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    im 14 and my dad beats me whn he finds some mistake i do..
    he beats me for everythng for playing crickets or marks in exam..
    he drinks and when he is drunk that days he beats a lot..
    plz help

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    Whats ur mom's stand on it? whose side she is on? Is she afraid to protect u or go against the beatings?

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    Oh, thats terrible! In India, children's rights are not at all well defined and kids are usually helpless against abusive parents. well, child, you will have to ask your mom or some elder relative to intervene. Your da'ds brother or sister, or someone elder in the family should explain to him that you feel fear and pain, and its going to negatively impact you.

    Ask your mother to ask someone to intervene if she won't do it herself!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    im 14 and my dad beats me whn he finds some mistake i do..
    he beats me for everythng for playing crickets or marks in exam..
    he drinks and when he is drunk that days he beats a lot..
    plz help

    how anyone on this forum can help you




    discuss with your dad , your randparents , your uncle

    in the end , police

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    involve your fathers' elder relatives ...i made the mistake of keeping mum over beating issue and regret it...Tell this...to some one really tact ful who is elder to your father.

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    That's really an issue sweetheart , my heart goes out to you.
    In this country really, its unfortunate that u have no "Child care helplines"
    don't be disheartened...there are many NGOs which answer the issue.
    As of now i suggest stay out of his way when he's drunk... Does he beat up ur mum too...?? Go to the police if it gets too much. dial 100.
    Legally according to the JUVENILE JUSTICE ACT if cruelty is proved....you will be sent to some relative of yours or your dad will be remanded and on probation

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    List them all in paper and try not to make those mistakes again, let me clarify you at first, I am not supporting your father at all. And I will not much be supportive also to the idea of bringing your relatives and your mother to get them speak in favor of you as your father is a drunker and sounds like a freak, you can try them though for a while, but I don't think they will work. Therefore, make sure you are not around him when he is in bad mood and found you making mistakes. Try it until you are over 18, your father will eventually stop beating you but in case he continues beating you, it will be enough time for you then to raise your voice against him, and that will definitely make him rethink before he beats you again. Until then, this much you can do. Don't find my suggestion to be tough but the truth is sun always smiles after the clouds fade away, and the clouds can not cover up the sun all the time it wants, it has to move on for another place regardless of unknown time duration. God bless you!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anioba View Post
    That's really an issue sweetheart , my heart goes out to you.
    In this country really, its unfortunate that u have no "Child care helplines"
    don't be disheartened...there are many NGOs which answer the issue.
    As of now i suggest stay out of his way when he's drunk... Does he beat up ur mum too...?? Go to the police if it gets too much. dial 100.
    Legally according to the JUVENILE JUSTICE ACT if cruelty is proved....you will be sent to some relative of yours or your dad will be remanded and on probation
    Couldn't have said it better!

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    U and ur mom should complain it to the cops..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    im 14 and my dad beats me whn he finds some mistake i do..
    he beats me for everythng for playing crickets or marks in exam..
    he drinks and when he is drunk that days he beats a lot..
    plz help
    this is just awful .. i dont know what 2 advise u
    i would say stand up 4 youself , but u r tooo young
    2 do so , i think ur mum should interfere this is soo unfair
    i guess ur mother also suffers from this bad habbit of ur dad ...
    i dont know where r u from or what is the circumstances that
    surround u but u ve 2 ask for help from more eligible ones...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    im 14 and my dad beats me whn he finds some mistake i do..
    he beats me for everythng for playing crickets or marks in exam..
    he drinks and when he is drunk that days he beats a lot..
    plz help

    Standing for your own, going to cops and things like that are good to say and hear, but it is not very easy to practically do. Atleast in our society.

    But you are not helpless at all, You may seek help from 'CHILDLINE' by calling them on their number which is 1098. Some 'Didi' or 'Bhaiyya' will be there for your help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phoenix bird View Post
    Standing for your own, going to cops and things like that are good to say and hear, but it is not very easy to practically do. Atleast in our society.

    But you are not helpless at all, You may seek help from 'CHILDLINE' by calling them on their number which is 1098. Some 'Didi' or 'Bhaiyya' will be there for your help.
    i wouldnot advise him better
    well said , he should listen 2 u ....

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    just wait for few years till u grow up... join a gym.. develop a strong body... beat your dad.... u have the duty to make ur dad a good citizen....

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    Get help from somebody in the family...
    Since he is ur dad u cant fight him back so u need omebody else to stop ur dad when he begins beating. I think ur mom will also be helpless.. contact somebody close like if u have any uncles etc then ask them to do something.

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    there are many organizations which can take care of u and ur mom. i dont think this can be solved with out legal help

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