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    hello madam...i m writing this letter to tell that i have a brother who is reading in class 12th.yesterday i was just checking his wallet and fount a condom inside that.i have not told him about this..should i talk to him first or tell parents?

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    Hi! It really depends on your relationship with him. Do you think it will be more effective if you talk to him or your parents do? If you are older and mature enough to demand an explanation, the please do so. if not, then let your folks handle it.

    The only thing is that at least the boy is thinking about safe sex, although too early in life, but that's a blessing, isn't it? Apart from that, it may not be that he has a sexual partner but just that he's showing off to his friends. whatever the reason, yes, he does need to be asked about it.

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    I think you should talk to your brother about this first as he is mature enough to understand the cause of concern. If you tell this directly to your parents, they may make a big issue out of this and embarrass him. Ask him what the condom was doing in his wallet, though its normal for boys of his age to feel curious about sex and these sort of stuff, so ist possible that he may have got it just out of curiosity.
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    Well I strongly feel that ur bro had that piece of plastic just out of curiosity and not for the intention of having an intercourse with someone. Its quite normal at this age. Even we were curious in our time and once we did ask a friend to get it..
    And if the case is really the way I feel it to be, then it will be a hell of an embarrassment for him if u or ur parents confront him with it!! I would suggest instead of any confrontation u just keep a tab on him. Take any step only if u get others hints of him having an affair with someone or him trying to seduce someone..

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    even if u confront him or if u tell ur parents the issue will not be resolved ...it might in fact sour relations between u two ...

    acc to me u shud have a chat with him generally abt sex and its precautions ,,because u dont want him thinking that my sibling is

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    If you have any cousin, get him/her ask your brother about this. I think it would more than disguisting thing fro him if he gets to know this directly from his own sister. So get a help from any cousin if you have any!

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    Well talk to your brother about it because it could be many reasons, like maam said that he is just showing it to his friends or maybe it is some sort of a health class thing... You know some people come from the health units and they can hand out comdoms. But just dont go bashing on him. Just talk to him nicely. I am sure that he will understand.
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    tell him that still he has plenty of time to this sort of things....
    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    hello madam...i m writing this letter to tell that i have a brother who is reading in class 12th.yesterday i was just checking his wallet and fount a condom inside that.i have not told him about this..should i talk to him first or tell parents?
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    No, don't tell your parents, instead, the best thing you can do is go out and buy a book which gives a comprehensive cover about sex education, the dangers, fatherhood, responsibilities and the importance of family values. When he's not around, leave it in his bedroom and pretend you don't know anything. Go about your business as normal and be there for him if he has any questions.

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    Hii!!!!

    You can talk to Your brother about it first.. see what he has to say. If he is younger than you,you can educate him about sex ethics & moral values. If u feel embarrassed you can ask your parents help.
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    its bad to check others wallet

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    I love this comment !!! best comment !!!

    Quote Originally Posted by souravakshay View Post
    its bad to check others wallet

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    He's got the knowledge already thts why the condom is there I guess or may be he wants to see how it is and how it feels to wear
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    never check anybody's wallet ........u have already broken the "privacy" rule.....and now dont break another by telling this to anyone... ...keep it with yourself.....and when your brother gets married and has kids......then only ask him......"Did u even used that condom?" ......
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    Safe sex peace...............
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