I am a married women and without doing anything wrong i am being punished and in a situation from where only i will be getting all the blame.
From the time this new guy came as our new manager in our IT firm, i have been going through torrid time.He is a dog and has spoiled my entire life.It all started from our official tour where our team went ( 6 odd people ) and this was the place where he first proposed me knowingly i am married. I politely refused as i did not wanted to create a scene and also did not tell my husband as he himself has many work issues and i did not wanted to increase his tension.
He on the 4th night of the tour asked me for a 1 night stand in an indirect way for which i obviously refused but told him to refrain from such things.
Then after few days during an official party we in a group were dancing and he came and started dancing and i immediately went off from dance floor. I love my husband and has always been loyal and i have hidden such things from him just because it would have increased his tensions.
Last month we were on a trip as a team with 3 other people , our few team members as well and during the stay in hotel he again touched me and said that i will go places if we can spend some quality time and i this time threw him away litreally and asked him to be in his limits.
Last week when our team won first rank among other teams i was hugging every member which was a hug for 4-5-6 seconds or max 10 sec. I had to hug him and i dont know how he got the time to make vulgar faces while hugging and also some person took pictures on his behalf. He has so bad facial expressions of cheap type and now he says he will show it to my husband if i do not agree to his demands.
I want to tell this all my husband but do not have the courage that why i hide for so much long. also the pics will prove me wrong because they are real . I am finished and my marriage is on the rocks , what can i do. Please help me.