I am a 26 yr old guy, currently unemployed (but not for long) and my problem is that i don't like Kids so much and i can't bear to take their responsibility. I want to pursue my dreams and my hobbies and not be burdened with avoidable responsibilities. I feel that once i have kids i wont be able to do what i want and would get stuck in a rutty monotonous life. I would love to get married but i know i will find it difficult to find a wife who will share my views and not want to have kids. As i know its a natural thing for all women to want to have kids. I want to live my life on my own terms without anyone telling me what to do and wat not to. But that does not mean i am not open for an advice. I want to feel free all the time and happy as well. So i want u to tell me whether this is a temporary phase or its not going to change.
P:s:- I do love to hang out with some specific type of kids (especially the non-crying ones) but not for long and as long as they are some one else's.