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    Hi all,
    let me tell you my story. I was in relaton with a girl who was already in relation with my friend from last 2 years. The came very close to me in some days as we used to met regularly. We had a relation of about 4 yrs with the girl and we had gone through evry situation and evry type of fun. We both loves each other very much but the main problem is that the girl can not leave her bf and me also. She says she can not live with out both of us and want both of us in her life. That's imposible as I alyaws tells her.

    We both have physical relation also more than her bf and now while getting physical she used to tell me that she have lost intrest in getting physial with her bf. I have tried many times for break off but sometimes I or she makes the situtations for the compromises.

    Now I got married to another girl who us choosen by my family. After break off I got married. Now the problem is that when I used to be make out with my wife I imagine that girl in her and I am not able to forget her. I love how we make out with her.

    Please solve my problem.

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    Well, you know, the thing is that this marriage is the current truth f your life, not the girlfriend that you shared with your friend.

    Ya, you maybe fantasising about her, but it would be better if you start committing yourself totally to your wife and consciously get that girl out of your system. Only you can help yourself here....you will have to make up your mind and make your committments.
    Also, I hope you are not in communication with that girl, if you are please do break it up because that way, you will not be able to do justice to your wife and marriage, ever!

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    I doubt she is confused.. or she is not serious in this relaitonship. Because whsat she say is not practical...

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    It appears to me that you never really loved the girl! You are missing her now not because you loved her but only because you used to sleep with her. Come to terms with reality, man! I can't think how can you miss a girl like her who has been two timing with her bf using you? Your period of fun with that girl is now over, now your wife is everything for you. End all contacts with that girl asap!
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    you will get over it in 1-2 years time............do not worry.......its natural that you tend to imagine a person you are with for 4 years and suddendly you are with some one else..............time will cure things..........

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    with the above post!!

    time will heal everything!

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    If i were in ur place i would never trust or marry such a girl.
    She is having two affairs with two different people at the same time. For me, its bad character..

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    Oh you are missing a gril was your friend's gf as well. She practically used both of you for her selfishness and you still have feelings for her. What a **** are you doing man. You really need to rethink about it. The matter of fact is that you are married and your wife is the only one you should think of.

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    What do u mean by "we went through every type of fun"? are u referring to sex?
    Then this girl is bad charactered...
    Coz after having this much sex with u if she is still wishing to have both guys, she was never honest with either of you

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    U have put urself into deep issues.. This is a very nasty situation.
    Take my advice and get urself out of this mess as soon as u can. Ignore the girl, and avoid all contact with her... this becomes very complicated as the guy is ur friend also. If u continue to stay in this relatioship, this will end up very dirty. This is already late to gteting out

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    Its very clear that the girl is not thinking in a healthy manner..

    the first point to prove my view is that, from past two years she is having a relatioship with ur best friend, but she kept it a secret until recently. So thats hiding it from u... and fooling both the guys

    may be she is actually loving both, but thtas not a healthy love for anybody involved

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    Dude, firstly you were not in a RELATIONSHIP with that girl....It's all about sex. She was practically cheating on her boyfriend and you went along. Did you ever put yourself in her boyfriend's shoes? Both of you enjoyed sex and that's it. Now you're in the REAL WORLD...married and committed. Start a life afresh...You're fantasizing about her cos she may be best sex partner you had. Wake up and smell the coffee.....you have a wife and build your life around her. I don't find the element of 'LOVE' here. It's all an emotional entangle....you'll be fine after a while. Keep it cool. Have a great life with your wife and family

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    Your girlfriends your past and to forget her will take time, as its said time heals all wounds. Love your wife and keep her happy because she's your future and life now.
    Last edited by livelovelaugh; 21-07-2011 at 08:29 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hi all,
    let me tell you my story. I was in relaton with a girl who was already in relation with my friend from last 2 years. The came very close to me in some days as we used to met regularly. We had a relation of about 4 yrs with the girl and we had gone through evry situation and evry type of fun. We both loves each other very much but the main problem is that the girl can not leave her bf and me also. She says she can not live with out both of us and want both of us in her life. That's imposible as I alyaws tells her.

    We both have physical relation also more than her bf and now while getting physical she used to tell me that she have lost intrest in getting physial with her bf. I have tried many times for break off but sometimes I or she makes the situtations for the compromises.

    Now I got married to another girl who us choosen by my family. After break off I got married. Now the problem is that when I used to be make out with my wife I imagine that girl in her and I am not able to forget her. I love how we make out with her.

    Please solve my problem.

    See dude.. Whatever has happened has happened, past is past. Now ur married and u need to be truthful to ur wife. Love ur wife and eventually u will forget the girl.

    Imagine if ur wife thinks of someone else while u people are making out. How would u feel.

    Nothing is impossible yaar, Man could go to MOON, can't u just forget a girl whom u used to date.

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    Quote Originally Posted by milindb1 View Post
    What do u mean by "we went through every type of fun"? are u referring to sex?
    Then this girl is bad charactered...
    Coz after having this much sex with u if she is still wishing to have both guys, she was never honest with either of you

    I dont understand as to why would u say this gal is bad charactered, when all three of them enjoyed whatever fun it was...?

    Why is it that you feel guys are allowed all type of privileges and get away with it and if a gal chooses her path, everyone immediately starts assessing her character..?

    sad....!!!

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