So here are the details - There is this girl I met and I like her .Funny part is I have been a player all along until I met her but fate has it ,there have been two three incidents which have happened ,which are basically making me re-evaluate my stance on this relationship.Background- She is 3 years elder to me,a divorcee,that isnt a issue with me and to those who dont know we met via shaadi.com.Nevertheless she pretty much came clean about her past very much including the shitty marriage she had ,except one fact which happened after her divorce ,basically there was this guy who now was bothering her and sorta stalking her ,and she did make it clear to him that she didnt wish to meet him or associate with him anymore and the background that she gave me was that he was a family friend and their parents at one point post her divorce wanted them to get married ,but things didnt materialize .So i wasnt interfering because it was between two family friends and I just thought the guy was a total looser.But this sunday while I was at her place ,I found one of her old phone and curious that I am ,I opened the text messages between this guy and her and there were I love yous and I miss you .Now after realizing I found out ,she came clean about it and told me that she didnt tell me about him only because this thing lasted for 8-10 days and she was vulnerable and thats why the I love yous and all ,n there was nothing and it passed .Now what I dont understand is I am 24 ,and I might have been with more that 100 girls since my job involves a lot of travelling ,and I dated a couple of girls too for a year or more but never have I said I love you to anyone .She claims they were together for only 10 days and she said I love you ,but nevertheless I wanted to believe her and I let this one go .Today when we met I saw some guys mesg where he was sending her kisses and then she was asking him if they can talk on Skype >? I dont understand if she has a bf ,why is there the need to talk to another guy who isnt even her friend whom she again met long time back on shaadi.com and they didnt click but now she claims they are good friends and they talk once or twice on skype ? Is that normal ? I am really confused or u can say vulnerable because of my feelings for her ,and if there are any ladies who could give me some advice ,would be much appreciated.If she is fooling around with me and keeping her options open or is it normal whats happening and I am just over reacting ??
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