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    maam.i just want to ask you that how to get over my past. i have a boyfrnd in past he wants to marry me but now he is married with some1 else becoz of some of the reasons things wont work between us or may b it was my fault . so many years have gone in between and in this time so many boys tried to come in my life and somehow i got infactuated to them(not to all) but everytime i realised that i m yet not ready for any relation. i dont know i will b able to forget it or not because my prblm is this that i cant lie to any1 if they ask me abt my past. sometimes i feels that i have to lead my life alone but i know its not possible and i even dont know that i will ever get a boy who will understand everything and accept me..i always keep myself busy in doing other things but one thing that keeps coming in my mind that will i b able to love any1 or trust any1.. plz suggest me some things...

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    Listen, don't spend so much time over someone who was in the past, will you? That's over and done with, so why allow it to impact your future in any way? I strongly advise you to get out of this rut you have thrust yourself into and start life afresh. The more you cry after something that is over, the more you will suffer and spoil your present and future also.

    Also, whats the need of supplying all the details of your past relationships to people? Really, most people cannot handle it...so you are really being your own worst enemy, are you not?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    maam.i just want to ask you that how to get over my past. i have a boyfrnd in past he wants to marry me but now he is married with some1 else becoz of some of the reasons things wont work between us or may b it was my fault . so many years have gone in between and in this time so many boys tried to come in my life and somehow i got infactuated to them(not to all) but everytime i realised that i m yet not ready for any relation. i dont know i will b able to forget it or not because my prblm is this that i cant lie to any1 if they ask me abt my past. sometimes i feels that i have to lead my life alone but i know its not possible and i even dont know that i will ever get a boy who will understand everything and accept me..i always keep myself busy in doing other things but one thing that keeps coming in my mind that will i b able to love any1 or trust any1.. plz suggest me some things...
    Just understand that you had a relation with a wrong person because you were immature at that time and it was just a hiccup in your life, nothing else. If you cannot conceal your past, try censoring it like 'it was just infatuation, nothing serious at all' etc. Usually such things should be sealed in mind but you can try this if you aren't able to. Avoid thinking too much about your past, it will make you all the more weak and move on in life.

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