hello mam, i am 26 year male.i have been in a relationship with a girl for 3.5 years.I truely love her.one day she suddenly said that she have talked to her parents but they r nt ready for our marriage so we shud stop our relationship.as per me i told her we shud contenu as we r as soon as u ll be ngaged we ll start departing. but she insisted nt to talk at night n b lik a frnd.i said ok.
i stopped calling her at nit and talked to her as a frnd.After 3 months i called her at night he no. was busy,she told me she is talking to her frnd (boy) i said this is nt the time to talk to a frnd so dont talk at nit.again nxt day she was buy i again said her then nxt day same case n tht time i said harsh words to her.next day i find her call detail for last 3 months...since 3 months she was talking to tht frnd day time as well as night time till 5 AM.i was out of control still calmly nxt day i asked her abt these calls 1stly she said her mother told her to test me how ll i react if her call is busy at nite so she made her call busy for last 3-4 days then i said i have proof for last 3 months...she said she is her frnd only.i said ok n told her not to lie in future with me.
nxt day i asked abt jer sunday plan she said she is going for movie with her frnd(girl) but i knew tht she had this plan with tht frnd only with all th proofs..i said y she is lying to me.but whenever i found her lying to me she starts crying n never ans me.
i lost all trust on her.
i wanted to end up our relation nicely but not able to do tht now..
pls suggest me y she is behaving lik tht n how can i end relation nicely.
Thanks in advance