Obsessed with Girls and masturbation

[Unregistered]

hi....
i wanted to share a problem...i wanted to knw if i am addicted to sex as i masturbate regurlarly(means daily)...r thr ny ill effects?? whn alone it causes me lose my concentration..moreovr i cant concentrate on a single gf....wht shd i do to get out of this hell...i want to concentrate on my work n othr things..n get rid off this masturbate stuff n crush 4 girls....so plz help..!!

[Preeto Maam]

Actually, there is nothing hellish or unnatural about it at all. Just keep it in the right perspective, which means, as long as you don't make masturbation and girls an obsession, you will be fine. A certain interest in both these things is quite natural.

[bhushan1982]

masturbation has nothing to do with concentration... thats a myth only. You can try meditation to increase ur concentration

[catchvilly]

Its quite natural. as long as you do frequent masterbation dont forget to eat a lot.

[narayanhegde]

lack of concentration should not be blamed on masturbation... and its not unusual for a guy to continue it after marriage too
You should think of other methods to increase concentration.. may be its due to stress or strain in life and work etc

[artonsennas]

hi....
i wanted to share a problem...i wanted to knw if i am addicted to sex as i masturbate regurlarly(means daily)...r thr ny ill effects?? whn alone it causes me lose my concentration..moreovr i cant concentrate on a single gf....wht shd i do to get out of this hell...i want to concentrate on my work n othr things..n get rid off this masturbate stuff n crush 4 girls....so plz help..!!

There is nothing wrong with you. Concentration problem could be due to other reasons like stress, depression or any particular issue playing on your mind. Urge to masturbate and crush on various sexy, pretty young girls is a part of growing up. Unless you make it a addiction to devote entire time only for these two activities, it is natural as Preeto mam says and required as well. So just relax and continue with some meditation for improving your concentration.

[akshay.cool]

Your concentration problem with girls is not because of masturbation.. but becaue u r not truly loving ur gf and looking for others.. end ur interest in other women and then u can be more concentrated on ur gf.. or u both are not made for each other

[jaggy_sa]

U have to find a girl with whom u can be together for long period!!! I think u give up one soon becaues both may be mismatch.
When u are looking ofr a gf next time, wait till u can find a perfect match

[prakash27]

Masturbation will not affect concentration!! But if u have habit of watching porn or reading such magazines then it should be stopped. That will help u!!
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[siddharth3.5]

no side effects exist for masturbation.. ur gf problems may be due to lack of commitment, and not spending enough time with her or due to not trying to understand her properly..

[jk_singh]

THe basic reason is not masturbation
But its because either due to some hormonal change u are highly sexually active
Or you are into porn, or similarmaterial 24x7
If u can control these things will be different