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    hey.....
    we have many problems because of my brother, he has been together with a girl in six years, but my parents doesn't like her, but after few years they said okay, my brother and she got engaged. They live together 1 year and they was happy all thing was good, but one day my bother got know the she had affaire with someone.
    now it's 3 year they are not together. He can not forgot what is she has don to him, and hen dont know why she has don the to him.

    he dosent go out or tell with peopl, he is only at home alone.....
    my parents feeling not good beacuse of him......
    we dont know what to do....
    plsss help me

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    Hmmm...it seems like he has gone into depression, my dear and may need professional help for the same. It would be good if your parents can take him to a counsellor, who will be able to help him out of this condition and also counsel the family.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    hey.....
    we have many problems because of my brother, he has been together with a girl in six years, but my parents doesn't like her, but after few years they said okay, my brother and she got engaged. They live together 1 year and they was happy all thing was good, but one day my bother got know the she had affaire with someone.
    now it's 3 year they are not together. He can not forgot what is she has don to him, and hen dont know why she has don the to him.

    he dosent go out or tell with peopl, he is only at home alone.....
    my parents feeling not good beacuse of him......
    we dont know what to do....
    plsss help me
    someone who is cheated becomes very down emotionally bcoz they put all their trust in one person and at the end they r proven wrong. they r afraid of trusting anyone once more. they grow afraid that they cant judge ppl and so feel inferior.
    the only thing u can do is to make him believe that the girl didnt deserve him and there must be sum1 out there for him. help him with his esteem.
    do all those things around him which he liked. tell him to develop a hobby..anything from painting to gaming to reading or others.
    ur parents hav to be supportive to him. ask them to encourage him.
    tell us if this worked.
    best of luck.

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    He may be under the shock of the break up
    This will take some time to heal so be patient till then. Also keep a watch on him to know whether he is falling victim to depression. Then he must be taken to a doc

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    Dont leave him in this stage. He need help from family and friends
    Never let him be alone, ask his friends to take him out. Encouage him to find new interests in life, and if possible to spend time with other girls.

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    This happens whenever breakup occur but the intensity only differers with people involved.
    Since 3 year he hasnt come out of it. So he will not be able to do it all by himself. MOreover this is becoming into depression. Get him to a psychaitrist immediately

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    Get his interest back in life somehow. If he has any female friends that will help.
    Or if therapy is needed go for it. He wil be having chronic depression very soon, if he isnt already a victim

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    Its the shock and hapens in some cases. He sure need counselling/psychiatric help etc.
    This will be hard for u to solve urself. You will not be able to do so because in last 3 yrs u couldnt bring him back to normalcy.

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    Dont be misunderstood. He is not becoming an introvert. But he is already into depression. ITs a serious psychological problem and need a doctors help

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    only way to save him now is by a doctor

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    He will try to be alone and will avoid talking to others. Dont let both happen.
    Need to increase his confidence also. The rejection may have negatively affected his confidence

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    He needs help. Take him to a doc.
    I am astonished that in these last 3 years you didnt do anything seroius to help the guy. He probably into chronic depression

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    Introvert and depressed are totally different things.
    he is depressed, not an introvert

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    Here are ten ways to get rid of depression

    10. Develop Interests
    9. Keep Positive
    8. Fix your Personal problems
    7. Create a Positive Social Life
    6. Stop Bad Behavior
    5. Be Realistic
    4. Make Changes
    3. Become active
    2. Fix your diet
    1. Control your thinking

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    What has happened has hapened. If you dont get him necessary help, he will be going into worse condiition.
    Constantly distrct him into some other activity

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