Best friend in love with girl I love
I am in a confused situation
I love a girl and she recently told me she also loves me..
But the next day my best friend tells me that he loves her and will die for her.
Dont know what to do now, how can i tell him? If he knows our friendship is dead!!!!
Well, how can you NOT tell him my dear? Its something that cannot be kept a secret and should not be either. You would be unfair to all three of you if you did not tell your friend about the real situation.
So, be brave and tell him how it is. After all, you do have the girl's feelings to consider also, don't you and you would be keeping your friend also in the dark if you did not tell him how things are.
Hi,
Your friend will know it one day for sure. So why not tell this urself?
Infact, u must have told this the moment he said about his love.
By postponing u made it worse
If ur friendship is so weak to be broken then its better it does not exist anyway.
That means u two lack a good level of understanding. Just think about it, telling this urself is better than he knowing it from somebody else
Come on she is not your wife but just a gf. Friends are for life and girls come and go
Someday he has to know, then its best to let him know at the earlier.
And do it urself, thats what u should do as a friend.
Originally Posted by Kiran/Jaipur
ah!...this is a tough condition to be in Kiran...But you don't have any choice other than telling your bestfriend about this all. If the girl loves you, and you love her, there's just no place for your best friend. He'd have to accept this, and if he can't then he's just not worth your friendship. Or do it this way, instead of you telling your best friend, why don't you let your gf say all this to him. This way you'd give a choice to your gf and she'd know whats going on between your friendship, plus she'd get to make the decision here. Your firend will talk to your gf in a nicer way, and he'd be willing to listen to her. But when you'll talk to him, he may not be that nice. And if he's really into your gf, then for sure there will be some arguments. In my opinion, that'd be the best way to deal with this matter. Good luck!
Or there is another way to ask him and ur gf to come to place
And then explain things, or let ur gf talk to him
which one u like most???
freind or that girl..
choose one.. and leave one.. so simple....
so many films made on this yarr...
Pyaaaaaaaar, pyaar, pyaar,pyaar, pyaar, pyaar, pyaar...chahiye thoda pyaar, thoda pyaar chahiye...
...:::: ZapaTTa ::::...
There is no other solution than to accept it.
Or are you ready for a scarifice??? Evenif u are ready, will the girl agree to be with ur friend as she lvoes you???
so certainly there is no other choice
Doesnt matter. because the girl has already declared her love towards you. So he was a little late and unlucky
He will feel bad for some days. But soon he will recover.
There is a chance for friendship to get weakened after this. So be extreemly patient evenif he does something silly
dont be emotional. marry the girl and live happily
don't confuse........... listen voice of your heart....
Lovely Lovely O Meri Bubbly
Meet up with him with out wasting any more time. Tell him you are already in love and you had no idea he also loved her. Also tell its due to shock that you couldnt reply that day when he revealed this. Add that, she also loves you. If he has some sense left, that must be enough for him to change his mind
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