everywhere to rule, enslave, loot.
    India was, though rich, not united, and the wealth was not...
  22. 1. Did she take any steps to separate ? Has she...

    1. Did she take any steps to separate ? Has she begun divorce proceedings?
    If she is serious about relationship with you, she got to take some efforts towards it. Otherwise it means, she's just...
  23. Replies
    15
    Views
    4,553

    He is addicted (or on the verge of addiction) to...

    He is addicted (or on the verge of addiction) to porn. As preeto Mam said, lay down the rules, and don't let him cross your comfort zone. And just suggest him that he is porn addict, without being...
  24. Replies
    11
    Views
    1,867

    Yes, ye chain marketing wale log weird hi hote...

    Yes, ye chain marketing wale log weird hi hote hai.. you say no and they kinda change their behaviour towards you. But in the end, you will realise, that such friendship is not worth it.

    Note that...
  25. Replies
    22
    Views
    9,688

    Right now start looking for some NGO, some help...

    Right now start looking for some NGO, some help group which can guide you to come out of this marriage. With their help, get in touch with police and lawyers.

    And while you find these help, look...
  26. Replies
    11
    Views
    1,792

    Welcome to our Indian hypocrite mindset. "i too...

    Welcome to our Indian hypocrite mindset. "i too won't consider a guy who may be too large for me. " .
    You can have certain expectations but not him. Totally unfair.
    If it was just a fun game that...
  27. Replies
    15
    Views
    5,571

    Buddy, I can see some warning signs here. And as...

    Buddy, I can see some warning signs here. And as you have found out its her argumentative nature that's putting it off for you, I suggest address that first. I know it will be difficult, but as you...
  28. Replies
    12
    Views
    3,942

    I have two links for you. Go thru them, and...

    I have two links for you. Go thru them, and remember its your life and so your decision - whether to have kids or not.
    http://www.quora.com/Why-do-some-people-not-want-children-1

    and
    ...
  29. If your intentions are very clear to remain just...

    If your intentions are very clear to remain just friends with your child-hood friends and you had no gulu-mulu bonding in the past, just ignore your gf's jealousy. Jut let your gf know about this...
  30. Replies
    6
    Views
    5,092

    A lot of Indian joint families have this problem....

    A lot of Indian joint families have this problem. Your attitude of countering him may not work because he might still be taking you as a kid. Try to take your wife n mum in your confidence. Slowly...
  31. Replies
    8
    Views
    2,068

    Mr LiveLif3, you please check your source of...

    Mr LiveLif3, you please check your source of information. I think, you are wrong.

    "Abortion has been legal in India since 1971, when the Medical Termination of Pregnancy Act was passed. The law is...
  32. Looks like you're overly dependent on your hubby....

    Looks like you're overly dependent on your hubby. Make some friends of your own. Start working. If finding a job is difficult, do some volunteer work, occupy yourself.
    And yeah, any kind of life, if...
  33. Why blame only the 'dulha' :P ? Aren't the 6 year...

    Why blame only the 'dulha' :P ? Aren't the 6 year old's parent's / guardian's equally responsible? Plus the society there?
  34. Replies
    14
    Views
    1,324

    I believe religion came into existence because...

    I believe religion came into existence because ancient humans needed some way of life, some law, some way of connecting to each others. It was a good invention, but do we need religion anymore now...
  35. Replies
    10
    Views
    1,618

    A couple of points - 1. Some countries can give...

    A couple of points -
    1. Some countries can give permanent visa to her, if she's solely dependent on you, and you're the only offspring. If you are in UK, pm me, I will be glad to guide you.
    2. If...
  36. Replies
    6
    Views
    2,590

    Draw a line. Your money is for the family, not...

    Draw a line. Your money is for the family, not for his experimentation anymore. Period.
  37. Replies
    12
    Views
    3,412

    If I look at people who are married for a decade...

    If I look at people who are married for a decade or longer, I find -
    Marriages(love or arranged) eventually turn into 'friends with benefits' kinda deal. The lovey dovey feeling fades away, if it...
  38. AFAIK, there are some evens which are 'upon...

    AFAIK, there are some evens which are 'upon invitation only' to where the class crowd goes. Those classy people who didn't receive invite, go to the clubs of some 5 star hotel. But the percentage is...
  39. Time beta time. How did you even expect to feel...

    Time beta time. How did you even expect to feel normal n happy in a new place so soon? Work on it, and you will find happiness and peace here.
  40. If you saved your virginity, it was your choice...

    If you saved your virginity, it was your choice (and lack of opportunity), and it was your choice of a gift. But 'expecting' someone else to give the same gift is spoiling your peace.
    If you really...
  41. Replies
    10
    Views
    2,380

    Accept that it will not be an easy way out here....

    Accept that it will not be an easy way out here. Give yourself some time. Its okay to feel like shit sometimes, just promise yourself, that "Its just a phase and I have to come out of it".

    And its...
  42. Replies
    10
    Views
    2,328

    Your answer lies in the fact about yourself - "i...

    Your answer lies in the fact about yourself - "i m very happy and i love my wife". Also depends on whether you want to learn from your own mistakes or other's mistakes :)
  43. Replies
    5
    Views
    1,411

    Buddy, get a life outside work. Hang out with...

    Buddy, get a life outside work. Hang out with friends in the evenings, do movies, watch some tv, restaurants.. whatever takes ur fancy. This will help your brain to switch context. Also, tell...
  44. Replies
    11
    Views
    2,364

    It is very much possible. But, you can't depend...

    It is very much possible. But, you can't depend much on the recruitment agencies. Recruitment agencies and established companies have to go by the policies they have set themselves when it comes to...
  45. Replies
    7
    Views
    2,826

    ->Is there anything I can do prevent myself from...

    ->Is there anything I can do prevent myself from thinking about her even though its once in a while thing?
    First of all, it is okay to think about her. Just remember to think about her as a past....
  46. Replies
    12
    Views
    4,571

    1. Accept the fact that you will feel like shit...

    1. Accept the fact that you will feel like shit for coming few weeks/months. Just tell yourself - its okay. Its just a phase and I will get over it.
    2. Small town boy, values relationship/friendship...
  47. Replies
    7
    Views
    2,026

    Buddy, what is the guarantee that even after you...

    Buddy, what is the guarantee that even after you doing lots for her, she wouldn't change her mind? There are scenarios where people change even after being full fledged in a relation. So, don't let...
  48. Replies
    8
    Views
    4,058

    Hey Buddy, I feel your pain. I would suggest -...

    Hey Buddy, I feel your pain. I would suggest -
    first thing first - a peaceful mutually agreed divorce. But see if approaching Ms Bharadwaj's NGO will help...
  49. Replies
    14
    Views
    7,592

    First of all, take it easy. I assume this is...

    First of all, take it easy. I assume this is first time for you, so it has its own pressure. Try to enjoy cuddling n foreplay, and not focus only on orgasm. This way atleast the endorphines that get...
  50. Replies
    10
    Views
    2,587

    Drop hints. See how she reciprocates. Don't hurry...

    Drop hints. See how she reciprocates. Don't hurry up without knowing the person within and her intentions and willingness, as you might end up getting hurt anyways.
    If she reciprocates positively,...
Results 1 to 50 of 199
Page 1 of 4 1 2 3 4