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    Me and my bf broke up 2 weeks ago (full breakup)

    But he was good at sex. (And i am gonna miss it)
    yesterday he called me and said he wants to meet me
    I asked "why"
    and he say "Missing u, just to talk to you"

    i said "we had enough talk, its all ended"
    And then he say that he wants to get close to me.. (physical)
    he wants to have sex for one last time. For old times sake
    I laughed and hang up.. but was thinking about it now again..
    Will it work? should i give him a chance?

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    Will what work? The relationship? Or the sex? Well, you are a consenting adult (I hope) and I do hope that whatever decision you take, it works. Just one thing...if you do have sex with him again, you are likely to open yourself out to getting involved again. Do you want to go through all of that again?

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    You both like ur past sex.
    And u are missing it... he is missing it
    So nothing wrong in trying. Perhaps u can even fix ur relationship problem after u get together

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    Better not to try it..
    coz u broke up.. and it was a complete break up
    If u again go for sex iwth him, it will be restarting things again.
    Keep away from him

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    No... because in past there was atleat a bit of love....

    now there is no love. He just wants sex
    So NOOOOOO...

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    pyaar kahan ha re?

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    pyaar mahobbat dhokha hai
    sex ek lauta bahana hai
    one of the greatest freedom is truly not caring what anyone else thinks of you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Me and my bf broke up 2 weeks ago (full breakup)

    But he was good at sex. (And i am gonna miss it)
    yesterday he called me and said he wants to meet me
    I asked "why"
    and he say "Missing u, just to talk to you"

    i said "we had enough talk, its all ended"
    And then he say that he wants to get close to me.. (physical)
    he wants to have sex for one last time. For old times sake
    I laughed and hang up.. but was thinking about it now again..
    Will it work? should i give him a chance?
    I have just marked few of what u had said in bold..... since its a full and final break up and alls ended mutually than i dont understand what u meant by asking "shud u give him a chance or will it work".... what will work... its all over now.... and on the other hand he has been very clear in what he said... he wants to get physical and have sex with u for one last time... what makes u think that somethings gonna work in here... the only possibility is that if u agree to oblige than he will keep on asking for the favours again and again till the time he finds another one as his gf.... or maybe he will try to enjoy u both...

    if at all u feel that u need to work out on ur relation again... than giving it a chance by being physical is not at all right.... it wud be foolish... so forget it and move on.... relations are not all about sex

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    if u think that u still love him not the physical way..and if u both were committed before break-up..then there is no bad thing to give him second chance..

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    when u ask will it work.....all i hear....is ,...will sleeping with him make him come back to you and loving u?

    Now if that's ur question.....may be possible...
    Well it really depends a lot on why u guys broke up in the first place so...as long as thats sorted out n u guys are willing to forget th epast ....i don't think why it shouldn't work out!!


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    and thats why pre-marital sex scuks !!!!
    I'm in love with your body
    I'm in love with the Shape of You



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    You have already done a lot of sex with him, now having sex with him won't bring anymore changes to your vagina. Do whatever you want. Even you can make a world record by having endless number of sex with him. I thoroughly insult your current status and disrespect your query and recommend you not to ask anything here again. I repeat "Do whatever you want" the vagina will meet the same thing again and will bring no more changes to it ever. Also I insist you to go to hell and make your destiny

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    Hi

    Break Up Sex.. why do we do it?

    Term Break Up Sex is defined as when a couple has decided to break up but wants to have one more go at it. It is also defined as having sex with the intention of breaking up afterwards.

    Couples who have experienced break up sex have stated the the sex more passionate,playful and hot than when they couple was actually dating. Why is this? Experts believe that since there is a break up there no holds barred so to speak. Many believe it can be a better experience when there are no expectations.They have nothing to hide from each other.


    • Some of the dangers of break up sex are that the sex may not end.
    • The relationship is over but the sex is not.
    • It could become one booty call after another if one is not careful.
    • Of course if this is what one chooses that is fine, but it will hinder other potential relationships.
    • This lead to the next point. It is difficult for many if not impossible to separate the act of sex from emotions. It makes break up sex very complicated if a person is overly sensitive, emotional or distraught!.
    • Break up sex can be angry and a little out of control.
    • Focusing on something else is all part of letting go, but sex is not, especially if one is sensitive, emotional or distraught or has the hope that the relationship can be revived. Acceptance is crucial if we are to heal, and break-up sex usually prevents progress, as it cannot bring back what was there in the past.
    • Separating past feelings from the present will help to attach less of one’s pain to the break-up and also help to provide hope, direction and perspective.

    At the end of it, its entirely your call

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    So now its clear why he wants you... SEXXXXXX


    dont be his sex machine.. atleast earlier u had a label of a gf
    but if u agree to his new proposal u will only be his sex machine

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