I have been following your comments for a long time.
pls help me in this problem...
Iam 22, Iam basically from a small town in south India and from a traditional and conservative family.
Iam married to a guy in a city.I work in a private concern.
my problem is
I always wear my saree above my navel.
But my husband insists me to wear saree below my navel as, if I wear
saree above my navel I seem to look like a village girl for him.
But I feel shy and I think if i wear saree below navel it looks vulgar.
Even if i wear above my navel he gently scolds me, tells me often that Iam a villager.
then one day I was wearing my saree below my navel,my mom came...
she scolded me and asked me to be like a family girl and not to expose my navel..
But my husband said that old people will always be like that and be contemporary...
Whom's word should I follow? my mom or my husband?
Is wearing saree below navel ok for a traditional south Indian girl?..
Do exposing navel in public gives a bad impression over my personality, is it vulgarity?
Even then if I follow my husband's words... I really feel shy to expose my navel in public..
Actually my navel looks good and my build is quite slim...
But what should I do to overcome my shyness if I can wear saree below my navel?..
Please help mam..