Am a 28 y.o. govt. employ.. Am dating a 28 y.o. girl colleague for past 1 year.. I joined this job 2 years back while she has been here for more than 8 years.. There are many people in our office who say that she used to have sexual relations with the head of our current office 5-6 years back who retired before i joined the department.. He was married and more than her fathers age.. Now i don't know how to ask her.. Is there any way how i can find the truth or make her confess without making a mess of our relation if it turns out to be false..