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    Hi Mam,

    A few weeks back I was hanging out with my gf. we have been together for almost 2 months but she never let me have sex with her, no even touching breasts or anything. So 2 weeks back when we were kissing i couldn't control myself and forced her that I want to have sex and out-of-fear she accepted it.
    but just after the sex i felt really guilty and i tried to apologize but she said its okay! but still i feel guilty! what should i do?

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    Actually, I'm not at all sure as to what you mean by 'forced'? I am assuming that you emotionally blackmailed her into having sex. And that, is really not the best way to begin a relationship that depends so much on trust that no other relationship can match it!

    So, now you want...what? us to say that its OK? Well, you know, we aren't sitting in moral judgment here and can't and don't want to grant punishments and pardons. You will need to try and deal with your guilt and with your fiance on this.

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    YOu have done a very bad thing. I pity for the girl and wish she gets rid of you.

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    WHat you have done has some serious emoitional consequences and will not go with mere apologizing alone. There are some fundamental values like love, trust etc broken here, and i am not sure how you can fix this. The damage is so huge, the only solution seems to be apologizing and then to expect that she will trust it

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    NOt a good move!! You might lose her love forever.
    Tell her it happened in a weak moment and u sincerely feel bad about it

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    You should feel guilty because what you have done is pure emotional exploitation.... Nothing else!
    The girl had some ideals but you talked and brainwashed the girl to do things which she didnt want at all. Think about how it will affect you, if you were the one in her place

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    Feeling guilty is good. Means u found ur activity as wrong, dont repeat it. You can also take to a counsellor if needed to know whether she has had any psychological shock

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    IF she has forgiven you then its good and consider urself lucky. Be careful in future so that you will not get tempted by animal instincts like these any more

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    No men in their right sense of mind will ever do this. This is in a way rape though may not directly look so. Its atleast kind of abuse

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    hello]'
    see u have shocked her there is no doubt abt it ....
    and if she is okey with this then its ur gud luck .... but still at some corner of her heart she may feel that u have used her as product ........
    ] BEWARE U DONT REPEAT IT ...........
    show respect for her as human as ur friend as some one whos is very infact 1 of the most imp. person in ur life ......
    and for god sake IF SHE HAS NO PROBLEM WHT U DID ..... DONT TAKE HER FOR GRANTED THAT U CAN DO IT AGAIN .......
    if she is happy with it ......she her self will approach further ant let her do that......
    god bless u

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    This is now past. Act like a gentleman from now on. You will get respect in return

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    luk u did wrong n u realised it......dats gr8......nw u really need u apolozise to ur gf....only that can make u feel better.....so plan something really special 4 her......take her out.....give her a really special gift......make her feel really special....n then apolozise truely in front of her......dis will not onlt relieve u from ur guilt but also make ur relationship stronger......js shw her that u care.....simpleeeeeeeeee........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeto Maam View Post
    Actually, I'm not at all sure as to what you mean by 'forced'? I am assuming that you emotionally blackmailed her into having sex. And that, is really not the best way to begin a relationship that depends so much on trust that no other relationship can match it!

    So, now you want...what? us to say that its OK? Well, you know, we aren't sitting in moral judgment here and can't and don't want to grant punishments and pardons. You will need to try and deal with your guilt and with your fiance on this.
    this is one of the finest answer that preeto mam has ever given.............!!!

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    If really feel guilty of doing it then you should come to end of it marry her
    I thing that best way to apologize not to here but yourself

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    Force not a good idea
    "Don't wait for the Perfect moment.. take the Moment and make it Perfect."


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