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    Hi guyz.. i am 25 years old,, am a gud luking guy n gud physic too. i have had lots of girl friends but never had sex with them dunnu why,, sumtime m shy and sumtime i think its sinn to have sex before marriage. on the other hands i am habitual to masterbation.. i was in 7th class to the day m writing this m badly indulge in this habit.. and i m doing it too much i mean sumtime 5 times in a day and i've never given away for even a month in so many years..
    please help me get rid of this disease and also i am worried about my married life too cuz i think by the time i wud b almost unable to entertain my wife as now sumtime it takes me a minut to ejaculate...
    plz give me sincer and serious advice.thnx

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    Friend, you do need to get a hold on yourself. I can understand being a guy you will have the urge to bang every pretty and sexy girl you come across and since you cannot obviously do that, you will fantasise about it most of the time. Still 5 times in a day is a bit on the higher side, being a guy myself I can say that even during my late teens and early 20s it was very rarely more than twice a day. I can understand your jerking off twice or even thrice when you really feel very horny, but 5 times on a regular basis, you are subjecting your penis to a lot.

    First of all let me clarify, there is no lower or upper limit, it varies from person to person, so come out of that feeling that it is wrong. Masturbation is healthy as even Preeto mam or any sexologist says but overdoing it is not.

    In your case, you have to analyse and pinpoint the reason, why you feel the urge so many times in a single day. Could it be that you are watching too much porn and are addicted to it? Do you read too many erotic stories and have porn stored on your PC as well? Occasional porn viewing is something which 90% of males and more than 70% females do it at your age but that means may be once/twice in a week or so. If its happening 5-6hrs everyday, then you certainly need to come out of that and only you can help yourself, no amount of advice will.
    Secondly, as you say you have lot of friends who are girls but could not find yourself a steady gf so far. I can understand viewing or fantasising some of your female friends is ok but then you seem to look at every girl from a sexual angle and purely as a sex object which again is not at all a healthy thinking.

    Finally, marraige will not cause any major problems due to your excessive masturbation as once you get married and get a nice partner, you will automatically find yourself getting away from this habit. The only initial problem that can happen is now you are used to doing this act only and only for self pleasure so when you have a partner, you need to see her pleasures as well and that can be a little frustrating intially. However with time you will learn the tricks of sex and get over. So cheer up and try to follow what I have said. Hope that helps.

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    dude 2-3 per week is advisable but 5tymes a day??W T F c ur age ur jss 25 u shud bttr go out n luk 4 a prostitute rther thn entrtning by urself.nd u thiink ab dis 5tymes a day it seems u dnt hv any work 2 do dude keep urself bsy n avoid being alone search 4 a gud cmpny..........


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    Luk n lstn as carfl as posble.

    D sex cums 4rm d mind.d 1st way z dt,stp thnkng abt sex n stp ur imaginations regrdng sex n d 2nd 1 z,make ur will powr lyk a hell.U really need a will powr hre.N mastrbation,itz juz a matr f tme,whn d time goes,u feel depressed.Whn u feel 2 mastrbte,juz DIVERTur mind,I knw its difficlt 2 divrt da mind,bt nt imposbl.Dnt lt ur mind o heart 2 dominate u,u mst dominate ur mind n heart 2gthr.Datz it.B an intellignt man,try 2 knw whats makng u weakr n whats makng ur decisions dull n cum ot 4rm dis........n othr thng..It has nt bn prvn stl,whthr itz harmful o harmless bt generally,doctr says,mastrbtng 2 tims in a week kps u healthier n nt harmfl nt mre dn 2 tms.Rembr lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by lucky me View Post
    Hi guyz.. i am 25 years old,, am a gud luking guy n gud physic too. i have had lots of girl friends but never had sex with them dunnu why,, sumtime m shy and sumtime i think its sinn to have sex before marriage. on the other hands i am habitual to masterbation.. i was in 7th class to the day m writing this m badly indulge in this habit.. and i m doing it too much i mean sumtime 5 times in a day and i've never given away for even a month in so many years..
    please help me get rid of this disease and also i am worried about my married life too cuz i think by the time i wud b almost unable to entertain my wife as now sumtime it takes me a minut to ejaculate...
    plz give me sincer and serious advice.thnx
    Don't worry about marriage....
    Don't worry about the time u take to ejaculate...
    % times a day is cool........only if ur not hampering ur other actions....like ur studies aren't affected n stuff.
    So other than that its all good!!

    Also i respect u for ur thoughts about pre-marital sex....thats really good for u...!!
    Keep doing what ur doing....!!...U'll be fine!!...

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    I think girls have a lot to learn from you. You are thinking about marriage and that you don't want to lose your virginity.This a very good sign of a well disciplined boy. I guess the number of girls who lose their virginity is larger than the number of boys since many a times 1 boy takes over of 3 to 5 girls in his life time. Anyway, masturbation releases your sexual tension so keep doing it but don't pressurize the little fighter too much Otherwise, it may stop listening to you like the one of the following video. Enjoy!! hahaha!!

    Last edited by fuad2100; 20-03-2011 at 02:20 AM.

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