Sorry to say ur BF is a super duper looser. U r also a looser who trusts that looser. Happiness is not someone but feeling we get with someone. He is not that someone. U shudnt destroy ur life for somebody who doesnt has 0.001% respect for u.I am 23 years old girl and my bf is 26 years old. Both of us are well settled working in software companies. We were in relationship for 3 years. He had proposed me and in the beginning after proposing he started telling we cant marry as we belong to different caste. I decided to break it so started neglecting him. But later on he consoled me that he will convince at his home and i became more serious.
2.5 years everything was fine except that we were fighting for small issues like he was not calling me everyday and was not meeting me weekends also. Apart from this he was very caring and he loved me a lot.
6 months back my parents started forcing me for marriage and i started forcing him. He said he will be speaking to his parents and he spoke to his parents and they dint agree. After that i begged him many times to take me to his house so that i can speak to his parents and try to convince them. We used to fight a lot on this issue.
Few days back i fought with him to take me to his house and he promised me to take me to his house one day. The day he was supposed to take me to his house he called me and said he wants to break u. I got scared and asked him why and he said he cant convince them and he needs time. but i had got a proposal and my parents were forcing me to agree for the same. So i decided to speak to his parents and called them.
To my shock when i called his parents i came to know that he has not told anything about our relationship and he was lieng all these days that he spoke and they are not agreeing. When i asked him why he did so he said he never wanted to marry me and he was scared that if he leaves me i will commit suicide or go to his place and create scene so he lied.
After this i tried to convince him a lot to forget everything and come back to me but he never agreed. Even my friends tried to convince him and he has told my friends i was fighting a lot so he decided to leave me.
I contacted his friends and they said that he has told them i had gone behind him even after telling that he doesnt love me. I contacted his sister and she told me that he has told the same that i am going behind him and she also abused me. We fought with each other. He has told his family that we never met we were just friends and i was forcing him for money. they all believe that i went behind him.
Now we dont have any contact and i am confused about what to do next. I have rejected 3 proposals and my friends are scolding me to not to reject any more and to forget him and move on. I tried a lot but i am not able to forget anything. What should i do now kindly suggest.