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    Hi........... We are married couple from Karnataka. The chemistry between us is really very good but once in a life we wanna go for threesome with a handsome guy.
    i wanna know if it is okay to go for this because we both love each other and our marital life also going on smoothly.
    please reply
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    Threesomes always sound like a good idea when our partnered sex lives dwindle, but few of us actually address the real reason for the sexual lag. Instead we venture off into the bed of a temporary solution and ultimately the catalyst for a break up.

    The mere fact that you decided to have an open relationship with terms says that either one or both of you wasn't completely satisfied.

    Also, healthy relationships are a complete package- emotionally, spiritually, mentally and sexually.

    Of course, no relationship is perfect and there are always things that couples can work through together, but the first step to solving a relationship issue is recognizing that there is indeed an issue. Then you must openly communicate with each other until a common agreement has been reached. Don't accept vague statements of dissatisfaction. Your relationship cannot continue to grow if one partner refuses to communicate exactly what's bothering him/her.

    Force her to the table and get to the bottom of his sudden need for outside action. Asking her to air his troubles isn't pressure, it's called communication. If she still refuses to help you help him, you may want to consider taking some time apart. This is a difficult thing to do, especially given the other positive aspects of the relationship, but eventually this issue over your sex life will result in extreme unhappiness and thus a breakup. See the writing on the wall. Her need for outside sex with you as a participant may eventually develop into a desire for action without you.

    Love should never be confused with happiness. It's human to love things that aren't necessarily good for us. Our goal in partnerships is to develop the most complete loving bond possible. This is an evolutionary process that takes real work and equal happiness, not temporary solutions. Let him know that his behavior concerns you and he should be sensitive to your needs like he is his own.

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    The risk involved is very high. Probably you would like to have a rethought about this. Are you jealous of the smooth flow of your own marital life? What exactly is the role of a third guy in your life?

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    damn... i cant even think abt it.. i wudnt recomend to do it.. coz ur smooth going life can bceom hell...

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    If life is going really smooth...

    Why do you need some third person ...

    Get your life into some real action drama

    Whats the need of threesome!

    Or is it some weird fantasy?

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    well when chemistry is gud and u both are ready then , all the best . But do talk abt this with each other in a detail before going into it coz it might lead to disaster if u both are uncomfortable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sahil6969 View Post
    Hi........... We are married couple from Karnataka. The chemistry between us is really very good but once in a life we wanna go for threesome with a handsome guy.
    i wanna know if it is okay to go for this because we both love each other and our marital life also going on smoothly.
    please reply
    no no non ono no.......stop it now

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    I am going to honest. Dont but in another guy. The hell that he is handsome. Why in the living world u would want to ruin ur merriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sahil6969 View Post
    Hi........... We are married couple from Karnataka. The chemistry between us is really very good but once in a life we wanna go for threesome with a handsome guy.
    i wanna know if it is okay to go for this because we both love each other and our marital life also going on smoothly.
    please reply
    go on..have a threesome.. let ur girl know that there is someone out there who can do a better job then u.. all the very best to u man!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kam chor View Post
    go on..have a threesome.. let ur girl know that there is someone out there who can do a better job then u.. all the very best to u man!!!
    hey.......can u plz join with us for threesome...pls reply

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    Quote Originally Posted by sahil6969 View Post
    Hi........... We are married couple from Karnataka. The chemistry between us is really very good but once in a life we wanna go for threesome with a handsome guy.
    i wanna know if it is okay to go for this because we both love each other and our marital life also going on smoothly.
    please reply
    This is totally a wrong idea u r having

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    Default 3somes can be great..

    Listen.. You can have a lot of fun as long as you and your partner are open and agree this is something you both want. There needs to be a lot of open communication tho!! For instance: any insecurities either of you may have. My advice is not to rush into it or you may have a lot of regrets or even ruin your relationship. Talk it over and set boundaries if you have to (maybe no intercourse?). But if its something that turns the both of you on, by all means give it a try!! It can be super hott!! And btw.. There are plenty of swing sights with forums with more open minded ppl than are on here and you will get better advice

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    R u really insane but if u really interested in ruining ur happy life......then definitely go fr it

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    Get over "SEX" and "Respect" each other.. !!

    Respect your Bodies, just dont throw them at anyone... !! You are a married couple and you want another man to tell people how she Screwed your wife.. !! Ridiculous.. !!

    G'day

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    Watch the movie "One, Two, Many"...The Last Dialogue of movie said by hero is my answer.!!..

    P.S:- The movie is based on threesome..!
    Last edited by bondx99; 01-03-2009 at 05:10 PM.
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