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    Hi recently my GF got a job and she went to Bangalore for training. Before that she was very caring and loving. After she returned from there her behavior towards me changed. She stopped talking properly to me. Before we used to chat and I being a romantic type used to please her in every way possible but now she doesnt wants to talk that way and always tells she does not feels that way anymore but yet she says she loves me. Past few days I have observed that her phone was waiting at night while she told me that she is going to sleep. Well....Is this the sign that there is another affair going behind my back?? Because the girl she was I dont want to believe this from my heart....but as per my brain this is a very common sign of cheating.....

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    Well, it could be that- or it could be something else. Why don't you just ask her to clarify the situation with you so that at last you know whats happening in the reationship. Once you know why her behaviour has changed, at least you can deal with it- otherwise you'll just be left wondering as to what's happening and making yourself miserable.

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    Yes. This all happened after she met me. You better find someone else.

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    i bet, she has found someone else in her life which is causing less attention and interest in you!! move out of this relationship!!!! dont keep waiting for the day you get a shocked!
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    you just realized it..!she met someone...is too interested in him..and is either in the process of falling for him or is already a couple and is slowly trying to get rid off you..if she had truly loved you,she would not have even found interest in someone else....confront her and kick her out of your life...
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    Just ask her upfront if she wants to continue or breakup.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    now its your turn to find a new gf.....good luck.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc88 View Post
    Hi recently my GF got a job and she went to Bangalore for training. Before that she was very caring and loving. After she returned from there her behavior towards me changed. She stopped talking properly to me. Before we used to chat and I being a romantic type used to please her in every way possible but now she doesnt wants to talk that way and always tells she does not feels that way anymore but yet she says she loves me. Past few days I have observed that her phone was waiting at night while she told me that she is going to sleep. Well....Is this the sign that there is another affair going behind my back?? Because the girl she was I dont want to believe this from my heart....but as per my brain this is a very common sign of cheating.....
    Why would you wanna get down to the level of guessing if she is having an affair ? You're better than that.

    Look brother, I always believe that Love and Self Respect are equally important in life. If she is ignoring you, you should respond with equal ignorance. Instead of insisting her to talk to you, let her know that she is free to find time for you, if not, you don't mind.

    Trust me, the harder you try to hold on, the more you're gonna lose. Just let her loose and expect nothing.

    G'day

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    If she met me in Pune airport and the Spice Jet flight to Bangalore was delayed, I am really sorry to have caused this problem. But, I swear, she did not tell me that she was in a relationship. And I did not ask.

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    Might well have received some desirable attention which has made her think twice about you. Is she to blame for that? I don't think so, not entirely anyway. Though you may think this is a breach of loyalty - do bear in mind that she is not totally committed to you as yet and does have a right to reconsider anything that she wants.

    If she is envisaging a better future with someone else it's only natural for her to do that. Each of us want what is best for us in the long haul after all. She might be fond of you as well as someone else and is simply confused on what to do. Telling small lies seem to be an excuse that she's using to buy some time alone away from you up until she makes a correct decision. Bite the bullet, honour that distance, give her the time and don't try and contact her anymore. Let her come to you instead and prove her worth.
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    hi dear... she might be cheating..... but their is no evidence....
    But she is not interested in you this is clear... from her action...... way she says that "she does not feel that way anymore" is a sign... that she is now not interested in you....
    my advice would be..... ask her out clearly that what is in her mind... if she shows any sign of non interest then please leave her as soon as possible....... so be bold an handle situation and have clearity in life.......

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