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    dear aunt my friend nishant is in a problem he loves a girl from 3 years he loves her madly and serious but one month ago her parents knew about it and they are ver angry with both the girl and him and whole thing..
    both nishant and me dont know what happned but now the girl refuse to talk to him she is making excuses and say that she dont like him as he drinks but he doesnt do anythign like that. she loved him before but now this is a change we cant understand..
    is it due to her parents pressure? or she was pretending love to him? what shall we do now/?? plssss help

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    Well, if they have been together for three years, then its not likely that she was pretending all this time. But it does seem possible that she has backtracked because of her parents' opposition.

    See, the thing is that if she has decided to step back, it would be only fair that she should tell him the reason. Do see if its possible to have a conversation so that things are clarified and if they do have to part, let it be nicely and honestly.

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    3 years is a long time so I think that your friend deserves an explanation from this gal. It will be very hard for him to move on with his life not knowing what the truth behind the seperation was.

    If you can, try and speak to this girl and tell her that she owes your friend an explanation. Tell her! Don't ask her!

    If she does not want to be with him, its fine, its her decision, but she must explain herself and seperate on honest terms. Make sure you tell her this. If she still does not agree, then she is not worth the effort. If she says she can't or won't do it, tell her never to speak to either you or your friend ever again!!

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    if her parents doesn`t want her to talk 2 him then tell your friend 2 forget her.

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    i doubt its parents pressure. talking with her to know her mind will help you. and then proceed accordingly

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeto Maam View Post
    Well, if they have been together for three years, then its not likely that she was pretending all this time. But it does seem possible that she has backtracked because of her parents' opposition.

    See, the thing is that if she has decided to step back, it would be only fair that she should tell him the reason. Do see if its possible to have a conversation so that things are clarified and if they do have to part, let it be nicely and honestly.
    Good one Maam!!!! Like always!!!!

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    as a friend you should do one thing try to make em meet on a separate place not in the home or a nearby coffee shop but somewhere they can talk freely than slip out of the seen and let em talk for a while if they get a chance to talk and specially the girl if she gets a chance to talk to him she will surely explain the situation as looks like she is under the parents pressure emotional blackmailing or something like that

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    after 3 years of love if she can backtrack it was not true love..
    but u dont know what happened in her home. what her parents did.
    try to know whats in her mind

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    routine issue of parants disliking

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    could be or could not be.. only option is to know her mind

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    3 years of Love cannot be forgotten in a moment, so just ask ur friend to talk to her and try to find out whats the main reason for such behavior. and you can also take her into confidence and can get to the bottom of the problem.
    Good Luck

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