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    Madam, my wife was not talking to me or rather so rude for the last two months. But the relations while talking, chatting, have got normal. But I am afraid how to go for physical relations with her and feels if i ask for physical relation, she may again stop talking. I, however, do not belileve that she will refuse, actually, I think I am confused. On the one hand I believe, physical relations between married couple should not be restricted by respective spouse and on the other hand I feel I am so anxious to have the relation comparative to my spouse. I also get disturbed, when I see other ladies and honestly speaking, neither I can go forward nor I can let me understand that it's bad. I don't like going here and there but to be committed with my wife only. I also want to know whether it is the common habbit of wives to show their disinterest in physical relation or it is only the invitation to their respective husbands?? Please suggest/advise... (JSK)

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    Well, why don't you make the move towards her and see how she responds. Surely, as husband and wife, you both can respond to the signals that both of you give out...so do that and then take it forward from there!

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    Being a husband u have all the right to ask her for physical intimacy...You shudnt force her though...
    Just approach her in such a loving manner that would arouse her...
    And it was so nice to hear from you that come what may, you would always remain loyal to your wife..

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    It will be better u ask it to her yourself.. The right and wrong in this matter depends entirely on the people involved

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    dont get tempted by other women. Thats a bad habit. And need to be removed immediately.
    Bcoz this can create issues once u get married too

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    u dnt mentioned why such situation arises...i mean why she started talking rudely??

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    "I also want to know whether it is the common habbit of wives to show their disinterest in physical relation"


    its normal........

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    U can ask her, not directly but give some hint.
    The question will be whether she is ready for it or not. For that u can trust ur instincts, if ur mind tells u its ok thengo for it, else avoid

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    Whats the reason for this rude behaviour? How rude is she? and is it real or are youfearing it to be so?
    Normally i dont see any reaosn why any wife should stop talking if demanded for sex. Looks like there are some other reasons in ur marriage for all these problems

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    do some thing new, creative
    "Don't wait for the Perfect moment.. take the Moment and make it Perfect."


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    If she has calmed down, ask her for it. But don't force it, otherwise u will mess it up again! Make her feel important, give her respect and make her see your love and your relationship will improve! I appreciate your loyalty towards your wife!

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    Ur sex life lacks understanding and dialogue. Spend more time together. talk about whats in ur mind. Then there wont be anymore confusions. When there is neough love, sex life will also get interesting

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    Like a minority of men you are being afraid of your wife Probalby its something releated with confidence. Anyway, u should be able to face her, not in bed room matters alone but in everything. You are the one who is supposed to move the family, when she cant. So be in the lead with her, dont lag behind

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    This does not seem like an invitation but disinterest only.
    The reason for which can be found out only by you. Think how things were lately in your life, what went wrong where and you will be able to find it easily

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    want to a physical wid ur wife is ok...
    sex is the need of love need of marriage..
    sex is the want of love want of marriage..
    sex is the need of healthy relationship..
    i dont think wanting sex wid wife is bad thing...
    u shud tlk 2 ur wife nicely n gently n tell abt ur love ur want ur need ur desires..
    she'll understand..
    dont take initiative all the times..smtimes let her take the initiative then move on.
    njoy ur life..

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