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    Hi

    I am a 20 Year old girl
    I am in love with a guy. I met him online in a chat room 4 years ago

    Since 2.5 years we are in a relationship - again we have never met
    he is not in my city - 3 years older to me
    he did not share his real location and name to me initially
    he did not have any social networking profile as well for me to verify

    I proposed to him online again
    He officially gave me a confirmation after 1.5 years stating that yes we will be in a relationship
    But I was ok with it as his brother had informed me his true location and name and I did not have issues waiting for him for a long time
    my guy wanted time to settle down before he tells me a yes and commits with me
    His entire family knows about me
    I could not tell my family I am still in college

    he always supported me and was with me in my times of need and has loved me from the bottom of his heart
    I have certain health problems and he has always been with me and supported me

    now my problem is that i used to chat not very appropriate things with random online chat room people
    i did so with around 6 to 7 people
    but then when i got serious into his relation
    i stopped communicating with those random online people anb blocked them

    now he has accessed my email account and read all my chats and mails sent to those random online people
    and wishes to break up and end the relation
    I do want to change and make up for my mistake
    I do want to give my relation a 100%
    But he is not giving me a chance
    I know it is my mistake
    I have never met him in real life but still love him and want to spend my life with him

    What do i do?

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    hehe.. what have I just read here? Seriously girl, you were on a roll. Had things been better in your apparent relationship, you would have married him online, played 'the house' online with a pet, some virtual babies, and when it all fell apart, perhaps head for a divorce online too?

    I don't have an answer to your question but I think its about time you step out of this virtual world and realize your relationship. Basing lifetime-decisions on frivolous online chats is quite unwise.

    Also, the inappropriate chats with 6 to 7 people previously indicates that you may have entered the relationship out of desperation. Add to that your health issues, and neither you or your partner know what you are getting into, in reality of course. So try and give it another thought while you're already taking time out.

    As far as your problem is concerned, "online" break-ups and patch-ups are as effortless as the mouse click. It all takes one click. So while I can almost predict you two getting back together again, I would assume the relationship to be sinusoidal ride. Beware of frequent highs and lows.

    Good luck.
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    first of all this is ur virtual love..u havent met him in real..thats the big problem to get in this relationship and get commted from his side..and he also goe ur email access..now he is giving the reason of reply u made to that random people..get out of this virtual love...

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    Move on if you did not meet nor he talked to your parents or took any serious step in your relationship.
    It will not work, its not real. Take care.


    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hi

    I am a 20 Year old girl
    I am in love with a guy. I met him online in a chat room 4 years ago

    Since 2.5 years we are in a relationship - again we have never met
    he is not in my city - 3 years older to me
    he did not share his real location and name to me initially
    he did not have any social networking profile as well for me to verify

    I proposed to him online again
    He officially gave me a confirmation after 1.5 years stating that yes we will be in a relationship
    But I was ok with it as his brother had informed me his true location and name and I did not have issues waiting for him for a long time
    my guy wanted time to settle down before he tells me a yes and commits with me
    His entire family knows about me
    I could not tell my family I am still in college

    he always supported me and was with me in my times of need and has loved me from the bottom of his heart
    I have certain health problems and he has always been with me and supported me

    now my problem is that i used to chat not very appropriate things with random online chat room people
    i did so with around 6 to 7 people
    but then when i got serious into his relation
    i stopped communicating with those random online people anb blocked them

    now he has accessed my email account and read all my chats and mails sent to those random online people
    and wishes to break up and end the relation
    I do want to change and make up for my mistake
    I do want to give my relation a 100%
    But he is not giving me a chance
    I know it is my mistake
    I have never met him in real life but still love him and want to spend my life with him

    What do i do?

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    seriously girl if you areloving someone whom you met on net,you are going to regret it later am sure

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