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    hello mam,
    I am 25 years old and I am an interior designer..
    and i hv fallen in love with my best friends ex GF....

    we (me n that girl) both work for same company in same office and we share same cabin...
    so we spend most of our time together (almost from 10am-10pm)
    she also confessed once that she too has started to love me....

    now problem is that if i propose her i might lose my best friend & i really dont want to end up choosing any 1 of them...

    so what should i do now....????
    shall i propose her...???
    would it hurt my best friend....???

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    I don't understand why your best friend should have any problem. She is his ex and if you both love each other you both should confess and go on with it. Your best friend will understand. If best friend wouldn't then who would ?
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    If you are sure that the girl's relationship with your best friend is over, then there's no problem in proposing to that girl. Thats because you are not breaking anyone's relationship and your best friend should find no reason to hate you. But yeah, avoid situations where the girl and your best friend may be together for a long time.
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    if u are all work togther then its an explosive situation.
    May be its better u schange job and go to another company.. otherwise good friendships will end up bad

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    Like others saud why would your bf would have an issue because she was his ex and they are over with. But it does not stop you to love her because you have the right o love anyone you want. Ur best friend needs to understand this. He may feel bad for some time but he will get over it. You are not cheating with him. I mean you are not runining his current relationship (if he is in one). So I don't see any issues with his. Do what your heart tells you to do. If you love her a lot then yes propose her.

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    hello mam,
    I am 25 years old and I am an interior designer..
    and i hv fallen in love with my best friends ex GF....

    we (me n that girl) both work for same company in same office and we share same cabin...
    so we spend most of our time together (almost from 10am-10pm)
    she also confessed once that she too has started to love me....

    now problem is that if i propose her i might lose my best friend & i really dont want to end up choosing any 1 of them...

    so what should i do now....????
    shall i propose her...???
    would it hurt my best friend....???

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