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    hi buddies i was in love with a guy since past 5 years. now he got engaged and has move on,well he did broke my trust nd all those loves tlaks which we use 2 do...now i cnt move on when eva i watch movie or sad songs i cry a lot my heart is hurting me and im bein finkin of commitin sucide,,,he doesnt bother all he did was caled me and emaild me once jus o say he miss me and wants to meet me. i havent replied hem bak and havent even asked hem for reasons why he did this to me. but deep down am missing hem like what cn i say its too much plz help me..why did he do this he knew my love for hem was pure and i wud die if he marrys sum1 else,,ther ws one thing abt us he was average looking and im very good looking cud this be a reason or wot he blames his parents which i fink is lie.........

    i cry a lot at night time and seeing couples holding hands i cry cry cry help me plz

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    Well, looks like you are going to have to get strong about the wish to move on and then make yourself do it! I agree that it’s heartbreaking to bid adieu to a partner who has been with you for so long and very hard to deal with being jilted, the way you have. But, for your own self preservation, you just have to let the past rest and ready yourself to get over this and get stronger.

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    u were deeply in love ..it will take time to adjust to the fact that the cheat is not around anymore to fill ur emotional and physical void.
    I hope u realise that u r just wasting ur time crying for this guy ,,,,will u get this time back .??????

    .move on in life ..that guy has chosen someone over u ... please understand this fact.!!!!

    when u see couples holding hands realise this that the cheat is also enjoying with his chosen partner .
    ...Make up ur mind to live ur life .
    start working ...make new friends ... and most importantly start bonding with ur family .
    This guy is a jerk and he is not worth ur tears....
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    Quote Originally Posted by shivani2121 View Post
    u were deeply in love ..it will take time to adjust to the fact that the cheat is not around anymore to fill ur emotional and physical void.
    I hope u realise that u r just wasting ur time crying for this guy ,,,,will u get this time back .??????

    .move on in life ..that guy has chosen someone over u ... please understand this fact.!!!!

    when u see couples holding hands realise this that the cheat is also enjoying with his chosen partner .
    ...Make up ur mind to live ur life .
    start working ...make new friends ... and most importantly start bonding with ur family .
    This guy is a jerk and he is not worth ur tears....
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    well said.....in addition to this I'll just like to add up one more thing...at times it's been observed that the person trys to make a come back(emotionally only)......plzzzz plzzz plzzzzz....try to analyse the come back. People often take advantage of the situation. You really have to make a strong come back into your life again. Remember you are born on this erath not for some jerk, who plays. Your parents gave birth to you and you are a live dream of thm. Hurting yourself would be like killing your dear ones dream. Go back where you firstly met this person in your life. yeah must have had spend a lot of time peroid with him. But my point is simple look what you were before meeting him. Get back that awesome innocency of yours. See the world like you used to see earlier. Call up some old forgetten frnds. Tie them up with your present life. Move on......move on...move on....(If you believe in God, than remember that he makes us meet with ppl for some reason....and yeah he makes them go away from us too for a reason).....his way of working is unknown. But trying to end up your life(so that you can ask GOD directly "WHY" all this ........STOP....cause GOD Don't talk to ppl who reject his most beautiful gift to anyone.."LIFE".....wait...as he already might have send some angel for you....just wait....and be ready to greet him... ...God Bless You...my frnd..

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    * Every good thing in life is meant to end... otherwise they lose their worth.. if u really loved him.. the moments u spent together should bring a smile on your face too.. well getting emotional over the memories is totally human but crying over the memories is just insulting your love... If the guy has cheated on you.. he will sooner or later pay for it.. but sweetheart why waste your life or precious time over something that is not going to happen again
    * Whatever happens.. happens for good... so just be optimistic.. he is no longer with you coz you deserve someone better,, though it may seem absurd at this time but trust the one and only up there.. he has something great in store for you.. it's just not the right time yet..
    so buddy.. go out with friends.. enjoy your life coz you no matter how much you cry over that person.. you aint getting this time of your life back..
    May god bless you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    hi buddies i was in love with a guy since past 5 years. now he got engaged and has move on,well he did broke my trust nd all those loves tlaks which we use 2 do...now i cnt move on when eva i watch movie or sad songs i cry a lot my heart is hurting me and im bein finkin of commitin sucide,,,he doesnt bother all he did was caled me and emaild me once jus o say he miss me and wants to meet me. i havent replied hem bak and havent even asked hem for reasons why he did this to me. but deep down am missing hem like what cn i say its too much plz help me..why did he do this he knew my love for hem was pure and i wud die if he marrys sum1 else,,ther ws one thing abt us he was average looking and im very good looking cud this be a reason or wot he blames his parents which i fink is lie.........

    i cry a lot at night time and seeing couples holding hands i cry cry cry help me plz
    Hello Dear, relationships are difficult to get over, no doubt but this one has left you. Everyone heals by their own measure. You will get through this. Please no sucide. Think about the people who love you: your parents, your friends, and most importantly God. Move on with this though in your mind: someone in the world is looking for you and they want you! Good Luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by umang123 View Post
    well said.....in addition to this I'll just like to add up one more thing...at times it's been observed that the person trys to make a come back(emotionally only)......plzzzz plzzz plzzzzz....try to analyse the come back. People often take advantage of the situation. You really have to make a strong come back into your life again. Remember you are born on this erath not for some jerk, who plays. Your parents gave birth to you and you are a live dream of thm. Hurting yourself would be like killing your dear ones dream. Go back where you firstly met this person in your life. yeah must have had spend a lot of time peroid with him. But my point is simple look what you were before meeting him. Get back that awesome innocency of yours. See the world like you used to see earlier. Call up some old forgetten frnds. Tie them up with your present life. Move on......move on...move on....(If you believe in God, than remember that he makes us meet with ppl for some reason....and yeah he makes them go away from us too for a reason).....his way of working is unknown. But trying to end up your life(so that you can ask GOD directly "WHY" all this ........STOP....cause GOD Don't talk to ppl who reject his most beautiful gift to anyone.."LIFE".....wait...as he already might have send some angel for you....just wait....and be ready to greet him... ...God Bless You...my frnd..
    well said UMANG...
    toatally agrree wid dat...

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    First of all don't come to conclusions so fast. I understand that you loved him and the relationhip was 5 years long. But there can be other reasons he got engaged to another girl and he just can't justify it right now. Maybe his family is presurising him at the moment and he is dealing with the same thing as you are...

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    life has both the reasons to be worst and most beautiful
    reason for life being worst- v get hurt by sumone & get attached to it forevr,bt whole world will move on including tht person.
    reason for being beautiful-v get hurt n move on further for happiness and v leave the sadness behind.


    so u choose ur reason for urself....
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    Quote Originally Posted by hopeful View Post
    well said UMANG...
    toatally agrree wid dat...
    thanx for noticing dear frnd......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeto Maam View Post
    Well, looks like you are going to have to get strong about the wish to move on and then make yourself do it! I agree that it’s heartbreaking to bid adieu to a partner who has been with you for so long and very hard to deal with being jilted, the way you have. But, for your own self preservation, you just have to let the past rest and ready yourself to get over this and get stronger.
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    you are having all the sympoms of a person who was loyal & betrayed in love. try to control ur emotions. feeling suicidal is the worst. plz dont feel like that. it hapens to everyone. just try to keep yourself happy.

    about his call:..tell him not to contact yo. dont ever meet him. else your situation will be worse.

    sometimes people do like this the break heart of person who loves them most. just dont ask yourself why did that to you.. he just did it. now u have to survive it.


    to ease ur pain:

    * if u have any gifts/emails/cards from him,dispose them.. burn them

    * dont go to places where u went together,dont see movies u saw together[if they make cry]

    * dont listen to sad songs.

    * eveyday deide that YOU WILL FORGET him.. try to b cheerful & happ.

    * keep urself busy... eg:get a new hobby.
    Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.

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