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    Hello mum
    My name is Hama. I 20Yrs old newly married girl. I love my husband and also enjoying my sexual life but last one week I am in serious problem Bcuz my husband is not making a meeting with me the reason is that he told me to **** his penis and want to position 69 but I denied. I know in movies its ok but in actual life I donít think so. I want to make my husband happy but I am in confusion that doing this is ok or not. What to do as wife I donít know Please help me what should I do in this situation. Help me doing this Right or Wrong.

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    My dear, the position that you are talking about is a popular one so if you and he enjoy it, then why should you have any hesitation about it?

    See, there are no positions that are OK "only for movies" and that cannot be tried out between partners. Sex is an essential part of a marriage and there should be no shame or embarrassment in giving each other pleasure. So, do feel free to experiment and try out new things. The more you experiment, the more you will discover each other and the better the love life.

    Don't put brakes on yourself in this way. Of course, if there is something that you don't like, you absolutely don't have to do it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeto Maam View Post
    My dear, the position that you are talking about is a popular one so if you and he enjoy it, then why should you have any hesitation about it?

    See, there are no positions that are OK "only for movies" and that cannot be tried out between partners. Sex is an essential part of a marriage and there should be no shame or embarrassment in giving each other pleasure. So, do feel free to experiment and try out new things. The more you experiment, the more you will discover each other and the better the love life.

    Don't put brakes on yourself in this way. Of course, if there is something that you don't like, you absolutely don't have to do it!
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    if u dont like it... dont try... or u'll mess up... and thats worst...
    only wen u r mentally ready and u feel u r comfortable, alright... else its not neccesary for u to do everything he says..

    though he should try to undertsand ur point...


    and u should also try ur best to see his veiw points...

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    Good start is that you love your husband and enjoy sex. Repeating the same position might get boring for both of you as a couple hence to keep the physical aspect of your relationship exciting and new, its good to experiment. Like trying anything new, one hesitates, its normal for you to feel like this - just learn to relax

    The key to being able to perform well in the 69 sexual position is the same key that applies to any sexual encounter: to relax, be in the moment and enjoy the wonderful exchange of pleasure and intimacy that is occurring between you and your partner.

    Get comfortable with your body right from the start. The 69 position exposes everything that you have to your sexual partner, so you might as well enjoy yourself and enjoy the fact that your partner is enjoying you.

    Enjoy what you are doing. Be playful. Have fun. Don't feel that you need to perform, and don't be afraid to be a little nasty. This isn't Sunday school.

    Break any rules that you think may exist. It's great to focus on pleasing your partner, but it's also OK to lay back and enjoy what you are receiving for a few moments here and there during the experience. Just let your partner know how wonderful he is making you feel.

    Do what comes naturally with your hands. There is no rule that says that the 69 position is exclusively for oral sex. You can use your hands to give your lips, mouth, and tongue a little break

    Stop thinking. The less you think about your performance, the better you may perform.

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    There is no right and wrong stuff here. If you dont want to do, dont do it. Its as simple like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by it matters to me View Post
    Good start is that you love your husband and enjoy sex. Repeating the same position might get boring for both of you as a couple hence to keep the physical aspect of your relationship exciting and new, its good to experiment. Like trying anything new, one hesitates, its normal for you to feel like this - just learn to relax

    The key to being able to perform well in the 69 sexual position is the same key that applies to any sexual encounter: to relax, be in the moment and enjoy the wonderful exchange of pleasure and intimacy that is occurring between you and your partner.

    Get comfortable with your body right from the start. The 69 position exposes everything that you have to your sexual partner, so you might as well enjoy yourself and enjoy the fact that your partner is enjoying you.

    Enjoy what you are doing. Be playful. Have fun. Don't feel that you need to perform, and don't be afraid to be a little nasty. This isn't Sunday school.

    Break any rules that you think may exist. It's great to focus on pleasing your partner, but it's also OK to lay back and enjoy what you are receiving for a few moments here and there during the experience. Just let your partner know how wonderful he is making you feel.

    Do what comes naturally with your hands. There is no rule that says that the 69 position is exclusively for oral sex. You can use your hands to give your lips, mouth, and tongue a little break

    Stop thinking. The less you think about your performance, the better you may perform.
    Excellent reply. I couldn't have said it better myself.

    To the poster:
    69 position is actually enjoyable to most couples.

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    Try it (without prejudice)
    If you enjoy, continue it; if you do not enjoy, discontinue it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by canadian31 View Post
    Excellent reply. I couldn't have said it better myself.

    To the poster:
    69 position is actually enjoyable to most couples.
    Reallllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyy????? hahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by it matters to me View Post
    Reallllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyy????? hahaha
    What are you haha-ing about dear?

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    Quote Originally Posted by canadian31 View Post
    What are you haha-ing about dear?
    Realllyyy - was to reconfirm if it was true
    Hahaha was the happy sound after hearing that it was true!!!!

    You see I only read an article and suggested..

    By the way thanks for your comments!

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    Basically from Your Question... What I got is that ... You are fearing a New Thing...

    As we Do In Our Lives....

    Whatever is New fro us...is always....create Fear in Our Mind ..as We Do not know the Consequences....

    ... I think Maam has Said rightly... if you don't wanna do that as you don't like...than say Directly to your Partner...

    Or If you are Just Fearing the Unknown ...than You must not Put Brakes...
    as Maam Said...
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    Quote Originally Posted by it matters to me View Post
    Realllyyy - was to reconfirm if it was true
    Hahaha was the happy sound after hearing that it was true!!!!

    You see I only read an article and suggested..

    By the way thanks for your comments!
    I will say again ... Yes it is true...!
    If you are married, you may already know that ....!
    And you're welcome..!

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    IF you find it disgusting no need to continue. Don't let him make you do things which you don't like.

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