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    Default My friend thinks i m a liar.

    Respected Preeto Ma'am,

    I m dealing with a very annoying situation starting 2 days back.

    One of my friend lost her pen drive in the institute where we study together, couple of months back. She told me about the incident, and it got ended then itself.

    Two days back i gave her a pen drive to transfer some data. Unfortunately the pen drive she lost was exactly of the same type. She asked me where did i got it from, which actually belonged to my brother's friend. I told her honestly, but she didn't accepted it.

    Now she thinks that i m a liar, and she is not ready to talk to me at all. I m totally pissed off from this incident. Now even i m also not takin this issue forward.

    I can leave this issue here itself and consider this friendship closed (anyways i was taking course transfer from my institute, as i m shifting to another city).

    But ma'am i still value you and your advice, so please tell, what should be my move......?

    Thanks in advance.... :-)

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    Hmmm, I understand how annoying it must be to be considered a liar who has picked up something which you have not. While letting the issue be because you are leaving and so it wont matter in a few days, is one option. But it does not resolve the matter, does it?

    The other option is to clear the air with her...make her understand that her accusations are unfounded and hurtful!

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    Show her the contents of the pen drive.. if tis hers then her files must be there, whic wont be as its not hers if ur claims are true

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    give her new pen drive and say u never stolen it .....and mark the frndship forever before u go..i am sure she will understand this once u leave .....

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    U cant do anything about it when a person misunderstands you..
    pray that time will prove ur innocence

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    Then simply buy her a new pen drive that will solve the issue...

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    I think that depends on your strength of friendship. You can simply tell her that you didn't steal her pen drive and close the matter there or if you badly want her friendship then buy her a new one.

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    There must be some visible atleast a tiny scratch to prove that u are true.. look for it in the pen drive

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    May be u managed to give them an image of a man who can nto be trusted. So finally tis getting into reality.

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    The choices you ahve are
    1)prove somehow the pendrive is not the one she owned
    2)ignoe the whole matter and let her believe whatever she wants
    3)Use one of ur friends who can vouch that you actually owned a pendrive like that fro past itself
    4)gift her a new drive

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    You cant do anything about it.. just let it be so

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    tell her that keep that pen drive with her....thats it........

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    Its impossible to change what someone believes...let her find ou the truth herself

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    May be ur whole action in the past before this incident was suspciious and ur general behaviour and looks radiate the image ofa liar.. that maybe why they think that u stole something as simple as a pendrive

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    Idoubt soething is wrong with ur appearance.
    Some people have this inborn appearance of a liar/thief etc such that nobody will bleive them evenif they are innocent

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