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    Well my gf does modelling assignments sometimes as part time job.. she is a student now.
    But i am not ok with it. I dont like she being watched by others..
    Couple of times i hinted her but her reaction was negative and was like if i press her more she will leave me.. so how can i make her quit this? She tells its my problem, where is the fault?????

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    Hmmm...I see your problem all right, but you know if she is not listening to what you are asking, then maybe you both can set down some parameters within which you both can be comfortable. For example that she should not wear certain type of clothes, make sure that there are always plenty of people around, not be out after a particular time.

    I'm sure that she must be doing these assignments with the consent of her parents so it may not all be bad. Maybe you also need to cool down about it and look at teh whole choice in a realistic manner. Meet the people she is working with, go with her for her shoots sometimes and satisfy yourself that she is capable of looking after herself and then decide how you want to go from there.

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    Why would you want to make her quit? simply because of ur possessiveness? Then i must say its purely ur fault

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    Being watched by others is something about which u can do nothing in aprofession like modelling. I seriously believe that if u pop up this problem she will lose the respect she has for you. NObody wil like someone telling them to quit their job. However u can try to reach an agreement like Preeto Maam adviced earlier.

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    Then u should try to talk to her in a sweet way hoping she will understand. Probably modelling is what she likes. And controlling her passion may not be the thing which she expects from a boyfriend. Suggest it one time, and forget the matter if she disagrees. Also be ready with another career choice for her at hand if she ends this job.

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    Ur demand is impossible in a career such as modelling.
    Either change ur request, or change the gf

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    hey its her life...
    jo use pasand hoga yar wo whi karegi...

    u can do 1 thing
    ie change ur gf....
    hehehe....

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    Hey dude change the girl. She is not too much in love with you and also do never love a model or an actress they are born characterless.

    So it would be good for you to dump her and get a good girl as already evident he importance is her career and not you so what is the need of such cheap girl

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    Talk with her and see if she is ready for some other job.
    If she is not, then u dont have much options left than to be satisfied with her

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    Quote Originally Posted by lifeishell View Post
    hey its her life...
    jo use pasand hoga yar wo whi karegi...

    u can do 1 thing
    ie change ur gf....
    hehehe....
    ya quite ryte .....

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    She is doing it as parttime u said. So its possible its only a means for income while she is studying? There is also this possibliity that she may choose another profession as primary. Wait and see how her modelling life goes on

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    Talk with her. And when u do that take care of two things..
    one is, she should never feel like u are forcing her
    secondly,the attempt must be done for one time only, then forget it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Well my gf does modelling assignments sometimes as part time job.. she is a student now.
    But i am not ok with it. I dont like she being watched by others..
    Couple of times i hinted her but her reaction was negative and was like if i press her more she will leave me.. so how can i make her quit this? She tells its my problem, where is the fault?????


    I understand all your concerns dear boy, but you also have to understand one thing that when we choose a career we want our family and our loved ones to support us. We don't like negative people who tell us that our chosen career is wrong. This is exactly what you're doing. Maybe your gf has always wanted to become a model...if this is what she has dreamt of, then trust me on this...she will never listen to you. Very rarely we get a chance to make our dreams come true. And when someone stands against our career, then no matter how much you love him/her now...in the long run love is bound to fade away. Let her fly in the skies...let her fulfill her dreams...give space to her. If love is there, then no matter what she does, her professional life will never trouble your personal life. If you still are strictly against her profession, then I am afraid your relationship with her will not survive for long. Take care!

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    In any job she may go, if she is good looking people will notice her.
    SInce she is into this undoubtedly she will be beautiful.
    So u can not run away from that fact. Be happy that u have got a good girlfriend and she thinks yourself also a good match for her too

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    Cant see any problem in it. Perhaps its only for this studying period only
    and later she will find some other job. ANyways, tell her ur fears

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