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    Hello Mam,
    I know a girl who works with me in the same office. We are friends but not very close. We used to hang around always with other friends. I was serious about her since the time when I met her, which she was aware of it (as she came to know from other friends).
    I shifted to abroad around a year back and I am not in close touch with her. However recently I proposed to her but she said no saying that she does not have any feelings for me.

    I felt very disappointed and I am unable to concentrate on anything.. I don't know what should I do...sometimes I feel that i should go back to India to meet her and try to make her understand on how much I am serious about her, but I am not sure if she is serious about someone else. I cannot even check with our other friends as our gang is no more...I am very feeling very low and don't know what to do.. Please advice...

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    Listen to me. If the girl is saying she's not interested, then just take her word for it. there is no point in pushing it my dear. See, when its about love, either you are in love or you are not. Convincing or arguing or cajoling is not going to change things, you know.

    So, better come to terms with that and try and move on!

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    If she said no, then dont waste ur time,
    She may be engaged or otherwise not interested.
    Find some other girl, in few years u willf orget her sure

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    Ladkiyon ka akal padha hai kya?

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    in abroad u hanging with other girllll

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    Since u are far away from her now, ur chances of geting to her is far low now.

    My doubt is she already got another guy. may be thats why she turned u down when u proposed to her

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hello Mam,
    I know a girl who works with me in the same office. We are friends but not very close. We used to hang around always with other friends. I was serious about her since the time when I met her, which she was aware of it (as she came to know from other friends).
    I shifted to abroad around a year back and I am not in close touch with her. However recently I proposed to her but she said no saying that she does not have any feelings for me.

    I felt very disappointed and I am unable to concentrate on anything.. I don't know what should I do...sometimes I feel that i should go back to India to meet her and try to make her understand on how much I am serious about her, but I am not sure if she is serious about someone else. I cannot even check with our other friends as our gang is no more...I am very feeling very low and don't know what to do.. Please advice...
    bro,

    This is what happens when u while away a perfectly good opportunity....
    in stead of wasting ur time thinking,.......
    act fast, when u think the girl's right for u, n u r "seriously serious".....abot her.....
    Strike the iron when its hot......
    About this girl, u can go back to India if u want but then, if she doesn't appretiate it, there's no way u can change free will.....So just let go.....

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    u hv feelings for that girl and u evn
    told her abt this n evn she was aware abt it
    wen u dint told her too,if she hv given a reply
    in no then u dont hv to think abt her. Rather than thinking
    ways to convince her or push her into love coz if she hv clearly
    told u that she dont feel for u then u should hv to take it in your
    stride n jst move on coz theres nothing in that way whr u wnt to head
    coz tht girl hv told u her mind n u hv to understand it...stop thinking abt this chapter
    n move on in your life.......god bless u......
    Every time I hear your voice, I hear another reason to keep
    you forever -

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    I think you should move on and forget this girl. Whats the point in running after a girl who doesn't have any feelings for you? Why to waste money and time for virtually nothing? We all know we can't force anybody to do anything nor we can change free will of a person. So enjoy your life and find a new girl.
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    U are not loving a girl in ur office but in some ther office So u havea great deal of limitations in this love. And the girl is not reciprocating the feelings.
    Anyway try to see whats in her mind. COntact one of ur old colleagues in that office and see what she thinks, whehther she is engaged etc. etc.

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    U need to reestablish contact with her..
    How can u love a girl when u have no contact with her?
    SO call her, message her, or go and meet her, or do anything possible

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    Don't you have anything else to do ? Earn money you may get lot many girls. Why you want to waste time on that girl? Time is money.Besides attraction is relative and it changes time to time. You may feel attracted to someone else. They are all same why worried about a particular one ?

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    she does not like u from beginning
    and she has no clue about ur current state of affairs.
    THis love is in ur mind only, she is unaware, and till she knows about it, thats meaningless.
    Since u have been turned down already, trying agian can be risky so move with caution

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    dont waste time. She is not into you.
    And we cant expect any changes happened in her because for all these years you have been away. WIth out contact iwth a person u can nevre expect any positive change in the direction of love. So u are prabably out of luck

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    How much practical is this love?
    especially when she denied ur request..

    people can change so there is always a possibility, but i dont know if any such possibility exist for you.
    call her and see how she responds. May be she broke up with her current bf and u got an opening, try it.

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