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    Angry Issues with my bf! What to do?

    HIEE mam, im lov with a guy for 2.5 years its was gng very nce.... but many tme we break up..for sme reason like im very possive for my bf.... nd we pln to get marry also but nw a day he was hvng a fun or wht every .. he has told me 2 time tht whn we will get marry i will use to make u work so much... im sacred for nt dng work but becz i hve seen many people who beaten her wife ...so..nd he gve me the tme but all the tme his frnd taks beside him...he realy dnt do wht i want??? .... he lov me but dnt shw i really dnt knw why?? he say mari aaadat nhi h.. shw karna ki...nd do din sa theek sa tak bhi nhi ho rhi h.... so plzzzzzzzzz tell wht to do.. mam.....

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    Well, you have known him for quite sometime now...you would know if he is the type to wull treat you after marriage, or is he just joking when he says that he will make you work a lot. You would also know his home situation by now. is it a place where women are made to do a lot of work? Because home is the place where most of the learning takes place.

    If you are still unsure about this boy...whether or not he will take care of you, then take it easy before you rush into marriage. Its better to take some time now rather than suffer later.

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    just listen what he's saying but not think over 2 much .........................
    just ignore him as he doing with u ........
    dnt talk 2 much ..... with him ....
    let him feel your importance ........ in his life .....
    wish u a best ov luck .......

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    Give him some space. And be together for more time.
    That will help u to sort out ur differences.

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    Issues occur in alomost all relationships. The trick lies in keeping ur patience on Whnever u have a difference of opinion.
    Those who are willing to talk and solve it always wins while those who try to argue and win, end up as failures

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    Hi

    Getting a boyfriend or Girlfriend is not like getting a pet dog or a cat that he has to do what you ask him to do... Boyfriend is a friend first... so stop trying to own him.. Your partner does not have to agree to everything you say to prove that he/she loves you.

    Does you father beat your mom? or does anyone else in your close family have an abusive marriage or do they have a marriage which is full of violence and fights... If your boyfriend is the violent kind then you should not even think about being friends with him anymore let alone marry him in future.

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    jus **** ur b.f. nd search n another ****

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    Possessiveness is a relatinship killer. So cimpletely get rid of that habit.
    For that u will have to find out ur insecurities. Calm ur mind telling that when he speak with other woman there is nothing wrong in it. In fact if other girls take interest in talking to him, thats a compliment for you also

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    There is no problem which can not be solved through talking.
    But before that have u though why problems are popping up?
    when a difference of opinion happen, and both parties are intolerant towards it. And that in turn show the lack of understanding, love, patience etc.

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    These are common issues. Dnt give them more importance than they actually deserve

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    Before marriage itself reach an agreement that all work has to be shared equally. Beating can occur only if u are a soft target and u let it to happen. Else that will not be a problem. And most importanlyt stop being afraid so much, most of these are only ur assumptions and fears, does not mean he will do it

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    Thats the way some guys are, they will have love but they will be miserly in showing it....... For such type it will be required to tell them how u want them to behave

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    Lets say its all because of a small fault of yours.
    When u end ur possessiveness or put some control over it, then things will start to ge tbetter

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    from now on dont try to control him
    if he talks with other girls its ok, he is nto cheating

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    All the issues are born because of ur character only.
    The way u behave and see arelationship must be changed. Then it will begin to feel better

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