Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 16

Thread: In Love With A Call Girl.

  1. #1
    Unregistered
    Guest

    Default In Love With A Call Girl.

    Dear Mam,
    I work in a MNC at Mumbai. My career was going fine for last 3 years,but 6 months ago a new girl joined my office.She was the most charming girl in the entire corporate sector & her communication skills and personality became the talking point of whole firm pretty soon.Though i tried to maintain a distance from her, plus i didn't wanted to join the rat race for impressing the most beautiful girl in the office,but somehow her personality or her incredible looks or maybe her skills as a talented team member or maybe all of them,i was tempted to talk to her too. As i got to know her, i realised that she was a very soft spoken & down to earth girl.She discussed many things about herself with me & soon we became pals. I was getting absolutely swept off my feet with this girl's incredible beauty, charm, talent coupled with a nice heart & friendly attitude. She was almost perfect for any guy & soon i realised i was in love with her. I proposed her a month back at a planned dinner,she was surprisingly shocked at this & kept telling me to think about it again.
    At night when i went dropping her home, she called me inside & told me that i was a very nice guy & any girl would be lucky to have me as a future partner. But she can't fall into a relationship as she was a professional high society escort & she doesn't wanted any trouble in her future life because of this.
    Mam, she is convinced that i do love her & i will accept her past too, but she says she doesn't wants me to have sympathy with her & it can become a weak point in the marriage considering the conditions & relationship may change in future.
    I know she's not into this profession now, she had financial problems & exploitation which led her to this ugly job. But she has lost faith in marriages & relationships(her parents are separated long time back too).
    How can i make her understand & convince her that i will not question her past ever?
    I want to live my life alongside her, no matter what situation arises,i will always be at her side & will love her for the rest of her life without questioning or doubting her past, present & future.
    How can i make her understand that she can have a relationship with me without any blames, guilts & suspiscions over her ever,
    please help,i love her from the core of my heart!

  2. #2
    Moderator Lieutenant General Preeto Maam's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Posts
    60,211
    Rep Power
    100

    Default

    Well, if you continue showing your love and devotion to her, she will be convinced, but listen to what I am about to say to you carefully.

    Are you sure that you can handle her past? its very easy to say it in the first flush of love, but remember, you have to live with it and be a strong, mature human being to not throw it in her face at a later date. You need to be prepared for that now, because it will be very hurtful for her if, after telling you the truth, you fling it in her face everytime you have a fight.

    Thats one thing, and the other is, you had better examine if you are mature enough to handle her past, and only then go ahead!

  3. #3
    Banned Major
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    Kashmir-370
    Posts
    4,599
    Rep Power
    0

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Dear Mam,
    I work in a MNC at Mumbai. My career was going fine for last 3 years,but 6 months ago a new girl joined my office.She was the most charming girl in the entire corporate sector & her communication skills and personality became the talking point of whole firm pretty soon.Though i tried to maintain a distance from her, plus i didn't wanted to join the rat race for impressing the most beautiful girl in the office,but somehow her personality or her incredible looks or maybe her skills as a talented team member or maybe all of them,i was tempted to talk to her too. As i got to know her, i realised that she was a very soft spoken & down to earth girl.She discussed many things about herself with me & soon we became pals. I was getting absolutely swept off my feet with this girl's incredible beauty, charm, talent coupled with a nice heart & friendly attitude. She was almost perfect for any guy & soon i realised i was in love with her. I proposed her a month back at a planned dinner,she was surprisingly shocked at this & kept telling me to think about it again.
    At night when i went dropping her home, she called me inside & told me that i was a very nice guy & any girl would be lucky to have me as a future partner. But she can't fall into a relationship as she was a professional high society escort & she doesn't wanted any trouble in her future life because of this.
    Mam, she is convinced that i do love her & i will accept her past too, but she says she doesn't wants me to have sympathy with her & it can become a weak point in the marriage considering the conditions & relationship may change in future.
    I know she's not into this profession now, she had financial problems & exploitation which led her to this ugly job. But she has lost faith in marriages & relationships(her parents are separated long time back too).
    How can i make her understand & convince her that i will not question her past ever?
    I want to live my life alongside her, no matter what situation arises,i will always be at her side & will love her for the rest of her life without questioning or doubting her past, present & future.
    How can i make her understand that she can have a relationship with me without any blames, guilts & suspiscions over her ever,
    please help,i love her from the core of my heart!

    give her numbers

    i will speak to her than will advice you

  4. #4
    Young Gun visio1's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2009
    Posts
    248
    Rep Power
    44

    Default

    I wish you good luck. Hope it works out for you if you truly love her. But you need to remember one thing. It is very different seeing someone for few hours as compared to living with them. Hanging out in the office, going out of coffee, picking up and dropping off and all this cute stuff is a phase. It usually does not happen after marriage after you have to live with the same person everyday (dont take it personally).

    Also couples do fight! You need to remember never to bring up this topic regardless of the situation you are in.

    Have a good think about it as when the reality kicks in even the most beautiful, cute, charming woman in the world get divorced.

    Good luck with your decision.

  5. #5
    Moderator Major General galaxy_resident's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Leon Valley
    Posts
    30,363
    Rep Power
    59

    Default

    At first it is easy to say that you will accept her past, but it might be a test for you later on. If you have made up your mind, then remember not to mention her past ever again in front of her, not even playfully. Also ask her about her health issues as she was in this field without hurting her.

  6. #6
    SB ICON Lieutenant General don99's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Posts
    45,047
    Rep Power
    71

    Default

    Only make Love but with condom........ :-D
    just kidding... follow maam...........
    "Don't wait for the Perfect moment.. take the Moment and make it Perfect."


  7. #7
    SB Champion Lieutenant prashant4u's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    1,370
    Rep Power
    48

    Default

    love with call girl is not a problem but the problem will rise in future for.....understand the situation here....

  8. #8
    Young Gun
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Posts
    274
    Rep Power
    42

    Default

    Dont marry her. Your family will get in trouble. Just remain friend ...and may go for physical relationship...if u feel like. Give her flat and all amenities. Treat her like wife. Even law gives dignity to illegitmate "wife". But clear all things like your future plans abt marrying, not giving social recognition, financial security for her etc.

  9. #9
    New Born Prashant117's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    kota
    Posts
    38
    Rep Power
    34

    Default

    U are a different man just like a diamond in a coal mil & lotus in a mud.
    love is still alive just because of persons like u. had anyone else been there he would have taken the benefit of that girl.
    I proud of u... go ahead u r going 2 do a good deed. BEST OF LUCK.

  10. #10
    SB Champion Lieutenant
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Posts
    1,095
    Rep Power
    48

    Default

    I really like ur personality because u are one of them who is willing to forget and move on. U realize that it was not her choice and u are willing to accept her. I am sure that she will fall for u keep trying and good luck...

  11. #11
    New Born
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    61
    Rep Power
    34

    Default

    u said that u love her a lot n wouldnt raise question abt her past in future...but it wont happen frankly speking because u thnk u love her alot but when u both will hav in relation i m 100% sure that this question will raise every time..so better think now n dont make decision in hurry...think practically..yasa na hoki baad mei tume aapni decsion par pachatap ho n u will start hurting her...

  12. #12
    New Born
    Join Date
    May 2008
    Location
    India
    Posts
    53
    Rep Power
    52

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Preeto Maam View Post
    Well, if you continue showing your love and devotion to her, she will be convinced, but listen to what I am about to say to you carefully.

    Are you sure that you can handle her past? its very easy to say it in the first flush of love, but remember, you have to live with it and be a strong, mature human being to not throw it in her face at a later date. You need to be prepared for that now, because it will be very hurtful for her if, after telling you the truth, you fling it in her face everytime you have a fight.

    Thats one thing, and the other is, you had better examine if you are mature enough to handle her past, and only then go ahead!
    I completely second Preeto Ma'ms answer. You need to take each step very carefully. Handling her past is not going to be easy, what if you bump 5 yrs down the line into someone who has already shared her bed during her troubled times and makes a scene on seeing her with you at a public place? Can you imagine the embarrasment she and you would have to handle that point in time? Are you ready to be that strong and firm that you will stand by her thick and thin come what may? Please answer these questions honestly. Also a professional escort due to her job compulsion could have been bed partners with lot of shady people, underworld, gangsters who can pay the price, they may have taped her secretly and might use it at a later date to blackmail her and you. Marraige is a HUGE thing and it requires LOT of responsibility and in your case HUGE HUGE compromisis. VERY VERY few guys in this world are ready to make such kind of compromises time and again which you will be required to do once you marry her, are you HONESTLY and WILLINGLY ready to do that?
    If you really are saying YES, please go ahead and make her life happy and it would be a noble thing to do. If you have the SLIGHTEST doubt about anything, please heed her advice and move away from her RIGHT NOW!!!

  13. #13
    ..Yaar Patialavi.. Lieutenant-Colonel a_decent_1's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    Location
    Wanderer
    Posts
    10,496
    Rep Power
    53

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Dear Mam,
    I work in a MNC at Mumbai. My career was going fine for last 3 years,but 6 months ago a new girl joined my office.She was the most charming girl in the entire corporate sector & her communication skills and personality became the talking point of whole firm pretty soon.Though i tried to maintain a distance from her, plus i didn't wanted to join the rat race for impressing the most beautiful girl in the office,but somehow her personality or her incredible looks or maybe her skills as a talented team member or maybe all of them,i was tempted to talk to her too. As i got to know her, i realised that she was a very soft spoken & down to earth girl.She discussed many things about herself with me & soon we became pals. I was getting absolutely swept off my feet with this girl's incredible beauty, charm, talent coupled with a nice heart & friendly attitude. She was almost perfect for any guy & soon i realised i was in love with her. I proposed her a month back at a planned dinner,she was surprisingly shocked at this & kept telling me to think about it again.
    At night when i went dropping her home, she called me inside & told me that i was a very nice guy & any girl would be lucky to have me as a future partner. But she can't fall into a relationship as she was a professional high society escort & she doesn't wanted any trouble in her future life because of this.
    Mam, she is convinced that i do love her & i will accept her past too, but she says she doesn't wants me to have sympathy with her & it can become a weak point in the marriage considering the conditions & relationship may change in future.
    I know she's not into this profession now, she had financial problems & exploitation which led her to this ugly job. But she has lost faith in marriages & relationships(her parents are separated long time back too).
    How can i make her understand & convince her that i will not question her past ever?
    I want to live my life alongside her, no matter what situation arises,i will always be at her side & will love her for the rest of her life without questioning or doubting her past, present & future.
    How can i make her understand that she can have a relationship with me without any blames, guilts & suspiscions over her ever,
    please help,i love her from the core of my heart!
    First, Escort is not a Call Girl ... !!

    Second, Are you SURE you can handle her sexual past..? Right now you are obssessed wit her. But, will you be so much in love with her forever.?

    Third, If you commit to her, NEVER BRING UP HER PAST.

    If you understand all three, then you just need to be around her.. Always be nice to her and help her in all possible ways.. !! She would be yourz soon.

    G'day
    Miss you Dadaji

  14. #14
    New Born a BeAuTiFuL MiNd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2010
    Location
    BHUBANESWAR
    Posts
    42
    Rep Power
    35

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Dear Mam,
    I work in a MNC at Mumbai. My career was going fine for last 3 years,but 6 months ago a new girl joined my office.She was the most charming girl in the entire corporate sector & her communication skills and personality became the talking point of whole firm pretty soon.Though i tried to maintain a distance from her, plus i didn't wanted to join the rat race for impressing the most beautiful girl in the office,but somehow her personality or her incredible looks or maybe her skills as a talented team member or maybe all of them,i was tempted to talk to her too. As i got to know her, i realised that she was a very soft spoken & down to earth girl.She discussed many things about herself with me & soon we became pals. I was getting absolutely swept off my feet with this girl's incredible beauty, charm, talent coupled with a nice heart & friendly attitude. She was almost perfect for any guy & soon i realised i was in love with her. I proposed her a month back at a planned dinner,she was surprisingly shocked at this & kept telling me to think about it again.
    At night when i went dropping her home, she called me inside & told me that i was a very nice guy & any girl would be lucky to have me as a future partner. But she can't fall into a relationship as she was a professional high society escort & she doesn't wanted any trouble in her future life because of this.
    Mam, she is convinced that i do love her & i will accept her past too, but she says she doesn't wants me to have sympathy with her & it can become a weak point in the marriage considering the conditions & relationship may change in future.
    I know she's not into this profession now, she had financial problems & exploitation which led her to this ugly job. But she has lost faith in marriages & relationships(her parents are separated long time back too).
    How can i make her understand & convince her that i will not question her past ever?
    I want to live my life alongside her, no matter what situation arises,i will always be at her side & will love her for the rest of her life without questioning or doubting her past, present & future.
    How can i make her understand that she can have a relationship with me without any blames, guilts & suspiscions over her ever,
    please help,i love her from the core of my heart!
    Maa kasam FILMY hai... ..

    dekh bhai practical life mein ye sab cheejen hold nhi karta..
    yaar, bolna asaan hai... ..

    D thing I wud suggest u s judge ur self can u tackle her past ? ... ..

    tk 1year , c if u r nt gettin attracted 2ne other girl..n having same passion 4her2... if it s.. den Bhavi ji hav 2giv a thought on ur relationsip 2tak it 2d nxt level...

    bt d bottom line s loving sum1 does n't mean dat u marry dat person.....

    all d best....
    long live... cheers....

  15. #15
    New Born
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    5
    Rep Power
    0

    Post hmm

    Hey dude,

    First of all - tuff luck!

    I agree with most of the people here and the above given advises should give you a thought or two ..

    However - why are you so desperate to get married? If you are having doubts, why not try taking your current relationship forward?

    Get to know her and let things shape up with time - if you are willing to do anything for her, 1-2 years should not matter to you!

    Even after getting involved completely(the condition when murgi becomes ghar ki daal) - you are still in love with her and you believe that you are ok with her past - THEN GO FOR IT!

    Making decisions in haste will cause trouble for both for you!!

    Anyways, last decision will always be yours!

    Cheers,
    NMKRH

    P.S. - You both work in MNC, so go abroad in a year or two and settle there if you are worried about people..cheers

Similar Threads

  1. Drew Drew Only Drew
    By ~sumit~ in forum International Celebrities
    Replies: 172
    Last Post: 08-08-2010, 05:56 PM
  2. Unconditional Love is the Answer
    By Swetu in forum Chit Chat Corner
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 01-10-2009, 02:34 PM
  3. What is LOVE ??
    By Missy in forum Ask Preeto / Agony Aunt
    Replies: 328
    Last Post: 21-07-2009, 08:17 PM
  4. Lyric$ Ka Pittara
    By passion_love077@yahoo.co.in in forum Music
    Replies: 49
    Last Post: 11-01-2007, 10:55 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •