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    i am livein relation with guy and luv him we r living together from 3 year he cares me lot and also luv me.2 years back we had a sex 6 or 8 times then after we did not do again. i always want to have sex with him but he don't shows any interest.between 2 year onence i had a sex with other boy and it was awesome.but then after i haven't, so its its long time i have't had a sex with any one and now my boyfriend want's to have sex but im nt interest in sex any more. Is that becoz of his ignorence?plz give some suggetion.

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    Well, its certainly odd that you guys have been living together and have had no sex for two years. Naturally, now the feeling towards each other has changed, where its more of a relationship, where sex does not have a place.

    Still, you can give it a try and see if sex works for you again.

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    U need to re-examine ur relationship...when u are having a livein relationship and intimacy is absent, surely somethings wrong.. are u both feeling alright with it? It can not be due to ignorance, bcoz u had sex ealir... but rather due to lack of itnerest.

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    Ever tried showering together? or fulfilling some fantasy? I'd say try it. It seems you guys have [unknowingly] gone for an understanding without sex. try something which you both find adventurous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    i am livein relation with guy and luv him we r living together from 3 year he cares me lot and also luv me.2 years back we had a sex 6 or 8 times then after we did not do again. i always want to have sex with him but he don't shows any interest.between 2 year onence i had a sex with other boy and it was awesome.but then after i haven't, so its its long time i have't had a sex with any one and now my boyfriend want's to have sex but im nt interest in sex any more. Is that becoz of his ignorence?plz give some suggetion.

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    You may need to have something new and interesting in ur sex life!!! The familiarity may be making things boring... try some new sex games or fantasies or stuff like that!!!

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    Good story by another Feku.

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    Read it for some ideas!!
    http://forum.santabanta.com/showpost...66&postcount=2
    agony aunt, marriage advice, relationship help, online agony aunt, relationship advice

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    Here my tips-
    1-Eat healthy food
    2-excericise daily
    3-Use sex games to heat up ur sex life
    4-try new positions

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harii_Puttar View Post
    Good story by another Feku.
    It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life so interesting. . .

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    Things are boring in ur sexual life... for one to have happy sex one need a good emotional bond with other person. Thats a must...so if u dont get godo sex it show ur relationship is in trouble

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    probably one, or both of u are tired of this relationship...thats what i guess from ur writing. Thats very very bad particularly for a livein relaitnship.
    Whtehr to find and repair the problems, or whether to leave this, is all upto u..whatever ur choice is, u dont have to waste any more time

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    Till you do not get back that old emotional bond that built up ur relationship, everything will remain gloomy like this. The most important sexual organ is human mind, it has far least to do with any other body parts

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    If one of the partner is not showing interest it means that person has lost his faith in the relationship!!! This need serious thoughts and talks to correct problems and to make things work again..... If u want to leave it, then its easy, but to fix this, u will need to do a lto of work together or get help from counsellor!!!

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