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    Cool Dirty Talking in Bed

    Dirty talking in bed can be a huge turn on for couples if done right. But it can also take its toll on the relationship if not kept in check. Read about the sexy side of dirty talking in bed and its ugly side.





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    Dirty talking in bed

    Once youíve learnt about dirty talking in bed in the introduction, you can see that it can have a huge positive effect on your sexual life.

    Most couples claim theyíre very intimate and loyal to each other.

    They say they donít hide any secrets, and just arenít attracted to anyone else other than their partner.

    Now maybe some people never get attracted to anyone other than their partner, or perhaps theyíve trained their mind and thoughts to stay away from straying.

    But stopping yourself from getting attracted to people of the opposite sex other than your partner is just unhealthy and can be quite boring for the sex life too. After all, you groom yourself and try to look good to attract attention of the opposite sex.

    On the other hand, getting attracted to other people of the opposite sex other than your partner, and attracting good looking people of the opposite sex can boost your confidence and sex appeal, which in turn can make you enjoy a better sexual relationship with your partner.

    Where are we going here? Right to the bottom of the point about dirty talking in bed.



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    The sexy side of dirty talking

    Getting attracted to the opposite sex is natural, and not something that you should feel guilty about. When you indulge in dirty talking in bed and fantasizing about each otherís sexual interests, youíre only admitting that you do get attracted to someone of the opposite sex. Itís a lot better than quietly having sex, while your mindís wandering all over some other personís naked body.

    A lot of couples pretend like fantasizing about someone else or dirty talking in bed about someoneís crush is just terrible and can lead to a break up. But hey, if you can think about having sex with someone in your mind, isnít that just as wrong? And wonít the guilt just build up over the weeks, months or even years?

    Dirty talking in bed about your crush or your partnerís secret sexual crush will help both of you get over the awkwardness of getting attracted to someone else, and will help both of you open up sexually and accept that you can be attracted to someone else. But just because you think it doesnít mean you have to have sex with anyone you have a crush on, right?

    Using the help of dirty talking in bed, you can actually remove the guilt of thinking about someone else, and share your intimate fantasies with your partner, which can be a huge turn on and a intimacy builder.




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    The ugly side of dirty talking in bed

    Yeah, so looks like dirty talking in bed is the sexiest thing on earth, and is all full of benefits and intimacy building. But can it ever go wrong?

    Dirty talking in bed has its downsides too. Imagine this scenario.

    You lie down in bed. The both of you start necking each other. The moan turns into a low whisper. You canít understand much but itís the low voice of your partner that seduces you to listen harder. You get a grip and you listen harder. It all begins to make sense now. Youíre being seduced in a mysterious place. Maybe on a beach, while youíre being massaged by a masseur or at a party when youíre drunk.

    You wanted to make love passionately with your lover, but somewhere along the way, one of you start dirty talking in bed to the other person, and one thing leads to another.

    Very soon, youíve got your dirty talking taking over you, and you begin to imagine a friend, or a stranger satisfying you more than your partner!

    Dirty talking in bed always starts off on a low key. Dirty talking in bed about someone else seduces you softly and subtly, and you wouldnít even realize that youíre being trapped in another world, a world that satisfies you more than your partner at times. Itís a naughty thought that makes you wish it would come true.

    But strangely, at the same time youíre afraid to make it a reality. At times, you wouldnít even need your partner to be around, as long as you have that pleasurable thought about seducing someone else. This is when you get trapped in your own dark world of dirty talking in bed!


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    Gasp, so dirty talking in bed is bad, right?

    Nope, dirty talking is definitely not bad. Itís never bad to indulge in a fantasy or in a role playing game with words. But itís when you really lose yourself in this dream that things turn from explicit to disturbing!

    True, it might be a turn on to imagine the both of you in bed with someone else, and maybe itís great to imagine watching your sweetheart getting groped by many hands. But come on, now really, would you want to see that in reality? Itís this thought that fluctuates in your mind, every now and then, even as youíre locked in a serpentine coil with your partner.

    There is a thin line that can turn that lusty feeling into a really ugly one. At times, a few crude words might slip out, which gets you higher on testosterone. Once your desirous hormones calm down, the haze clears out and your mind snaps back to reality, and the same words hit you like a recoil.



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    Dirty talking in bed about something taboo

    If youíve spoken about something sexual but taboo at the same time, it might seem like a bit of a shock after youíre packed up with sex.You canít imagine having indulged in such perverse conversations. You cringe at the thought of something so taboo, or worse, you begin to enjoy the perverse fantasy and canít get it off your mind.

    Now what do you do?

    If you liked the perverse thought, you cleverly bring up the same conversation at your next romp. If youíve hated it, the thought haunts you as youíre passionately having sex with your lover, and you canít stop thinking about it. What you enjoy talking about in bed may not really turn on your partner, and may only lead to more frustrations if the line is not drawn.

    So no matter how sexy dirty talk can feel while youíre in bed, and no matter how gross or weird you feel after sex, talk about it with your partner. Laugh about something awkward, and tell your partner you donít like talking about someone if it makes you feel uncomfortable. It keeps things simple and yet, exciting.

    It can seem scary, but these are just precautions of dirty talking in bed that we should all be aware of. After all, you canít just talk about your boyfriendís brother or father in bed all the time. Likewise, you canít be talking about having sex with your girlfriendís sister or her mother just to stay turned on, right?

    You may get turned on by them, but itís always easier to bring in a new person once in a while while dirty talking in bed, so you donít get hooked on to one thought while talking in bed.


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