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    Question Want to Re-kindle old romance

    I'm in a kind of trouble now, When I was doing my graduation I met a girl who was my classmate. I believed she was one of my good friends, and I do so. But after a certain period she came to believe that I was in love with her ( I don't know what of my actions made her to). But I never had a thought of loving her before.

    After that I tried to explain that it was just a rumour, which she refused to believe. I broke my friendship with her. It has been merely 2 and half years that happened, I never even spoke to her all these years.

    But now something makes me to think of her, I can't stop thinking of her. Now I love her, and I know she isn't in love with anybody nor me. Is this the right time to express my love to her, and in what way I should do that.
    Could you please help me on this?

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    Hi!

    See, you are done with your graduation now, I would think and probably on your way to a profession. Approaching the girl is fine, you can message her and then meet her and try and re establish a relationship. That's not the hard thing.

    The thing that you should, in fact, keep in mind is that if you now establish and persue a romance, you had better do it only if you are really serious about her. Examine yourself to see what it is that you really want. Just a romance or something more long term, and also if its the latter, will it be acceptable to your families etc, and then put in the effort accordingly.

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    First thing to decide is what feelings u have for this girl.. because u sound really confused.
    Think how u want to proceed, is it a marriage u are looking for? or is it only a attraction? If u are truely loving her u can try to make more chances to spend time with her..

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    Before going into thoughts of love u have to know whats the situation with the girl now.........is she having same thoughts for u as in past?? Is she single or commited?? Or atleast is she is in a situation for romance.......so thats what first needs to be researched........ once u find out u will be in better position to decide future plans

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    One thing u must check is why u suddenly had a romantic feeling towards this girl!!!!!!! Is it actual love or are u feeling so only because of ur own lonly life and want just somebody to be with????
    Only proceed if u truely love her!!!!! You can ofcourse approach her to re-start the contact!!!!!!!
    Through that you will be able to know about her current status

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    Grow up - and move out of the well.

    You are behaving like frog of the well. The world is huge, there are millions of girls..

    Think big.

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    Since u broke of the relationship in past, it must be a shock to her!! I am not sure if she will have same love for u now!! Many years passed, so u may have to start everything from beginning
    But its worth trying since u had this thought about her again!!
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