Cross religion love

Unregistered · 08-10-2011, 05:54 PM

Hello,
there is a guy who loves me a lot and i love him too.we were good friends in college and after sometime he leaves college and i came back to my hometown after completion.in that time we have no conversation but after 2yrs he sent me request via facebook and i accept it.den he propose to me and make me believ that he loves me a lot for past 2yrs.now i am convinced and we have relationship. my problem is that we both belong to different religion but i feel sometimes that do we marry?
my problem is that does i keep this relationship continue or stop here as it is a long distance relationship and we don't talk daily on phone?
wat i do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help meeeeeeee

**imeggz_leoness** · 10-10-2011, 04:49 PM

...i think u dnt love him as much as required 2 get married..!
so better give it one more thought n if ur parents are nt okay wd it leave it here nly..

**Sidon21** · 10-10-2011, 07:29 PM

Think about it nicely before you proceed...it sounds easy to marry and not care about religion but there you might be expected to accept their believes over your own.......if you love him enough to do that then good luck....

**shivani2121** · 10-10-2011, 07:38 PM

before making any decision ...first of all meet him ...get to know him well ..

see if u are compatible to live a life together .meet his family ... because after all u will be living with his family ...and then think of other major decisions ..

**~~**MarHin**~~** · 18-10-2011, 03:36 AM

Hum , cross religions love is a hopeless case!!
You did not even meet her in real , give yourself
and her a chance to meet first but still I suggest
you to stop it here , it will end with the harm for
both of you . Take care.

**sens** · 18-10-2011, 04:51 AM

hi girl!!

having a long distance relationship is not a problem.. being of different caste is not a problem.. if u truly love a person u dont see such petty things.

but now that u r worrying about these issues. seems like u urself are uncertain of ur relation. which implies have faith or give up right now. if have courage to face it all move ahead. if u love him truly u wont mind any such things.

also do find out what is ur guy's opinion about these problems. talk to each other & sort out. maybe if he is serious & ahs more trust in ur relation. he can put in some optimism into you.

good luck.

**galaxy_resident** · 18-10-2011, 11:31 PM

Originally Posted by Unregistered

Hello,
there is a guy who loves me a lot and i love him too.we were good friends in college and after sometime he leaves college and i came back to my hometown after completion.in that time we have no conversation but after 2yrs he sent me request via facebook and i accept it.den he propose to me and make me believ that he loves me a lot for past 2yrs.now i am convinced and we have relationship. my problem is that we both belong to different religion but i feel sometimes that do we marry?
my problem is that does i keep this relationship continue or stop here as it is a long distance relationship and we don't talk daily on phone?
wat i do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help meeeeeeee

Long distance relationship and inter caste relation both have not so high rate of being successful, so make sure your relationship is a strong one as you are in both. On the internet, everything is a bubble, everything seems so easy and solvable but in reality its not so easy. For Inter caste marriage getting consent from parents is the main problem, so if you are successful, your most of the problems will be solved. For a successful long distance relationship, communication will have to be more frequent between you two. Think about everything before continuing this relationship.

**roseboy11`** · 19-10-2011, 02:31 PM

i dont wat happen to girl these day ..
first thing they want to get married ......

**Sweet Mimi** · 19-10-2011, 02:52 PM

If you feel this relationship is not appropriate why did you got into it?? if it happened due to daily talks and you used to him that was something else.. it happened that you got attach emotionally..

but after two years he come and propose you accept thats something else.. if you accepted then the the time you accepting you should have think if this will be a life long relationship!! if you thought about these issues earlier you would not have been in this dilemma...

Hmm now if you see you can distance yourself with little sadness then do so... dont wait for you to get addicted to his presence and then it becomes tough for you to leave....

its a long distance relationship.. personally i dont believe in this... it dont last for long unless you sure you r going to meet the person for sure!!!!

hmmm if you think you going to have parent consent problems then its wiser to move on... take the decision now rather than later at least you will save yourself from deep depression!

**hotfuntalk** · 19-10-2011, 03:39 PM

Hello,
there is a guy who loves me a lot and i love him too.we were good friends in college and after sometime he leaves college and i came back to my hometown after completion.in that time we have no conversation but after 2yrs he sent me request via facebook and i accept it.den he propose to me and make me believ that he loves me a lot for past 2yrs.now i am convinced and we have relationship. my problem is that we both belong to different religion but i feel sometimes that do we marry?
my problem is that does i keep this relationship continue or stop here as it is a long distance relationship and we don't talk daily on phone?
wat i do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help meeeeeeee

Originally Posted by galaxy_resident

Long distance relationship and inter caste relation both have not so high rate of being successful, so make sure your relationship is a strong one as you are in both. On the internet, everything is a bubble, everything seems so easy and solvable but in reality its not so easy. For Inter caste marriage getting consent from parents is the main problem, so if you are successful, your most of the problems will be solved. For a successful long distance relationship, communication will have to be more frequent between you two. Think about everything before continuing this relationship.

If am not wrong, this gal is not talking about inter caste marriage, she is talking about marrying a person from another religion. Intercaste marriage happens when girl is Brahmin, boy is Ligayath then it is intercaste marriage, same religion but different community.

Hindu girl marry Christian boy makes inter-religion marriage.

Hey man..

Well, not discouraging you, but you would definitely want to know the following things,

Both are from different religion, your tradition will be different, his tradition would be different. After marriage either one has to convert to the other religion, if you both agree on it, if not, continue in your own religions, next when kids happen, what are you gonna name them? Which religion will they follow? What will be their names? Kids as they grow up will face questions regarding their names, their parents names. Before all this could happen, your elders would be more worried, as to what will happen to your respective futures as well as theirs.

If elders do agree, then fine, but then once you are into it, there is no turning back!

BOL. . . .

**galaxy_resident** · 19-10-2011, 09:04 PM

Originally Posted by hotfuntalk

Hello,
there is a guy who loves me a lot and i love him too.we were good friends in college and after sometime he leaves college and i came back to my hometown after completion.in that time we have no conversation but after 2yrs he sent me request via facebook and i accept it.den he propose to me and make me believ that he loves me a lot for past 2yrs.now i am convinced and we have relationship. my problem is that we both belong to different religion but i feel sometimes that do we marry?
my problem is that does i keep this relationship continue or stop here as it is a long distance relationship and we don't talk daily on phone?
wat i do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help meeeeeeee

If am not wrong, this gal is not talking about inter caste marriage, she is talking about marrying a person from another religion. Intercaste marriage happens when girl is Brahmin, boy is Ligayath then it is intercaste marriage, same religion but different community.

Hindu girl marry Christian boy makes inter-religion marriage.

Hey man..

Well, not discouraging you, but you would definitely want to know the following things,

Both are from different religion, your tradition will be different, his tradition would be different. After marriage either one has to convert to the other religion, if you both agree on it, if not, continue in your own religions, next when kids happen, what are you gonna name them? Which religion will they follow? What will be their names? Kids as they grow up will face questions regarding their names, their parents names. Before all this could happen, your elders would be more worried, as to what will happen to your respective futures as well as theirs.

If elders do agree, then fine, but then once you are into it, there is no turning back!

BOL. . . .

Thats why I said to think upon everything and then decide. I know all the problems you are talking about in Inter-religion marriage (as you call it), and thats why parents are not ready to give consent to these marriages. So its not going to be easy for her. But then, inter-religion marriages do take place, don't they? And they are successful also - I have seen them myself, though they are very rare.

But I am just taking a neutral stand on her problem. I am not telling her to go against her parents or go for some outrageous. I am explaining her the problems she can encounter.

**Gaala** · 20-10-2011, 12:49 AM

Originally Posted by MarHin

Hum , cross religions love is a hopeless case!!
You did not even meet her in real , give yourself
and her a chance to meet first but still I suggest
you to stop it here , it will end with the harm for
both of you . Take care.

They were friendz in college its mentioned plz read properly before posting.....
@thread owner ur living in 20th century so don't care about such things too much.....

**~~**time_traveller**~~** · 20-10-2011, 01:41 AM

all depends on how much u knw him....if u believe in him and truly love him....then go marry him.....but watever u do.....pls dont end up regrettin it for ur whole life.....so give a good thought to watever u do....

**it matters to me** · 20-10-2011, 02:05 PM

If its love which will stay till the facebook and e mails...its ok but if you both are serious and considering a future together...maybe you both want to ask your parents of their views on you getting marriage outside your cast....as there is no point of you making a commitment to each other now and later breaking each other's heart.....

**roj** · 20-10-2011, 04:47 PM

hello,
"Being in love is one of the feelings which is very difficult to put into words by anyone" but in your case it is thoroughly recommended that you just need to re-think before moving ahead into this relationship of yours because "being in love with someone" and "getting married" have a huge lot of difference.In your case situation is altogether more complicated because as you mentioned that both of you are from different religions. Hence before proceeding ahead you need to think about the various aspects like whether your parents and family or his parents and family will approve this sacrament or not, or will you be able to accomodate with the culture and rituals of their religion and vice-versa.Therefore you are advised to think in a practical manner because this decision of yours will have a firm impact on the lives of those individuals who also owe certain amount in your life.