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    Whatever you decide, don't delete that message....

    Whatever you decide, don't delete that message. The police can track the ip, given that it was not from a mobile number, in case if you ever decide to seek police's help.
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    I am from a Open/General category, but do...

    I am from a Open/General category, but do understand the plight of people who have not been able to progress because of casteism in ancient India. I really want to see everyone as equal. But, it will...
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    Immaturity. Shallow mindset. Nothing else. Call...

    Immaturity. Shallow mindset. Nothing else. Call her 'behenji'. Khush? :)
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    I got 3 very interesting posts for you from quora...

    I got 3 very interesting posts for you from quora -
    http://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-positive-benefits-of-laziness-and-procrastination

    http://www.quora.com/Why-am-I-lazy

    and...
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    Dil bada karo.. pehle usko maaf karo, fir apne...

    Dil bada karo.. pehle usko maaf karo, fir apne aap ko maaf karo. You seem to have a nice relation, except for this fact, don't let it go for one hiccup.
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    First of all, understand that this is just a...

    First of all, understand that this is just a start of pressure. If society (your relatives n friends n neighbours n colleagues) realize that you are seedha-saadha to their pressure, they will put...
  7. I think it was the right mix of both, so no point...

    I think it was the right mix of both, so no point in crying foul for both the sides.
    Brits were going everywhere to rule, enslave, loot.
    India was, though rich, not united, and the wealth was not...
  8. 1. Did she take any steps to separate ? Has she...

    1. Did she take any steps to separate ? Has she begun divorce proceedings?
    If she is serious about relationship with you, she got to take some efforts towards it. Otherwise it means, she's just...
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    He is addicted (or on the verge of addiction) to...

    He is addicted (or on the verge of addiction) to porn. As preeto Mam said, lay down the rules, and don't let him cross your comfort zone. And just suggest him that he is porn addict, without being...
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    Yes, ye chain marketing wale log weird hi hote...

    Yes, ye chain marketing wale log weird hi hote hai.. you say no and they kinda change their behaviour towards you. But in the end, you will realise, that such friendship is not worth it.

    Note that...
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    Right now start looking for some NGO, some help...

    Right now start looking for some NGO, some help group which can guide you to come out of this marriage. With their help, get in touch with police and lawyers.

    And while you find these help, look...
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    Welcome to our Indian hypocrite mindset. "i too...

    Welcome to our Indian hypocrite mindset. "i too won't consider a guy who may be too large for me. " .
    You can have certain expectations but not him. Totally unfair.
    If it was just a fun game that...
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    Buddy, I can see some warning signs here. And as...

    Buddy, I can see some warning signs here. And as you have found out its her argumentative nature that's putting it off for you, I suggest address that first. I know it will be difficult, but as you...
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    I have two links for you. Go thru them, and...

    I have two links for you. Go thru them, and remember its your life and so your decision - whether to have kids or not.
    http://www.quora.com/Why-do-some-people-not-want-children-1

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    ...
  15. If your intentions are very clear to remain just...

    If your intentions are very clear to remain just friends with your child-hood friends and you had no gulu-mulu bonding in the past, just ignore your gf's jealousy. Jut let your gf know about this...
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    A lot of Indian joint families have this problem....

    A lot of Indian joint families have this problem. Your attitude of countering him may not work because he might still be taking you as a kid. Try to take your wife n mum in your confidence. Slowly...
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    Mr LiveLif3, you please check your source of...

    Mr LiveLif3, you please check your source of information. I think, you are wrong.

    "Abortion has been legal in India since 1971, when the Medical Termination of Pregnancy Act was passed. The law is...
  18. Looks like you're overly dependent on your hubby....

    Looks like you're overly dependent on your hubby. Make some friends of your own. Start working. If finding a job is difficult, do some volunteer work, occupy yourself.
    And yeah, any kind of life, if...
  19. Why blame only the 'dulha' :P ? Aren't the 6 year...

    Why blame only the 'dulha' :P ? Aren't the 6 year old's parent's / guardian's equally responsible? Plus the society there?
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    I believe religion came into existence because...

    I believe religion came into existence because ancient humans needed some way of life, some law, some way of connecting to each others. It was a good invention, but do we need religion anymore now...
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    A couple of points - 1. Some countries can give...

    A couple of points -
    1. Some countries can give permanent visa to her, if she's solely dependent on you, and you're the only offspring. If you are in UK, pm me, I will be glad to guide you.
    2. If...
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    Draw a line. Your money is for the family, not...

    Draw a line. Your money is for the family, not for his experimentation anymore. Period.
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    If I look at people who are married for a decade...

    If I look at people who are married for a decade or longer, I find -
    Marriages(love or arranged) eventually turn into 'friends with benefits' kinda deal. The lovey dovey feeling fades away, if it...
  24. AFAIK, there are some evens which are 'upon...

    AFAIK, there are some evens which are 'upon invitation only' to where the class crowd goes. Those classy people who didn't receive invite, go to the clubs of some 5 star hotel. But the percentage is...
  25. Time beta time. How did you even expect to feel...

    Time beta time. How did you even expect to feel normal n happy in a new place so soon? Work on it, and you will find happiness and peace here.
  26. If you saved your virginity, it was your choice...

    If you saved your virginity, it was your choice (and lack of opportunity), and it was your choice of a gift. But 'expecting' someone else to give the same gift is spoiling your peace.
    If you really...
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    Accept that it will not be an easy way out here....

    Accept that it will not be an easy way out here. Give yourself some time. Its okay to feel like shit sometimes, just promise yourself, that "Its just a phase and I have to come out of it".

    And its...
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    Your answer lies in the fact about yourself - "i...

    Your answer lies in the fact about yourself - "i m very happy and i love my wife". Also depends on whether you want to learn from your own mistakes or other's mistakes :)
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    Buddy, get a life outside work. Hang out with...

    Buddy, get a life outside work. Hang out with friends in the evenings, do movies, watch some tv, restaurants.. whatever takes ur fancy. This will help your brain to switch context. Also, tell...
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    It is very much possible. But, you can't depend...

    It is very much possible. But, you can't depend much on the recruitment agencies. Recruitment agencies and established companies have to go by the policies they have set themselves when it comes to...
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    ->Is there anything I can do prevent myself from...

    ->Is there anything I can do prevent myself from thinking about her even though its once in a while thing?
    First of all, it is okay to think about her. Just remember to think about her as a past....
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    1. Accept the fact that you will feel like shit...

    1. Accept the fact that you will feel like shit for coming few weeks/months. Just tell yourself - its okay. Its just a phase and I will get over it.
    2. Small town boy, values relationship/friendship...
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    Buddy, what is the guarantee that even after you...

    Buddy, what is the guarantee that even after you doing lots for her, she wouldn't change her mind? There are scenarios where people change even after being full fledged in a relation. So, don't let...
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    Hey Buddy, I feel your pain. I would suggest -...

    Hey Buddy, I feel your pain. I would suggest -
    first thing first - a peaceful mutually agreed divorce. But see if approaching Ms Bharadwaj's NGO will help...
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    First of all, take it easy. I assume this is...

    First of all, take it easy. I assume this is first time for you, so it has its own pressure. Try to enjoy cuddling n foreplay, and not focus only on orgasm. This way atleast the endorphines that get...
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    Drop hints. See how she reciprocates. Don't hurry...

    Drop hints. See how she reciprocates. Don't hurry up without knowing the person within and her intentions and willingness, as you might end up getting hurt anyways.
    If she reciprocates positively,...
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    In our age, and in our society, things have taken...

    In our age, and in our society, things have taken such a turn that a simple comment from a girl "I wish Husbands would do Kitchen work more often to give us wives a break" is assumed as an invitation...
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    In industries like journalism, films, theatres...

    In industries like journalism, films, theatres etc its the network that helps more than talent/content. So, go to places where they go, and build some bonds first, before disclosing your...
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    Hey OP, I feel your problem. All of us, at some...

    Hey OP, I feel your problem. All of us, at some time or other, have faced this, or have to go thru what you are going thru. Remember, its just a phase. May be, being a bit open with people you help...
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    Did this thought not come to your mind "log kya...

    Did this thought not come to your mind "log kya kahenge" before posting such query?
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    You know what, you just need interview practice....

    You know what, you just need interview practice. What you can do it -
    Apply for those jobs where you are not interested (like out of city, out of country, back in India, low pay etc), and keep...
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    First thing first - stop reacting to those toxic...

    First thing first - stop reacting to those toxic people around you.
    Second, as Preeto Maam said - try to be emotionless n businesslike with them.
    Third, concentrate more on your money sources, get...
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    Hey buddy! She's fond of you, and you're fond of...

    Hey buddy! She's fond of you, and you're fond of her. At the moment.
    And since she's comfortable meeting you, hang out with you, all you can do is increase the frequency. Go slow over the matter,...
  44. Hey OP, you've rightly said - "The girls size may...

    Hey OP, you've rightly said - "The girls size may have changed but the mindset has not." It will take ages for her to change that. As Preeto Maam suggested, counselling n therapy might help.
    All I...
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    Whoa! Just one dream and you are head over heels...

    Whoa! Just one dream and you are head over heels in infatuation. I think, its time 'you make up your own mind' and be at peace with whatever your thoughts are.
    Just tell yourself, its a phase and...
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    I would suggest you ask this question to yourself...

    I would suggest you ask this question to yourself - what is the base of this relationship? Love/Lust/Loneliness/Peer pressure? Analyse deep. Take a break from each others after mutual agreement. If...
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    I know it will be difficult, but I believe there...

    I know it will be difficult, but I believe there are only two ways of moving on - one is cold revenge and the other is warm forgiveness. Decide for your own, which one is peaceful for you and take...
  48. Thread: Bores

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    Its okay to be boring. But if the person realizes...

    Its okay to be boring. But if the person realizes it, its good, as there is a chance of improvement.
    Also, something can be categorized as boring by someone can be interesting for someone else.
    ...
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    Hey OP, I don't think n feel IT career is that...

    Hey OP, I don't think n feel IT career is that bad (I have been in IT for a decade now).
    I would suggest, if your workplace is this bad, you still keep doing the good. Don't try to change your...
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    Am surprised you don't find it weird. Let me help...

    Am surprised you don't find it weird. Let me help you out -
    Imagine the elder sister approaches your family with interest in your younger bro (if you do not have one, imagine a younger bro too). ...
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