Should I walk away or try more?

[Unregistered]

hi mam
I have a known this girl for a while.we rarely talked (once in month).tht too as friends.i started to develop feelings
so finally dated the beautiful girl a few days ago..after her saying she was busy quite a few times earlier we finally met.(she's working odd hrs)
The date went so-so bcoz as soon as we met she metioned other guys had been chasing her earlier.n i got a little upset at start.but it went well later on.she held my hand when we were crossing roads n even shared food but i didn't ask her out again on the date.after thinking a bit.i asked her again via phone.and she said she's busy again.she even said she's busy next 2 week so should i walk away b4 getting hurt ...or wait

[Preeto Maam]

Hi!
Listen, just play by ear, will you. Don't push it. You're a bit uncomfortable about this whole scenario and she's busy too, so take a deep breath and see how it pans out. Don't go for it unless you are totally convinced that you would hit it off or she wouldn't break your heart.

[o00]

Give it some time, have patience. Things might get worse if you try to make them happen quickly. Try to find out from her if she is ready wants to be in a relationship.. looks like she is not ready yet (and we can't say if she wants or not)

[sens]

HIi!!!


girl had been honest in letting u know that other men tried for her... u should not feel bad .. she was just honest & frank..

& holding hands & sharing food.. is nothing done special.. she might ahve done in just friendly manner also..
just go slow... dont be too eageror restless... like u already know she reallly is busy..so just be frank & tell he u like her.. & ask her opinion... tell her to call u on date when she is free...

find out if she really is so busy or just avoiding you.

dont have too high hopes..just be subtle & try.. so that u dont get hurt if she isnt interested.. & if she s interested u should not loose her.

[RoleModel007]

I am no expert but this may help:
- Mardie Hasleton who studies speed dating from an evolutionary point of view suggests "men underestimates womens sexual interests, better for a guy to try and fail than not try at all".
- An American sitcom had the following "A woman loves it when the guy comes back and fights for her, sweeps her off her feet and takes her. It's about making someone feel wanted with a dramatic display of intense emotion. It's about the passion, being overwhelmed. That's irresistible to women, but you'll never hear a girl say it because it sounds kind of rapey".
and i leave it to you to decide.