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    My gf MMS's me some of her pics last nite,we r in a long distance relation,& she said fr my sake plz say the truth dat how i"m looking in the latest.Though her face was looking much better dan before,& the same i said to her,she seemed to have gained few extra pounds.& i don't know why the hell i told her that??
    now shez completely depressed saying nothing,it has created type of wall between us,she immediately disconnected the phone after that saying 'I want to sleep & good bye'..these wer her last word..now i'm worried that she will either pic da thone or not??
    if she recieve the call what shud i say to her?
    what shud i say about how was she looking??
    how shud i praise her???
    plz every one plz help me...i really love her a lot...
    i spent last nite sleep less thinking wht shud i do??
    plz i cant love without her...plz help me...plz

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    Well, you've just learned a valuable lesson.....NEVER tell your GF that she looks fat! Girls are not really looking for honesty when they send you a picture...they are looking ONLY for compliments

    So, now, basically you have to shower her with compliments...DO NOT TALK ABOUT HER WEIGHT. Talk about her eyes, her hair, her voice, her clothes...anything except her weight.

    Don't worry, she'll soon start talking to you again, and this time, be more clever about what you say!

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    Well...this is something no girl will ever like. Especially when being thin is current beauty trend.
    What you can do now is to make it look like a joke.. or when u talk next time to her tell her that you were simply trying to annoy her. That might work.. goodluck

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    Beg for forgiveness.. nothing else will work. SInce she has taken it as an offense, you can wait some time for everything to be normal. I dont think she will end relationship. But she will avoid u for some days...after that she will sur etalk to u.
    But this time make no mistakes.

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    Dont worry, dont worry... its only a temporary problem.
    Once u patch up again, use the strategy given by preeto maam.....give her a lot of compliments.
    You can even tell her that she looks terrific than the last time you saw her.

    ANd for gods sake avoid any refernce to fat,weight etc after this..

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    Ask for a newer picture and when she show it to u coompliment her!!
    Betteer than old photo etc
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    rookie mistake. NEVER, EVER tell a woman she looks fat. beware of other similar trick questions, such as 'dont u think that girl there is hot?' or 'i dont think this dish ive cooked is perfect'
    We all learn from our mistakes.

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    It was just an innocent comment. Dont sweat it. Pretend nothing happened. She will come around if she has any brains.

    But be more careful abt sensitive issues next time.

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    I dont think telling someone they're looking overweight is such a sensitive issue. For girls or certain individuals it might be.

    If such a small issue makes your relationship go sour its better to end it happily coz you cant keep your feelings to urself or shut up forever.

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    This damage has happened... u can not reverse it. She took it bad.
    After this experience u will not repeat it again, that i am sure

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    Oh boy, you're in deep shit!

    She will never forget this NEVER.

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    heres a thread that might help u....


    http://forum.santabanta.com/showthread.htm?t=176575


    dear friend,

    see u have to be a little diplomatic in life... doesnt mean u shud lie... but choose words that dont hurt ... especially with girls... girls need a lot of praising esp from mna she loves...


    & thats exactly the reaosn y smart men lie... about these issues..

    actually she has taken pix with a lot of care.. & sent to u..with just one hope that u'll lke it... she knew she had grown over-weight--aready knew...thats the reason she asked...
    wen she asks suuch Qz again.. just dilute her question by saying something that not really lies but then which doesnt offend her ...& INfact which makes her smile...


    eg: this answer wud make her go crazy abt u:

    u look wonderful... i slightly chubby but i like it... chubby is cute...

    for then just that much wud do.. thats isnt lie...

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    later sometime u cud just tell her to watch out for her weight


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    Quote Originally Posted by unregistered View Post
    My gf MMS's me some of her pics last nite,we r in a long distance relation,& she said fr my sake plz say the truth dat how i"m looking in the latest.Though her face was looking much better dan before,& the same i said to her,she seemed to have gained few extra pounds.& i don't know why the hell i told her that??
    now shez completely depressed saying nothing,it has created type of wall between us,she immediately disconnected the phone after that saying 'I want to sleep & good bye'..these wer her last word..now i'm worried that she will either pic da thone or not??
    if she recieve the call what shud i say to her?
    what shud i say about how was she looking??
    how shud i praise her???
    plz every one plz help me...i really love her a lot...
    i spent last nite sleep less thinking wht shud i do??
    plz i cant love without her...plz help me...plz
    tell her, u just love her with a few extra pounds as it makes her more cuddly

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    lol....dude i guess u must hav watched movies whch teach us never to comment on our gals physic if u wnt 2 stay happy wth her...u did a blunder by tellin her so...try cooling her out nd say tht u were just kidding nd if ths jolly nature hurt ur emotions thn u r sry 4 it.....

    bst of luck..

    tak care

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    She may be looking fat in photo or in real... but the basic rule for men is :never say that.
    Instead try these clever ways given in this past thread by Preeto Maam
    http://forum.santabanta.com/showthread.htm?t=115536

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