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    Hi mam
    I had asked question before also and got a very valuable answer.So i am asking again one more solution of my prob.Mam i am unable to understand my husband after 3 yrs of marriage also.My hubby agrees at every point with me but for 2 days after that he behaves opposite to that.For example he agreed that i should join the job but after 2-3 days he says leave the job.I am out of my mind by his unpredictable behaviour.When he goes to meet his mother,he comes back after 3-4 days and finds any point to have a fight with me.In our family me,my hubby and my brother in law lives.In laws are at bareilly and we are in noida.So i talked with him abt his behaviour but of no use.I HAVE ST

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    The only solution I can offer you is to talk to your husband and set things right. He cant keep going front and back on the decisions he has taken.

    IF you wanted to give him the bitter pill, you should also agree on something and disagree on the same thing after two days, but eye for a eye is not a good policy

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    husband is insecure abt you...and his parents dont want tht their bahu should work....due to male colleagues etc.

    find some mid way solution..

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    ur husband is more possessive about u.....this is not any big deal....relax

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    His family must be fillng his mind with negative thoughts about u. That dislike may be getting shown when he returns.
    Solve all ur problems with his family and see if it works or not

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    His opinion about you is fluctuating. That shows two things
    1-he does notknow you enough
    2-there is not enough love/trust
    Both of these need to be worked on

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    Lucky for you, problems seem to be at the beginning stage only.
    do something before it gets worse... Tell ur parents or if he is willing get help from a counsellor etc.
    Its time for dialogue and to sort out ur problems

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    Though he is not much abusive yet, i can understand ur frustration.
    He is not giving what you are expecting from him like a good husband.
    Be clear about ur demands when you talk to him. And see if that helps

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    Ur parents or brother can help/
    May be he thinks u as unimportant. So if they do the talking perhaps he will take it more serious???

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    He is agreeing for the moment, then going the reverse direction later.
    So something always happen in between. There is somebody who has influence on him and he/she is making him change his thoughts

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    There is something in his mind. my doubt is he does not trust ur decision making abilities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hi mam
    I had asked question before also and got a very valuable answer.So i am asking again one more solution of my prob.Mam i am unable to understand my husband after 3 yrs of marriage also.My hubby agrees at every point with me but for 2 days after that he behaves opposite to that.For example he agreed that i should join the job but after 2-3 days he says leave the job.I am out of my mind by his unpredictable behaviour.When he goes to meet his mother,he comes back after 3-4 days and finds any point to have a fight with me.In our family me,my hubby and my brother in law lives.In laws are at bareilly and we are in noida.So i talked with him abt his behaviour but of no use.
    Marriage is a solemn relationship....Its true but still I think there are somethings which you should tell ur hubby...Yeah you have to do that to survive ur marriage....otherwise mistrust is going to increase further...I think you are taking things too seriously and discussing each and everything with ur hubby....free that poor soul for some time and I am sure u will get what u wish for....Regards.
    ● A Man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks he becomes ●

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    He is not abusing u, but i think he is miserly in giving u consideration as equal and in showing his love.
    That u can talk and solve, its not a big issue at all

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    My doubt is ur husband has some issues - i mean psychological

    Not very serious but perhaps very small one

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    If u have brother let him tell ur husband to behave moe considerately. Or somebody else like that...
    U can ask urself too why he does not give u enough respect

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