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    Dear mam i want to do anal sex with my wife but she is telling that she is not interested as it is very painful for her. Once we tried but whenever i was putting my penis inside she was moving forward and my penis comes out that was horrible as my sperm also fell outside.
    Please suggest how to explain her and make it easy?

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    Look, I could tell you how you can try and make it more comfortable, but I would advise you to not force her if she does not want it. many women just don't like anal sex and its not at all OK to force any sexual action that is distasteful for the person, on anyone.

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    Do only if she is willing!! Many people find it disgusting and so u shud not try to insist on it!! Read this fro some hints
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    She is protesting and you are inserting. Man is animal. Desires never fulfilled.
    Aage wale hisse me kya Cement bhar diya hai kya?

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    lolz @ above

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    god made each body part with a specific function. he mad anus to shit and vagina to f**k so do it the natural way and anal sex is not 100% safe there is a risk for infection

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    convince her for that boy

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    have u guyzzzzz gone nutsss!!! u juzz wanna njoi urself ...... but how much painful it is for women.... u dont have any idea...... so better never force her ok!!!!!!!!!!

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    Hi

    Here are few tips which might help you both.

    Tip 1: Play Safe: There are some serious safety issues regarding anal sex that you need to be aware of at all times.

    First and foremost, whatever touches the anus shouldn't be touching anything else. Never never never take the penis out of the anus and put it into the vagina. That can lead to serious infections and other complications.

    After any kind of anal play, you should immediately change condoms and wash the relevant body parts thoroughly.
    Of course, STDs are also a major concern with anal sex. This isn't just limited to AIDS; herpes, genital warts, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc. can all be transmitted through anal sex. You shouldn't be having anal sex without a condom; it's not worth the risk to either partner.

    Tip 2: Lube, lube, lube

    One of the most important thing to remember when thinking about anal sex is that, unlike the vagina, the anus isn't self-lubricating: you gotta bring your own grease. And, the more lube you use, the better. It will make the initial penetration much more easy and less painful for the woman and make the whole experience, for both of you, much more pleasant. The most common suggestion we get from our readers is to use LOTS of lube; we just can't emphasize this point enough.

    All kinds of lube are used for anal sex, from spit to Vaseline to high-tech silicone-based lubes. Its recommend spending a little money to get a high quality water-based lubricant; remember, an oil-based lubricant like Vaseline will degrade the latex in a condom, destroying its usefulness. We'd recommend products like AstroGlide or KY Jelly, available in any drug store. Note, though a condom may be "lubricated", they typically don't offer as much lube as we'd recommend for anal sex.

    Tip 3: Start Small: Simply put, a penis is an awful big to be the first thing you stick up someone's butt . Better to start with something smaller and work your way up. Fingers are an excellent beginning point. Use one finger, then two, to initiate your partner into the mysteries of anal penetration. Try it while performing oral sex for an extra thrill. Be sure your fingernails are trimmed, not to forget the lube, and you might even want to wear latex gloves.

    As your partner gets used to your fingers, you might graduate to a butt plug or a small dildo. Remember, though, don't put the dildo into the vagina after putting it into the anus. The safest way is to put a condom on the dildo before using it, and to wash it thoroughly immediately after.

    Tip 4: Turnabout is Fair: Whether you're trying to convince someone to have anal sex or trying to figure out how to do it in a gentle, pain free manner, there's no better preparation that exploring anal play with yourself.

    A partner is much more likely to consent to anal sex if she's seen that you're open to being on the receiving end as well. Encourage her to use her fingers inside of you, or even purchase a butt plug or small dildo and let her use that. Once she's seen you're willing to do it, it'll be hard for her to resist exploring it as well.

    Of course, anal play on yourself is a great way to learn how anal sex feels and to learn how to make it more comfortable for your partner.

    Tip 5: Clear the Way: Before having anal sex, the woman should have a good, complete bowel movement. If she doesn't, the man may find himself encountering far more fecal matter than he might have liked (i.e. packing the fudge). Now, for some people doing this on-command might not be the easiest thing, and straining to defecate is not healthy. A high fiber diet may help things along and is good for your health in any case.

    Of course, if you really want to clean things out in a hurry, you can purchase an enema from any drug store. There's some controversy about this; some people feel having an enema first can actually increase the irritation during anal sex. If you're going to go the enema route, we'd recommend doing it several hours before you plan to have anal sex, rather than right before the act.

    Always remember that Sex is to be enjoyed equally by both partners.

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    plz never force her

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    try lubricants.... show her some anal porn.. and try to convince her...

    It is painful agree to that - if u dont agree - try putting - a dildo, carrot or something into your own... u will know.. what it feels like..

    ur and her - anal hole are same ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Dear mam i want to do anal sex with my wife but she is telling that she is not interested as it is very painful for her. Once we tried but whenever i was putting my penis inside she was moving forward and my penis comes out that was horrible as my sperm also fell outside.
    Please suggest how to explain her and make it easy?
    U can try but when ur wife is comfortable with it........

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    Please do NOT force your wife! Whether to do a certain activity or not is an entirely personal decision, and many people do not prefer anal sex at all. It isn't for everybody, esp the faint-hearted. Many of us would not prefer it ever!! If she fulfills you in most or every other way, you should be satisfied!

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    why you want to **** ash hole - you *** hole!

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