Confused about marriage
This would be the last place where I would have thought of putting my confusion, but as many a people know me here, I finally took courage to put it here.
Bahut confusion he ki kiss type ki ladki se shaadi karoon.
I have seen my friends who have gotten married.
For eg one of my friend got married to a dehati, gaon ki type girl. End result, got a wife, who cannot add up to family income. Now that guy is telling, i should have married a working type girl.
Another of my friend got married to a working girl, and now complains that wife not there to take care of household.
ON the other hand I have seen lot of instances of people who say its better not to get married at all, seeing my brothers plight after he got married. He has had a troubled marriage and in turn we as a family were put in trouble multiple times. He was silent type only always calm and composed until one day he got fed up of nagging wife and her tantrums of throwing vessels and nicely beat her and ended up in trouble.
One of my friend after twelve years of marriage is telling, there is really no point in getting married, whats the gaurantee that your partner will remain by your side until you breath the last. Whats the point that your partner will always be loving and caring. I should not have gotten married at all, if I knew this was in store for me in the future.
So itna sab dekne sunne ke baad kya karein banda?
Uske oopar akele rehjane ka darr bhi aati kabhi kabhi.
What to do?