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    Hi mam,
    I m guy n love a girl alot. She also loved me. We had a 2 years relationship. We live in different cities. From last 4 months, some tensions crept in. i hurt her n she did d same. Some time back, she broke up d relation n said she dont feel d same way as she used to feel. She dont love me anymore. She is happy without me. I love her alot. I have planned my life with her. M very tensed. I can love her only. N living without her is very painful like dieing evryday. can i make her feel d same way again. Help me plz plz. I love her a lot.

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    Try to find out why she broke up.
    May be its some problem of urs, or may be some other guy she is interested in and see if u can rectify any of these and give it a second try. Otherwise u will have to adjust with current situation. Basically trying to forget a person will take time, keep trying..

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    U need to get engaged to something

    Keep ur mind busy. Dont just sit there thinking about past, go out make friends, go for games, enjoy life

    Trick is to fill ur mind with new priorities and new people.
    ANd most importantly avoid every chance of coming in contact with this girl again

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    Well, It depends upon the current situation.....

    If there is a serious problem, take a break, keep u r self busy....But stay in contact with her, call her at least twice a day....let her know that u care for her....

    Don't speak about past things, that would only invite arguments....Talk about general things, mostly about her(How was her day...What she had for lunch... blah blah...)..... Don't expect that she will reciprocate....Just make a sincere effort, Hope for the Best and be prepared for the worst.....
    Doodh maango gey toh kheer denge
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    Default have a sprite.......:)

    May be this is the right decision for both of you...
    Relationships can't be forced....
    Why don't u leave her alone, if she dnt feel same4 u..

    I know it's nt gonna b easy for you, bt wt more you can do, if
    she dnt love you anymore.....
    Mana ki kuch dilon me nafrat hoti hai, par har dil me koi hasrat hoti ha..
    Insaan us ke aage kyu majbur ho jata ha,jis se use bepanah mohabbat hoti ha.............

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    Quote Originally Posted by imeggz_leoness View Post
    May be this is the right decision for both of you...
    Relationships can't be forced....
    Why don't u leave her alone, if she dnt feel same4 u..

    I know it's nt gonna b easy for you, bt wt more you can do, if
    she dnt love you anymore.....
    Mana ki kuch dilon me nafrat hoti hai, par har dil me koi hasrat hoti ha..
    Insaan us ke aage kyu majbur ho jata ha,jis se use bepanah mohabbat hoti ha.............
    Uski fatti padi hai.....aur tuje sahyri sooj rahi hai......
    Doodh maango gey toh kheer denge
    Kashmir maango gey toh Kamal.R.Khan denge


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    I LOVE SHAYARI....
    I WAS JUST TRYING 2 MAKE HIS MOOND...

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    See firstly try to calm down man.
    Secondly, try to get yourself geared up and let the past fade with time and try to concentrate on your future.

    Go and try some meditation...it surely willl help

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    Try to avoid seeing the girl. If u are studying go to a different city and join to a new college


    if u are working, get transferred to a new location.
    This will help u in seeing the girl anymore and u can try to build ur life once again

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    Its good taht u are in different citites. That reduces ur chances of meeting her

    get rid her photos etc from ur room. Also block her from chat, and avoid her online contact completely too...
    Then spend time with ur friends

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