Hello everyone...i am Ishita from Mumbai....i am married and its been a little more then 5 years.....my husband and i am having poor relations since past 2 years.....reason is that he left our home i mean my in laws home and left to live in with a girl whom he fell in love before our marriage and he hid it from me and my parents....he married under pressure....but left me after 10 months of our marriage......his parents said he will come back n blah blah
But it never happened and today its been more then 4 years that i am just waiting for him to return....i talked to him many times and he says he does not love me but i am his responsibility and he will take my expenses....this thing hurted me and i slapped him in front of his parents as my frustration was out of proportion as this thing hurted me....what expenses will he take care of....i asked him before his parents that was this the reason he married me to take care of my monetary issues....i said that i earn good enough to take care of his family and his younger brother who is preparing for college entrance.
I told him to get lost and at least free me and divorce me if he can not come and live with me and live a normal married life which i am deprived of since 4 years.. He has not spent time with me since 4 years and i warned him to either leave me or i will take action.
I thought his parents will support me but when we reached home they blasted me and said i was so cheap and derogatory...they said how could i think of divorce and am i involved with some other men in office or what is reason and said he can easily help his brother as he is the child of this home and i can not stop him.
I am shocked by this attitude of my in laws , i expected them to support me and not question me or my character, i thought that they take me as their daughter....his brother takes me as his sister but they all questioned me and my morals.
I feel all my emotions of past 4 years i lived for these 3 people my parents in law and brother in law. and in return i get this from them. I want them to respect me for my decision as i want to live a life of a normal girl .
Very next day my great husband called me and said that how dare i think of divorce and talked to his parents like that. He said he will divorce me but i need to be sorry to his parents.
I did not say sorry as i think i was not wrong anywhere. He said i am being adamant and jealous of his life and success. Madam what should i do now. Should i be sorry to his parents and brother for saying that i want to remarry and want a divorce , for how long i need to live this sick life of no love , if yes then please tell me for what i need to say sorry.