Confused about phone friend

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hii Frndzz ...I m a girl of 23 yrs old.I m totally confused ..plzz help me...

My story is started frm 5yrs back ...when I lost my younger bro in an accident..my life is fully changed ...I go into dipression ... not talk wid anybody . not even wid my parents...

but last year I met wid an accident ..nd then I change my life ... now I talk wid every body I m very frndly nature ..mix up wid everybody very easily...The problem is dat frm last year 4 people propose me . but I refuse them bcoz My parent already searching a boy for marriage nd my family is totally oppose to intercast marriage .. .........

But now a boy propose me recently [I never see him till today. He is my frnds frnd... Nd We r only ph frnd].I also refuse his proposal nd tell him the probss.. but he says dat If I m ready then He talk wid my parents. he is not my caste.. even I m frm north nd he is frm south... he is fully setteled nd nice guy by nature..But I think if I told my parents this things they got hurted ...nd I Don't want 2 hurt them .... Bcoz now I m the only child for them for whom they live.... They love me lot...... nd I know They r Kooool parents.... but when there r family values comes they stand opposite 2 me..................


Nd the another main probs is dat even I not know dat I love that person or not......there is some affection I know dat.. but love I can't say.......

so help me ................Give sum suggestion

[Preeto Maam]

Hi!

look, if you are not even sure if you love him or not, then why put everything on the line? If you weer madly in love with him and couldn't live without him, then taking a stand with your parents would make some sense, but if you are not...are just friends, then why start something that could be unpleasant for all concerned?

Think about it!

[helper123]

hii Frndzz ...I m a girl of 23 yrs old.I m totally confused ..plzz help me...

My story is started frm 5yrs back ...when I lost my younger bro in an accident..my life is fully changed ...I go into dipression ... not talk wid anybody . not even wid my parents...

but last year I met wid an accident ..nd then I change my life ... now I talk wid every body I m very frndly nature ..mix up wid everybody very easily...The problem is dat frm last year 4 people propose me . but I refuse them bcoz My parent already searching a boy for marriage nd my family is totally oppose to intercast marriage .. .........

But now a boy propose me recently [I never see him till today. He is my frnds frnd... Nd We r only ph frnd].I also refuse his proposal nd tell him the probss.. but he says dat If I m ready then He talk wid my parents. he is not my caste.. even I m frm north nd he is frm south... he is fully setteled nd nice guy by nature..But I think if I told my parents this things they got hurted ...nd I Don't want 2 hurt them .... Bcoz now I m the only child for them for whom they live.... They love me lot...... nd I know They r Kooool parents.... but when there r family values comes they stand opposite 2 me..................


Nd the another main probs is dat even I not know dat I love that person or not......there is some affection I know dat.. but love I can't say.......

so help me ................Give sum suggestion

c...u cant say tht he is gud by nature jst by talking him on phn....dear u cant predict wt is going any in his mind..until and unless u give some time to the person..even then also people fail to predict the nature ......and its just a attraction.........

ma advice is as u r the only child ..u should not go against your parents.....and even you are not in love with him....if you cry ...you feel that you cant live widout him..thn can say that u r in love......but at that condition also ....prefer ur parents......bcoz they are evrything ....not that guy who is just a phn frnd.....hope u understand wt i want to say....