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    I like giving Oral Sex to my husband/boyfriend but i begin to puke as soon as i starts. How can i avoid gagging?

    Check your position. Forget lying beside him, and instead get him to stand while you sit facing him on the side of the bed (or an appropriate-height piece of furniture). Not only will it be more comfortable for both of you, but it also gives you control over how deeply he thrusts into your mouth. Alternatively, try kneeling in front of him while he stands. It's the classic "submissive" pose, but don't forget that you're still the boss of the proceedings.


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    My penis size is small. Will i be able to satisfy my wife/girlfriend in sex?

    The vagina is a pretty adaptable thing and can comfortably accommodate both large and small penises with the same relative degree of comfort. In fact, the vagina of a woman who hasn't had a child is only 3.0 inches long when she's not sexually excited, and even when she's aroused the average increase in size is only about another inch. Even if you happened to be having a very long penis, anything over the average is going to waste anyway -- there wouldn't be anywhere for those inches to go. Couple that with the fact that the first third of the vagina (the third closest to the opening) is the area that houses all of the nerve endings and is, therefore, the only area that actually registers sensation.

    There can be so much more to relating sexually than the length and width of a partner's penis. Why there's kissing, holding, intimacy, eye contact, one-ness, touching, soul-bearing honesty, trust, breasts, butts, toes, hair, discovery, and so on. Sure, penis size is a big deal to some, while others see it as a little piece of a much bigger sex pie.



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    What is the average penis size?

    A comprehensive worldwide study of more than 40 independent penis size research projects, undertaken since 1942, has come up with a general penis size guideline. With over 11,000 participants, the survey puts the average ***** size of the adult penis between 4 inches and 6 inches in length and 4 inches and 5 inches in girth.

    The study also took a look at perceptions of size and asked more than 50,000 heterosexual men and women how they rated their own size or the size of their partner. They found that 85% of women were satisfied with their partner's penile size



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    Are there any penis enlargement surgeries? Are they safe?

    There are pen is enlargement surgeries and that's the only way to enlarge your pen is. But I would advise you AGAINST it totally!

    I don't see why you want an enlargement anyway. Do you think that men who are bigger in size are also better lovers? well, thats a fallacy. You train yourself to be a good lover, sensitive to your partner's needs and that is all that you really need...or she, for that matter


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    I have a large penis, and i am afraid i will never be able to have sex with a woman.

    The vagina is a pretty adaptable thing and can comfortably accommodate both large and small penises with the same relative degree of comfort.For some women, a dab of water-based lube can make a huge difference. Different positions sometimes help, too. As you experiment and play, tell one another how you feel, what is uncomfortable, and what feels good. This doesn't mean carrying out a full conversation while having sex; simple words — like "deeper" or "not so deep," "gently" or "harder," "faster" or "slower" — usually are enough to get the point across and make sex more enjoyable for both of you



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    My penis foreskin is very tight. I tried to move my foreskin back but it was very painful(or i can't). What is the problem?

    You are describing a condition known as phimosis. In some cases, the opening of the foreskin is too narrow to pass over the head. In other cases, the foreskin is adhered to the glans (head) of the penis.

    Phimosis that does not resolve on its own may become a reason on medical concern for several reasons. It may cause tightness which results in pain during *****ions. As young men become sexually active, they may become self-conscious regarding the appearance of their penis.

    The typical medical treatment for phimosis is a combination of gentle retraction exercises and application of a prescribed topical steroid cream. The steroid cream is applied to all surfaces of the foreskin as directed, and the foreskin is gently pulled back as much as is comfortable. The foreskin retraction exercises should be performed at least twice a day. Surgical removal of foreskin is done when all the above methods are not working

    However, you need to refer to the doctor about it!


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    Why does my penis smell badly?

    Mild inflammation and infection of the penis is often due to inadequate and infrequent washing and cleaning, which leads to a build-up of a cheesy looking substance called smegma.
    Smegma is a natural lubricant made up of a number of bodily secretions that allows smooth movement between the foreskin and the head of the penis (glans) during sexual intercourse. However, if it is allowed to accumulate in the foreskin it can start to smell, prevent easy foreskin movement, and become a breeding ground for bacteria. Other causes of a smelly and sore penis are sexually transmitted infections. Pull back your foreskin and make sure its always clean.


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    I am addicted to pornography. How can i get rid of this habit?

    Step 1
    Stay committed. Make this decision and discipline yourself. Take it very seriously. If you cannot be serious about it, you will not be able to achieve your goal. This is the most important step.

    Step2
    Delete all your pornography, throw away any tapes or DVDs, and even block the sites that may tempt you. Do not let yourself be tempted.

    Step3
    Ask for help. Addiction to porn can be a definite problem. There are people known as sex addicts, and porn can be in this category. Go to a close friend for support. Do not let yourself be alone in your journey. It may be a little awkward at first, but friends are supposed to face their struggles together. Use this as an opportunity to build a stronger friendship.

    Step4
    Keep yourself distracted. Statistics show that a majority of porn is watched out of boredom. Do not let yourself be bored. Keep yourself doing something productive. Examples: talk to friends, work out, go out, cook, garden, play video games, etc. Do not let yourself fall back into things out of boredom.

    Step5
    Set goals and reward yourself. If you feel like you cannot handle it all at once, plan a time line. Start by only watching it twice a week, and then once a week, and then not at all. Reward yourself when your goals are met [ i.e. buy yourself something new like an Ipod, treat yourself out to dinner, etc]. Spoil yourself when you’ve met a goal. A friend can come in handy for this as well.

    Step6
    Pray. Keeping in touch with your spiritual life can help you get off your addiction. Use religion to your advantage!

    Below are listed a few tips for dealing with porn addiction:
    Getting blocking software for the computer
    Putting up inspirational pictures around the computer (kids, people you love etc.)
    Moving the computer to a public space in the home – not in a den or bedroom
    Having an addiction prevention plan – to carry out when tempted
    Knowing the signs of porn addiction – both the general signs and those specific to you
    Knowing the stages of porn addiction
    Making good use of porn addiction resources like 12-step meetings, sex addiction professionals and online recovery support groups
    A commitment to breaking pornography addition has to be renewed one-day-at-a-time, it can be a set-up for the addict to think of it as forever!


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    Is porn good way to learn about sex?

    Porn is one thing and sex education quite another. Porn engenders myths and can create unrealistic expectations. Awareness of the various facets of sex can be got from authentic sources as opposed to porn


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    Is pornography illegal?

    Section 67 of The Information Technology Act, 2000, states: "Whoever publishes or transmits or causes to be published in the electronic form, any material which is lascivious or appeals to the prurient interest or if its effect is such as to tend to deprave and corrupt persons who are likely, having regard to all relevant circumstances, to read, see or hear the matter contained therein or embodied in it, shall be punished on first conviction with imprisonment with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to five five years and with fine which may extend to one lakh rupees and in the event of a second or subsequent conviction with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to ten years and also with fine which may extend to two lakh rupees.''


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    Why cant i perform like the actors in porn movies?

    Never compare your performance with whats shown in porn movies. They are paid professionals doing acting and most of the time what you seen in porn is exaggerated and far away from how it happens in real life.


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    I am male and during sex or when i masturbate i ejaculate very quickly. Why does this happen?


    This is a condition called Premature ejaculation, defined by some as orgasm after less than two minutes of intercourse, effects one in three men and can be brought on by any number of reasons, including: Learned Patterns, Stress/Anxiety, Control Issues, Unreliable *****ions, Aging Issues etc.



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