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    Hello friends, i am 18yrs old guy currently pursuing higher studies. I have met a childhood(we haven't met for the last 9 yrs) friend on facebook a month ago(we haven't met in person). We used to have regular chats on facebook for the past one month. Yesterday she expressed her love to me and i didn't reply to her saying "I need to think". She is cool,friendly and intelligent(she has all the qualities my dream girl has). I think its good to have a life partner like that. But now i doubt that we are just 18yrs old and we haven't met in person for the last 9 yrs so will that be love or infatuation.I don't think it is correct to have such a relationship(with thoughts of love)in this age.Am I correct? what should i tell her?
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    Well, why not tell her exactly what you are saying here. Say that you should be friends now- you like her but are not ready for any relationship or committment and after a few years you both can see what you really want.

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    Ya your age is very little to be worried about such serious things
    Wait few years and in that time, things will get clear automatically

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    Who is forcing to say yes and get committed right now?! Meet her, spend time with her and see how things work. After that u can decide what to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered111 View Post
    Hello friends, i am 18yrs old guy currently pursuing higher studies. I have met a childhood(we haven't met for the last 9 yrs) friend on facebook a month ago(we haven't met in person). We used to have regular chats on facebook for the past one month. Yesterday she expressed her love to me and i didn't reply to her saying "I need to think". She is cool,friendly and intelligent(she has all the qualities my dream girl has). I think its good to have a life partner like that. But now i doubt that we are just 18yrs old and we haven't met in person for the last 9 yrs so will that be love or infatuation.I don't think it is correct to have such a relationship(with thoughts of love)in this age.Am I correct? what should i tell her?
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    Well gotta tell you , you don't seem 18 to me
    and if you really are then mashallah
    you are very intelligent
    about your query , yes 18 is a very young age to
    be in a serious relationship specially its distance one
    you guys haven't met , this is a problem in itself
    think twice and I guess she has to best of luck

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    It actually depends on you how well you are able to manage your studies as well as the relationship. If you think you can handle these two well, then go ahead. But why are you thinking of relationship when you haven't met the girl in person yet?
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    Its good that she told you about her love. But make sure she is seiruos and its not just infatuation. So that can u can escape future heartbreaks

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    9 years long relationship is pretty strong.
    It cant be infatuation... may be its actualy love. Stop worrying, that will make things worse. Concentrate on getting a job and getting independent as soon as u can and then u can marry her or make any choices

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    18 yrs isn't just too soon for love but yeah its very early for commitment. Just tell her that u too like her and are very much into her but u think its too early to give a name to the relationship and get into a commitment and ask her to continue the same way u are now and lets see where this takes u both in the future.

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    Dont worry about whats correct and whats not
    So long as u have no impure thoughts u are fine... pure love is not bad thing. If u can handle it, sex is not bad either. Only when cheating/perversion comes things go bad

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    well...its good that she loves you but you can ask her to spend some time together if you are unsure about the committment...i myself have a relationship in the same manner when i was 18...til now its going great... :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarHin View Post
    Well gotta tell you , you don't seem 18 to me
    and if you really are then mashallah
    you are very intelligent
    about your query , yes 18 is a very young age to
    be in a serious relationship specially its distance one
    you guys haven't met , this is a problem in itself
    think twice and I guess she has to best of luck
    I've just turned 18 last may.

    Quote Originally Posted by galaxy_resident View Post
    It actually depends on you how well you are able to manage your studies as well as the relationship. If you think you can handle these two well, then go ahead. But why are you thinking of relationship when you haven't met the girl in person yet?
    We live in same city and she met me twice after that chat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unregistered111 View Post
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    I've just turned 18 last may.



    We live in same city and she met me twice after that chat.
    Haha okay then . Hi there lil one , do consider what I said
    in my first reply on your query , you are young and distance
    relationships are so hard on even adults , so how will it be for you?

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    Dont worry, its all safe for you
    Because u know each toher from childhood and second reason is, she told about the love to u herself
    U didnt propose.. but she did.. So that shows the love is pretty strong

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