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    hello every one..
    I hve a muslim friend...he was very depressed from smtime n when i asked he said that he has been forced to marry his own cousin...he didnt want to bt he is forced..
    i wanna ask how is it possible dat a community allows one to marry his own sister or brother?? is it allowed in islam??
    isnt it a social crime??

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    No it is not a social crime. It is allowed in Islam to marry cousin. As they are not brothers or sisters.

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    ha ha -- another social wellfare ---

    u acnot accuse like that---


    wat is unkown to u --is always strange to u--

    i know of creed in south--where every gal is forced to marry her uncle--maternal uncle--

    mama..

    & how muchever elder than the girl mama be---

    10yrs-- 20 yrs--watever-- wen woman gives birth to a baby--- her brother has right for marriage---

    athts their system--which is normla to them-- but strange to others...


    u shudnt condemn anyone without knowing sweeteart...
    Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.

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    yeha marrying against will is stricktly condemned in islam--

    not seen in movies... they take permission & only then marry-- else its crime
    Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.

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    He seems to be a fakie or maybe some relative of our very own social-patient....

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    Quote Originally Posted by complete_man View Post
    He seems to be a fakie or maybe some relative of our very own social-patient....
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    waisey too much concerned abt his friend!!!i guess!! ha ha
    Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sens View Post
    yeha marrying against will is stricktly condemned in islam--

    not seen in movies... they take permission & only then marry-- else its crime
    Agreed. One must find the WILL of both Male/Female. Which is normally not a practice.

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    Hey!
    U can not brand it a social crime to marry ones cousin.. N i can surely say tat in islam ta consent of both partners is absolutely essential before marriage to make it valid..
    N moreover .. The groom is asked three times before the whole gathering if he is happy with the marriage n gives consent o no!
    So i think u should check out wit ur friend WHY he said yes at that time.. N kno the reasons why his family "forced" him as he says.. It LOOKS MORE OF A PERSONAL PROBLEM.. so do not go labeling communities as perpetuators of SOCIAL CRIMES..as u call them...
    Last edited by ItsmeSal; 12-12-2010 at 11:38 PM.

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    Islam is a the best religion and has very vast aspect..whatever you are saying is about cousin then can marry with cousin...
    with sister can not marry....
    whatever you told , or who ever misguide you is a bull Shi...
    and if you are trying to do so..then you are...

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    Quote Originally Posted by fearless.dabang View Post
    hello every one..
    I hve a muslim friend...he was very depressed from smtime n when i asked he said that he has been forced to marry his own cousin...he didnt want to bt he is forced..
    i wanna ask how is it possible dat a community allows one to marry his own sister or brother?? is it allowed in islam??
    isnt it a social crime??

    For me its a crime !!!
    cant think of getting physical with sis , be it cousins , its a sin in indian society



    Quote Originally Posted by jahanzaibkhan@msn.com View Post
    No it is not a social crime. It is allowed in Islam to marry cousin. As they are not brothers or sisters.
    In india we consider Cousins also as sister and we celebrate rakhi for the same

    not align with core indian values




    Quote Originally Posted by sens View Post
    ha ha -- another social wellfare ---

    u acnot accuse like that---


    wat is unkown to u --is always strange to u--

    i know of creed in south--where every gal is forced to marry her uncle--maternal uncle--

    mama..

    & how muchever elder than the girl mama be---

    10yrs-- 20 yrs--watever-- wen woman gives birth to a baby--- her brother has right for marriage---

    athts their system--which is normla to them-- but strange to others...


    u shudnt condemn anyone without knowing sweeteart...
    One crime can not justify other
    shame to see a woman justify one shameful act with another fo womanhood




    Quote Originally Posted by ItsmeSal View Post
    Hey!
    U can not brand it a social crime to marry ones cousin.. N i can surely say tat in islam ta consent of both partners is absolutely essential before marriage to make it valid..
    N moreover .. The groom is asked three times before the whole gathering if he is happy with the marriage n gives consent o no!
    So i think u should check out wit ur friend WHY he said yes at that time.. N kno the reasons why his family "forced" him as he says.. It LOOKS MORE OF A PERSONAL PROBLEM.. so do not go labeling communities as perpetuators of SOCIAL CRIMES..as u call them...
    India we have an abusive term called "sis -fcuker " and we as an Indian society consider the same for even cousins also




    Quote Originally Posted by loveguru83 View Post
    Islam is a the best religion and has very vast aspect..whatever you are saying is about cousin then can marry with cousin...
    with sister can not marry....
    whatever you told , or who ever misguide you is a bull Shi...
    and if you are trying to do so..then you are...
    even cousins are brothers and sisters

    this is indian value


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    Quote Originally Posted by thesocialdoctor View Post
    For me its a crime !!!
    cant think of getting physical with sis , be it cousins , its a sin in indian society




    In india we consider Cousins also as sister and we celebrate rakhi for the same

    not align with core indian values




    One crime can not justify other
    shame to see a woman justify one shameful act with another fo womanhood





    India we have an abusive term called "sis -fcuker " and we as an Indian society consider the same for even cousins also






    even cousins are brothers and sisters

    this is indian value


    Where did d questioner say in his question (though its fake) that he is from India??

    N how do u define 'Indian' culture?
    Does the Constitution of India speaks abt it???

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    Quote Originally Posted by thesocialdoctor View Post
    For me its a crime !!!
    cant think of getting physical with sis , be it cousins , its a sin in indian society




    In india we consider Cousins also as sister and we celebrate rakhi for the same

    not align with core indian values






    One crime can not justify other
    shame to see a woman justify one shameful act with another fo womanhood





    India we have an abusive term called "sis -fcuker " and we as an Indian society consider the same for even cousins also






    even cousins are brothers and sisters

    this is indian value

    well said ...and i m an indian too....

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